i can understand the mentallity... you're old, lonely.... what do you have to loose? besides, the odds are good that if you hit on enough young girls, eventually one will swallow the bait. Most of these guys just don't have the right angle though, i mean hanging out being creepy isn't gonna make a good impression on anyone. But i have known a number of 40ish guys with 18ish girlfriends, so it's working for somebody....
I think, though, that most guys who go around macking on young ladies are just hoping to find one guillable enough to have sex with. A fairly revolting pursuit, but if some of those guys could learn to master their perverse instincts, they would probably be quite decent people, more out of your league that you are out of theirs. It's just confusion, middle age can be a very difficult time for men, especially if they've grown up used to being admired by women and then suddenly their sex appeal is gone. Or so i understand.
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