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lol.. i dont no wut it was like back in the day but ya definatly alot of gurls r having sex earlier..its really kinda sad, because insted of waiting for someon they love alot of them end up being hammerd and some hot guy comes along and perswades them into it... and at like the ages 13-15 ish some gurls are the kind who will agree with any thing a guy sais(usually older then them) just to fit in with them i notice it all the time its pathetic and really sad and im just glad i was smarter and independent on myself
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I think self esteem is really becoming an issue with younger girls. A lot of them are becoming more and more insecure and masking that with a risque image that often gets them into situations that they regret later on.
Sal, I completely disagree with your "live in the moment" comment, when you think about it, a lot of these girls may be physically ready, but I think having sex at such a fragile age, often leads to emotional trauma in the future.. especially when it was a situation where they were drunk, or didn't think it through. I know this, because I was once that age and I made some stupid decisions. I just wish more of these young girls realize what they're getting themselves into :( |
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yeah.. when I went to the youth clinic recently to get more pills, it was literally all youth.. like 14-16 year olds majority. At least they looked like it.. and they all dress the same.. not that that's relevant but I thought it was funny.
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I agree with goddessa, dont ever rag on a young girl who has decided to keep her baby. Odds are she didnt do anything wrong, no girls at that age try to get pregnant (well for the most part). Do you know how much courage it would take for someone that age to keep a child and face people in a school of hundreds of people who are making the same comments that you are making to her face? She is a baby with a baby, and that is very hard decision to make. Question that if it was you in that position, would you have the courage to have your child? Or would u be afraid of the responsibility and the life-changing elements of the decision? Im not ragging on people who have abortions at all, its a matter of what you feel you need to do at that point in your life, but if at 15 you choose to have a child, you dont really have a life after that, your a mom or a dad.
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I remember when my bro was in grade 7 he was having a sleepover with some of his guy friends and they were all yammering about getting head and easy girls and then they went back to the blow job conversation
Naturally being 7 years older and being in hearing range of this conversation I was a little disgusted, because these guys were kids - like KIDS (and the fact that my bro was there didn't help) but some of the shit they were talking about was so far off...like they had no idea about many things and I was so worried that they would go out and make dumb choices because they were misinformed about shit So I the older sister that i am wandered out and told them I could hear them and cleared up a few of their misconceptions and went back to sleep the next day I had a chat with my bro (because i remembered the rather useless talk my parents had with me) It was uncomfratable - but I was glad that I could help Now I imagine if I had had a sister and knew that she was dishing out blow jobs at age 13.....When I was 13 it was a big deal to french kiss someone But at the same time when we entered highschool only a year later sex was happening left right and center and I think the big year for virginity loss was 16 for most girls Puberty is hitting earlier then it used to , breasts seem to bigger then ever- sex is everywhere and it still has that weird stigma attached to it , naturally kiddies are gonna be curious about it - are they having sex younger, I'm hesitant to say yes because i think as we all get older we see things from a different perspective and it may seem like all the kids are having sex - but I'm sure it seemed like that to others when we were in highschool too But if they are - then they are having uneducated sex - or are using the info they get from peers and porn and that's no good |
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what's that saying:?
"sex lasts a moment...being a parent lasts your whole life". cliche yes. correct VERY YES. i too take a look around a feel like children are having sex younger and younger. it's not their fault for the most part. look at media especially...it's sexually influenced. but they aren't being educated about consequences...obviously. but i don't think it's going to change things if we as older females look down on them. we should be trying to help educate them. shadi, and jingles....nicely said. i agree. |
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I have the most respect for single parents that are women. You guys honestly have my respect to the fullest. Don't let some bitchass mofo fuck you over!!! If you ever do get pregnant keep the child because they haven't done a single thing in their life to you to make you have an abortion. An innocent life is being taken away when you do have an abortion and believe me the guilt will always be there. Think about it twice. |
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