arguing with your best friend

[Lil Bunny]

im not gonna get into the details about what happen but i had like the worst argument with my best friend. and i know i did some things that i shouldnt have done but so did she. and now shes the one not talkin to me. i can understand that ..but at least for the sake of our friendship try to work it out. this girl means everything to me (in a friendly way) and shes the only person i can actually talk to and repay on. and now with all this shit goin on i feel like i've lost someone very close to me. i've apologized and told her everything there was to was to say to try to work things out.. but nuttin worked. i hate havin the end this year like this but it looks like i have no choice. wat a shit ass nye this will be. home alone. =(

[krisamata]

im in hte same situation as you.

although she just doesnt seem to understand that shes being a total ignorant bitch lately.

*sigh*

[Kelster]

z(*$&%@*$%

same boat but with my ex

so frustrating

[miss.myra]

i dunno, no matter how stupid the two of you have been in the situation, you are BEST friends...and that should always be what matters most

if not, it doesn't sound like much of a friend, let alone best friend to me.

[Lil Bunny]

i know and thats what she said too that altho we did what we did we are best freinds and we should be able to work things out.. but how is that gonna happen when she doenst TALK at all. i apologized for my part and for the things i've done but she hasnt. and im not sayin that she HAS too but i feel like i've taken all the blame for what happen.. but it was the both of us that fuked things over not just me. i'll give it some time.. if this friendship actually meant anything to her she'll come around if not.. im gonna regret all the trust i ever had in her. and if it does get to that .. i get screwed over once again. maybe i should become a heartless lil bitch and just not give a shit about ppl. damn me and gettin too attached to ppl. (oh i sound like such a victime... shoot me now thank you)

[miss.myra]

part of loving your friends, especially the close ones means realizing that they aren't perfect..I understand it is so hard to swallow your pride sometimes to realize that...but really, if she is your best friend, you need to realize this...even if she's refusing to outright apologize to you, do you think she's genuinely not sorry for what she's done? (trust me, it's usually a pride thing..)

[mugsy]

ive never gotten into an argument with the people i consider my best friends. and ive been firends with one of them since i was about 7 the other since i was 15. they are both dear to my heart. i dont think i can comprehend your situation though because of this, we've never had a situation to argue over...... but to have love you need a little trouble.

[mushmellow]

same with me and my brest gurl....fuck...we both fucked up...but she got mad over something that shes knows is right in the end...but shes being stubborn. shes not talkin to me..so shes the one that didnt come and party w/ everyone else

[jim]

how bout you two dyke out and we all go home happY?

[ebbomega]

^^ Catfight, THEN dyke out.... Then videotaping. Then happiness ensues.

[c.tard]

i don't know when this all happened, but give her some time to herself. you've apologized and done your part, she's obviously still angry if she's not talking. i know with me, if i'm already mad at someone for something, repeatedly apologizing and not giving me my own time and space just angers me even more. relax a little, she'll probably come around..