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Apr 27, 03
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Bad party hosts!
Has anyone ever been invited to a party/gathering and you ask the host who else is comming and they don't tell you? So you go, and find out that its really hurting, but you can't leave cause your kinda obligated to stay?! And to top it all off the host is just bad and bitchy! This is for everyone to bitch about there bad party experiences becasue of rude or hurting hosts!!!! Go for it let a load off! (Oh yeah and your night just could have been so much more productive and fun!!!! )
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Apr 27, 03
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Hahahahah!!!!!!!! Why wont she tell me who's going!?!? lol...just like her last party...oh man I felt so bad for u guys staying..hehhehe and thats why we're NOT going tonite :P
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Apr 27, 03
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Hopefully you put into account that they have a bunch of, most likely disrespectful, people they may or may not know running around their house. And the fact that you love everyone there and have a great time isn't their first priority or their responsibility.
I've thrown too many parties at my house and its really stressful and sometimes gets out of hand. Alot of the people don't respect you or your house, you have to run around being a maid and a babysitter etc. Preventing and dealing with shit that shouldn't happen being done by people that are either disrespectful, too roudy, or drunk as hell. Trust me, it's alot of work and depending on the size of the party and the people that get in (it's not always possible/easy to regulate what people, and what amount get in) the host or hostess may come off as rude or bitchy because of that. You do have to take into consideration that this may/will happen when you throw a party, but it's hard to deal with it all if it does and NOT get flustered or bitchy. BUT I have been to places where the host(ess) is a complete, unprevoked fuckass. Even after being friendly and offering to help with anything she needed out of respect for her letting us in her house (which is not something that happens often so they should take advantage of it when it does happen). That's the one and only time I've ever done a number on a part of their house. I strongly discourage disrespecting and especially messing up, vandalizing or stealing from this persons house, but after a few beers and being treated that way after going out of my way to help; covering the bathroom in toothpaste and shampoo is slightly satisfying :kam:
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Apr 27, 03
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^^^^
I totally agree with you. It is hard when u are the host and have a buch of unwanted peoples being totally disrespectful in your house, thats not cool! What i'm trying to get at is not so much wild and out of control parties, but social gatherings where you have been invited, and u put in the effort to go, because the host totally begs you to go, you feel sory for him/her they promise you'll have fun and yet you dont!- due to the idoiticy and lying (just to get people to come) of the host! And in most situations yes you wouldn't stick around or u would make your own fun! But im talking about the times where you just can't leave cause its just too rude! (maybe im just too nice) and you fell totally con-ned about the whole thing!
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Apr 28, 03
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Just say get the fuck out!
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Apr 28, 03
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personally, after reading your post, i wouldn't invite you to a party.
if you're not having fun, leave. because when you obviously look like you're having a bad time then you drag the vibe through the floor, so when there was people that could have made the party work , now there isn't because you gave off a bad vibe that spread contagiously through the place. and now, alas, you have a shitty party on your hands. but you're not "rude" enough to leave, but you helped to make it what it was. stay if you're having fun, leave if you're not. the host should get the idea, that a: they don't invite you anymore, or b: they just stop throwing parties all together. some people just aren't cut out for it.
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Apr 28, 03
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[quote]Originally posted by beach*bum
[b]personally, after reading your post, i wouldn't invite you to a party. Wow Easy there! Unfortunatly no ones got the message i was trying to get across in this thread...I was trying to make a point about liers and decivers. Not bringing down party moods. Anywase this comes from a personal experience...I guess you just have to know the circumstances and ppls involved. Jen- i guess your the only one here who gets/ knows what im talking about. oh well
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Apr 28, 03
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i didn't mean to be harsh with that.
i'm sure you're a really nice person and all that. but that post just makes it look like you didn't have fun so the party sucked. that just makes you look bad. but if the host did a bunch of lieing and shit, well then they deserve to have their party suck, they shouldn't have them anymore, and you just shouldn't go to them anymore.
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Apr 28, 03
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What I am not a huge fan of is people asking 'so who's coming?' when you are inviting them - if you are my friend and I have asked you to my home, why does it matter who else is coming?
it doesn't it gives me the 'no' feeling ~ Jingles
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Apr 28, 03
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