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Fake Depression Looking For Attention
i hate this..people who are "depressed" and "want to die"..and all that jazz.. that talk about it out loud.. all the time.. for attention.. and you knoww it.. you knoww it.. arg.. its soo anoying..and they dont do anything to help themsleves.. you give them ... good resources.. or things to do to help themselves.. but they give you some bull shit answer why thet cant or how it wont work..after that i give up...? i just dont get it.. dose anyone else know ppl liek this ?
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--Joanne :P |
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yea they may be serious about it but if they wanted to really kill themselves.. they wouldnt tell other ppl who would try ti stop them..and they would have already done it.. they dont have the will for it.. believe.. me.. i have seen more depressed ppl then you could believe.. ive had to work with them
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*edit* another big misconception is that people who commit suicide are depressed. many actually aren't, and some appear very calm and at peace with themselves. --Joanne :P Last edited by Joanne; Apr 20, 03 at 11:44 AM. |
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Suicide myth #1: people who often talk about their own suicide won't actually following through with the act. Take a first year Psych course hunny |
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^ i took first year psych, twice... i found that everything in psychology is nothing but a blurr. To me, it's barely a science you can trust,
i DO believe that especially in highschool, there are attention seekers who use suicide as a means for attention. I've had to put up with one, manipulative, bitch. didn't mean that I didn't at least take the proper "precautions" yadayada... but ya know, there are fakers out there. there are those who manipulate. |
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Last edited by yoko*; Apr 20, 03 at 12:31 PM. |
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some people know no other means of grabbing others' attention.
you can't completely blame them, a lot of kids' parents probably spent their training days on math, science and ettiquite, rather than social skills. these kids probably learn how to grab attention by watching dogs do it. start wimpering, and someone will come around and rub your belly... works everytime. and a lot of kids grow up without hands on roll models. they have to learn their lessons in life from television. what 14 year old didn't see an episode of dawson's creek, and realize that the best way to get a girl in your pants is to act all down and out until someone comes to cheer you up? |
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i had a friend who commited suicide... he never called for help... so no one knew his thoughts.
my bros gf made an attempt, but last minute called him and he got her ot the hospital intime to pump her stomach. yes alot of people do use it as a cry fro attention... but that doesnt mean you should get mad with them. ive had the fake friends as well who try to cut their wrists with like plastic knives... pathetic yes, but i mean think how messed up they actually are to even attempt stupid shit like that. there definately isnt enough passion out there now... not enough people care anymore for others, people are always too busy. and in this soceity its very hard to grow and be independent. we may think we are, but we all reach out for someone elses hand wether we deny it or not. its something everyone struggles with at some point in their life, everyone hits the low point, everyone ends up crying themselves to sleep. sometimes people need help with that... dont be mad at them for it. |
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i know what you mean .. yes i haave and know a couple ppl that have committed suicide.. and yes its sad that ppl fake and do stupid shit like plastic knives.. but no one really seems to realize how lucky they are to have what they have and have the friends they have.. and so on and so forth you know what i mean ..
and about your brothers g.f shes lucky to have him .. because.. i had done the same thing once...and i the knife in my hand then the phone rang and it was my friend Aaron calling just to tell me he loved me.. and well that did it for me.. i realized 5 min after that .. that i was selfish even to think of doing it...but no one knew that i was depressed or that i hated life...it was something...that every one found out after.. and my pearents took me.. to a counsolor.. and err i hate them soo much .. they dont help me..but enough about my life story .. it doesnt matter.. i wish nothing but the best for every one else but just try to be happy and get attention by being loud instead of "wanting to die" thank you -batgirl |