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Sep 16, 03
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chicks before dicks
Sooooooooooooooooo my best friend since grade 6 got married like 6 months ago and now her life revolvs around her husband BOOO!!!Sooooooo my other best friend since i was like 14 just recently moved back to BC in august... and her life revolves around her stupid fucking mentally abusive boy friend.BOOOOOOOO. i havent even seen her ONCE since she moved back to BC. My ex lover/now best friend since i was like 16 recently aquired a boy friend back in like April which is super shocking because we use to whore it up hard 2gether, and now Im lucky if i see her once every two months. And then my other best friend started going out with her bf in May now shes knocked up and on the brink of engagement.
It really pisses me off to see my friends get whipped over guys and let thier lives revolve around them, especially when they are so young and they still have so much to experience. It hardcore pisses me off to see that they punk out thier best friends for thier el fucko grande bf`s. LADIES ITS CHICKS BEFORE DICKS!!!! DICKS COME AND GO EVEN IF YOU THINK YOU ARE "IN LOVE". fuck 
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Sep 16, 03
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^go run head first into a wood chipper.
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Sep 16, 03
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i completly understand . i hate it when my friends hook up wit people. they always change, disapear and i dont even care cuz i dont want to see them much anyway. im a jealous person so its half my fualt when this happens but i fucking hate it...
in all the years of freinds hooking up with differant bitches/assholes ive only ever accepted like one of my friends relationships im working on this ......
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Sep 16, 03
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they are dumb they make me wanna rip my fucking hair out. Trying to get them to come out with me is like pulling teethe! :finger: they r like I CANNOT LEAVE MY LOVE MY EVERYTHING ! fuckin stupid bitches
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Sep 16, 03
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^yah thats true and thats what Ive told them. When i was out with my one gf last night we were talking about her and her boy friends relationship... and shes starting to realize how much her bf is lacking, and her feelings are beginning to change etc etc etc. Like shes been with the guy since like April-ish... and I havent met him ONCE NOT ONE FUCKING TIME. Anyways last night on our way back to Surrey we stopped by his place and im like cool i get 2 finally meet ur bf and shes like ya u do then she went to buzz his apt and shes like ill get him 2 come down... DID HE??? NO! When she got back to the car im like what is ur bf too fucking good to come and introduce himself to one of ur best fucking friends? IM like k sorry but ur bf is a fucking loser and I would LOVE to spit in his face. :finger:
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Sep 16, 03
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they fall in love with bastards that treat them like shit because they are seriously lacking in the confidence department AND hae a super low self esteem. Its sad to see my gf with another prick seeing as though last fall she just ended a mentally abusive relationship. She keeps revictimizing herself and she doesnt even know it.
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Sep 16, 03
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I don't know about this specific situation, but shit like this happens when you start to get older, no matter who you are. I always try to hold on to the past with my friends because it was a fucking good time, but as you get older you get more responsibility (sounds like the case with you, with friends getting pregnant and what not). Having a kid is definately a sign that you should stop "whoring it up" as you put it. It might be time to support your friends and understand that they are changing.
At the same time, if the significant other is abusive then please do encourage the whoring. No one deserves to be in an abusive relationship.
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Sep 16, 03
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^ i agree with you. it's growing up and changing. relationships with your friends will always change. [i also found it interesting* that you have like 4 best friends].
it might suck for u because they're in relationships and have other focus' in thier lives. u sound on the verge of envy and jealousy....put yourself in their shoes. if you were in a relationship then you'd put more effort into that. and they should understand that too. but you're getting angry because they don't want to go "whore it up" with you. grow up. it's time, obviously you're friends are recognizing that. and if someone really is in an abusive relationship, then that's a whole different can of worms to be opening.
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Sep 16, 03
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^ I will prolly end up doing just that. We r all supposed to go clubbing this weekend and my gf said that I would butt heads with him, and im sure this will happen in a literal sense ahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaa :kam:
and beach bum i dont see how spending your every waking moment with some insignificant fleck of shit that treats u like ass is growing up... if THATS growing up I wanna stay a LITTLE KID FOREVER!Im not envious nor jealous I am more so disgusted how they devote so much time to someone when they still dont know themselves, its sad.
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Sep 16, 03
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do you know yourself?
if you say yes to this...then they can say that they know themselves. careful here....wouldn't want to stick your own foot in your own mouth. just because you perceive it to be a bad thing that they spend so much time with one another, doesn't mean that it actually IS a bad thing. [and please note that i had previously stated if there actually was real abuse that is different]. most people will tend to make the situation out to what they think it should be or want...and then tell everyone it is that way...when really....it's very different. and what's you're thoughts on what a best friend is? because in all honesty, you're likely to have maybe one true best friend in your whole life...that is there your whole life....not four or five.... if you have four you're extremely lucky.
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Sep 16, 03
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I got married and the friends that decided to grow up and respect that are still really good friends.
The other ones decided not to be apart of my life. My best friend is my wife. I don't get it. If she had a friend before she met me and they got as upset as you Goddessa and she decided for her friend insted of me that would be bad. I wouldn't be happy and I wouldn't like that friend alot.
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Sep 16, 03
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I would die for those girls - they have been with me since I was 10 years old - I am extremely lucky they are close to me the way i'd imagine a sister is supposed to be and if I was with a man that they disliked - I would definatley take that into account because all they have ever wanted was for me to be happy and I know they would make an effort to like anyone i was with provided that person was treating me right I hear what Godessa is saying - sometimes it feels like you lose a friend when they fall in love - You can't go out and do all the same things you used to together...it doesn't mean that you love one another any less though ...It's just a change in the relationship you are there for one another in different ways and sometimes you go a long time without seeing one another - but when you do , it's like no time has elapsed at all Sometimes a person can get a little jealous of all the time a significant other gets to spend with your best friend, I think that's natural - You go from spending every weekend with them - to them wanting to spend time with their honey adn you hardly ever see them hey that can be hard - we all need to vent our frustration but if they are happy - then that's what it should be all about :)
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Sep 16, 03
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and what's you're thoughts on what a best friend is? because in all honesty, you're likely to have maybe one true best friend in your whole life...that is there your whole life....not four or five....
if you have four you're extremely lucky. a best friend is someone who i can tell my deepest darkest secrets too and they wont judge me or think any differently of me, with those 4 girls I can do this. I am getting to know myself,and i know they dont know themselves cuz we`ve had convos about it. I dont understand how a person when they are trying to find themsleves can devote the majority of thier time to another person. How can you get know you when your spending all your time getting to know another person?
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Sep 17, 03
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^ok. goddessa. i believe a best friend is all of those things too. and you're very lucky to have four. but. i find only one flaw...you said "tell my deepest darkest secrets too and they wont judge me or think any differently of me"...are you not judging them based on them being in a relationship.?
and as tot the last part of what you had to say...sometimes it takes a crappy relationship [as you've indicated that one person you know is in] or a strong relationship with someone to help you realize things about yourself and about who you are. i know that i learn new things about myself everyday because of who i'm with. and it's eye-opening. not everyone can learn by "whoring it up" all the time...or whatever. some people actually like and need a companion to share things with. you're just not there yet.
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Sep 17, 03
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^ ah its a lost fucking cause with u and im too fucking brain dead 2day to even ATTEMPT trying to explain myself, so ill smile and nod :trippin:
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Sep 19, 03
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What happens when you yourself find the special someone who you "fall in love with"? I've noticed that as much as my friends at first were opposed to my bf and I spending so much time together, as the years have gone on, they have all found their own significant others who they spend copious amounts of time with now...and when we get together now, it is really something special. And also, we can double/triple date now!
*Jen*
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Sep 20, 03
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ehmmm when ive been involved before, i didnt punk out my friends.
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