Seeing your Ex and they....

[mugsy]

yah i dont understand hate towrads ex's either, unless if there is good reason. if you cared so much about the person whole dating them, i dont see how you can end up hating them.

and id have to agree with almost everyone in that if you feel you cant be true to your bf, then why are you with him? your young, go enjoy it. personally, if i cant be true to someone im not going to waste their time and my time being with just them. it aint fair.

[Chi Chi]

im friends with basically all my ex's. I dont hold grudges or n e thing like that but I have been in the situation where feeling came back on and very very strong. But yah those feeling are all gone now and I have a hella adorable and cute hottie now! Yeehaw

[Chi Chi]

oh yah and if ur ex was ur first love and all that other stuff its totally understandable.

[BatGirL]

Originally posted by beach*bum:



^^^^^
this is the part of your post that i found the most interesting...
basically [to me] you just said that you would cheat on your new bf if you and your ex were to hang out again....

and this thread is about how you saw your ex and you thought he was good looking. and that you couldn't stop thinking about him?? eventhough you were around your new bf for most of the night?

conclusion:::[this is what i thought of immediately after i read your posts] you're not over you're old bf...and you don't/wouldn't have the self-control to stay faithful to your new bf....
?

are you being true to your new bf? and to yourself?
and i hope that your new bf doesn't come on here...

this is the odd part....yes i still have feelings for my ex ? but the thing is no matter what i think i always will i really loved him... we were great friends and great together..but i understand thats over it was over a long time ago .. and yea i prolly shouldnt be thinkin about him and all that jazz..but my new guy is even better then my ex.. and were still just getting to know each other and soo far i have been faithfull an di have no erge to break that at all .. soo things are going good and actully.. i wasnt saying that i would cheat on my new b.f if i hung out with my ex.. i was just saying.. thats what happend befor.. and he and i have both changed alot in the last year and half.. soo yea.. things are diff.. and im happier.. and im sure he is and hope he is and i wish him nothing but the best :) ..