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Apr 16, 01
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i don't know about love at first sight
i been in love once and it was such a wonderful feeling and for sure u can't get it after one week of goin out so i odn't know how u can feel it the first time u see someone hmmm i guess i'd have to experience it to understand it but ya its really gay how young couples go out for 3 days and they think they're in love its such a powerful word and such an amazing feeling... but it sucks how u can fall out of love! hmmm ohh i could go on for ever but ya definately kids should really think about abusing the word! 
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Apr 17, 01
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i agree with you on that one too
thats just total puppy love not true love id never say i love you to someone on the first day.. one week.. two weeks.. or even a month.. its too fast...
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Apr 17, 01
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love is used often...
i've never been in love but the word is used too often.... its usually a "really like" or infatuation....never really love... maybe people dunno wut love is so they say they love??.. i dunno...but just don't use the word if u don't mean it~:032:
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Apr 17, 01
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rarrrrrrrr.
k... i've probably bitched about this already... i think i did in the life section. oh well.
love does not occur within a week of dating. fuck you. society for making love appear so fake that every highschooler thinks they're in love cuz they are going out with someone that puts out. more rambling later.... and as for love at first sight... i dont believe in it. "love at first sight" is just a phrase for those verbally challenged that dont know that its just connecting with someone that they find attractive. the rush you get is probably just the butterfly feeling that, "wow. she/he is so hot and i'm talking to them. teehee." etc. rambling. i'm out. more rambling about love in the what is love thread.
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Apr 17, 01
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I really don't believe in love at first sight. It's merely based on physical attraction, and that is not LOVE at all. That's just infatuation. Love does not come from a physical level. It comes from a spiritual and emotional level. It is something that you develop over time...
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Apr 17, 01
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you know what. i've been fucking dating someone for damn near a fucking year now.
i love him, i know i do. up until like 2 months ago he "loved" me too. then just out of the mother fukkin blue he decides that since i dont share his passion in life (for a particular kind of music) then its just not possible to "really" love me. WTF!!!! i mean i appreciate the fukkin honesty and all but damn, i feel like shit. love is something to be cherished, and no it does not happen after a week or two. and no, you cannot take it back and expect everything to fine. im not fine. fuck that.
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Apr 17, 01
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Isn't love supposed to be honest and truthful?
Isn't love supposed to be caring and understanding? Isn't love supposed to be sharing and excepting? Isn't love supposed to be happiness and togetherness? Love shouldn't include hurt, sadness, betrayal, emptiness, and hate... That's not love...that's just a misunderstanding...
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Apr 17, 01
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Apr 17, 01
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okay i totally agree with like everything that has been said so far!
ahh! i hate it when someone tells you that they love you after pnly going out for a few weeks...it's like what am i supposed to say to that...I DON"T LOVE YOU!?! it drives me crazy that ppl say it so easily!
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Apr 17, 01
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do you know what's really sick??
those gr. 6 - gr. 7 ppl....... they say.....ohhh.....i'm in love with so and so... fuck that.....they don't even know what love is! there just like.....i like you! so i must be in love with you! VERY SICK! YUCK! learn to love! not like ^_~
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Apr 17, 01
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wundergirl....really sorry to hear that he can't "really" love cuz u don't like the same music?
wtf? if thats the reason then it wasn't love in the first place! think about it!!! so don't worry too much! i know how lame it is when ur bf tells u he can't love u for what ever reason... :003: hmm so what do U tell a person when they tell u they love u? but u don't? never happened to me... but it did to my friend and she said "thank U" so funny! and yes Love shouldn't include hurt, sadness, betrayal, emptiness, and hate... but then how come it does, most of the time? :022:
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Apr 18, 01
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okay i've never been in love and all of this i sjust really scary! ppl told me that they loved me and i just like froze! it was like UG! but thanx no i know what to do if it ever happens again...hopefully it won't love is too scary!
and about all that love should include pain and all i totally agee with that! if it was all good then it would be like too good to be true...but then maybe that's why it's love...ahhh! i don't know! love is complicated that's why i will stay away from it! hehe!:031:
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Apr 18, 01
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the word "love" is a strong word to use....yes it can be misused sometimes. its not an easy word to say though....i think if you say it, you have to mean it.........you can't just go around telling everyone that you love them. its not that easy. if you love someone, it should come from the bottom of ur heart and you get all these feelins that you never had and u just love that person that you don't want to let go but love does have it's down side....someone might say to u "i love you" but then a little while later that person will just ditch you at the side of the road leaving you stranded. love can totally play with your feelings. :(
i dunno this is kinda what i think bout using the word "love" it can be harsh........:038:
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Apr 19, 01
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i think love does exist
and if ppl can't explain what love is that prolly means that they've never been in love once u experienced it u totally know what its like and if u love the person or not! and course there's so many diff kinds of love... parents. friends... lovers... siblings... pets..haha cars!!! and ya u can still break up if u love eachother trust is a really good example... and trust is very important in love...but u can still love and not trust.. happened to me... and that's why u break up! and eventually u fall out of love...or maybe the feelings are still there inside of u somewhere but might be hidden or something.. ohh who knows oh ya and i have one question! what do u think is stronger love or hate?
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Apr 19, 01
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love. smove.
pshhhhhh..... love is like yoko said, just an umbrella pretty much of a whole bunch of different emotions thrown in a blender and mixed up ready to be broken down and served to us like poison. polluting our fucking brains with crap. ;]
if love exsisted. i would imagine it would be something strong and unbreakable. and if you fell out of it. you could fall back into it just as easily. takes time to build, not overnight in some hot passionate animal sex moment. love and hate? 2 very extreme emotions. there is no stronger. personally. i find most of us aren't able to experience the true emotions, we are blinded with what the media and society dubs as what they should be. then again, emotions are different with everyone. and we really dont have any right to force our views of it on other ppl i guess. i guess some ppl are still in their naive stage where they think they know everything. i'm 18 next week and i can safely say. i know shit all about the way the world runs. i am not capable to love. i lost the ability a long time ago. i'm alright with that though. its just more emotions that i dont need. what is real? emotions. any of this. if the way we feel can go from one to the other so easily. how can we justify that we really felt that way. fuckit. i'm not gonna get into this. what we feel. what we want. what we need. any of this. fuckit. i'll just shut up now. the heart is just an organ to pump blood to the rest of our body. why must it associate anything with love. yet why does our hearts ache and not like our foot or something when we get knocked down and brought down into a downward spiral of depression and remorse. fascinating things we are... not enough ppl appreciate their bodies and just throw it around... mehhh.. *stab it out*
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Apr 19, 01
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ummmmm.......here:
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My opinion is this: There is such thing as love. No one said it was gonna be candy coated. I don't think that candy coated love exists. Love isn't easy, why should it be? When is anything easy anyways??? Love is supposed to make you feel the best AND the worst. The good times AND the bad. It allows to you appreciate the good by giving you a taste of the bad. You can't walk around with this illusion that true love is gonna be a friggin walk in the park or you'll never find it. (i'd also like to add that this is why my bf is destined to lead a very lonely life if he continues on in this mind frame) Love is UNCONDITIONAL. And thats when you know it's real. When conditions come up and you work past them. When your feelings don't change. It's oone thing to be physically attracted to someone. It's another to be EMETIONALLY attracted to someone, and thats the kind of attraction that has a possibility of love. Besides we're all gonna look the same when were forty anyways. Quote:
and mr yellow...My first relationship EVER was in the 7th grade. i dated him for 5 years and we broke up in grade 10. he was older than me and i thought i loved him with all my heart....and maybe then i did, in my own twisted way of whatever the fuck i thought love was back then. but you're right, it wasn't....i know it now, but i didn't then...i dunnoo what to say about that i guess....hmmm.... ok ok i'll stop. thanks fer reading my nonsense guys.
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Apr 20, 01
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great ideas guys...
and wundergirl ur words are not nonsense...!! anywayz... well maybe i say all that I say becuz I've never been *in love* and don't know how *great* it is. but I think the word love is so cheap. Any one can spit that word outta there mouth and mean nothing at all. "I love candy, i love the rain, i love blah"... every one has their own definition of love... and those of you who have been able to "find true love".. well that's great! (i think...) And I'm glad it feels like a billion dollars and all.. but don't forget, that wutever this "love" thing is, even though it has appeared in ur life, sometimes love DOESN'T exist for EVERYBODY. Some people can die without ever having had experienced love at all. I think the word *love* is cheap. If I could, I would find a different way to express love, if I find it. Gawd everything on this world is so materialistic. I'm havin trouble tryin to *express* wut I mean haha. screw it.
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Apr 20, 01
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yeah i believe that u can love and not trust.....that's the position i'm in right now. i love but i don't trust anymore.
love is something that you can't really put into words, it's a whole bunch of feelings that you just experience. love is different to everyone........so it's just what you believe love is and you stick with what you believe.:030:
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