Why Cant Two People Of Diffrent Sex Just Be Friends!

x0x_manda_x0x · #1 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

ew.always asking if ya'll r fucking,or if ur there "g/f" ew. just friends CAN HAPPEN......well for me atleast.

<3

cinist · #2 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

hey look it's a tiger!

rrrraaaaawwwrrrr

cheebus420 · #3 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

I'm friends with a lot of girls. It can happen.

x0x_manda_x0x · #4 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

lol shannon i *heart* u lol.....how have u been
n e ways yeah i know it can happen but do u ever get ask if u "with" the girl?

BAL1STOPHER · #5 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

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Originally Posted by cinist

hey look it's a tiger!

rrrraaaaawwwrrrr

ahhhhhhhhh help i smell like catnip

C_squared · #6 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

yeah people do say that for some reason...dont know why, but it makes sense...if you & a friend of the opposite sex are a realy horny all the time and for some reason sex is all you talk about, then sooner or later you're bound to get your freak on.

x0x_manda_x0x · #7 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

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Originally Posted by balisticalwon

ahhhhhhhhh help i smell like catnip

lmfao.:D

x0x_manda_x0x · #8 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

lol who to ever gave me good karma....
get my freak on...wow that would cause alota of drama and ruin so much friendships
BUT IM SOOOO DOWN hahahahaa
sneaky.

mugsy · #9 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

i've always been friends with alot of guys, and no one, to my face, has assumed anything past friendship. it may have alot to do with personality? if your a flirtatious girl, it may cause for alot of jealousy from other girls, and they will make assumptions... guys may just be trying to test the water so to speak, see if your free.

eh, just laugh it off.

*spacecase* · #10 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

^ amen

rawb · #11 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

it can totally happen, one of the parties has to be ugly though.

sidekick · #12 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

Some of my best friends are girls. And yeah, people are always assuming that we're going out or something. But you know, we just play around with it. Sometimes it's a little inappropriate though. Like someone from one of my classes once walked up to me and my friend Lauren and asked us if we were in love. We just said, of course we're in love. But i mean, if we were actually going out and hadn't gotten to the point where love was being discussed then that could have been a really awkward moment. People have no tact.

MrDFrost · #13 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

i think its possible. I myself have lots of "girlfriends" some of which i have slept with, but never any awkwardness...ever...it all comes down to how well both parties deal with the situations.

cerah · #14 (**permalink**) Apr 06, 04

They can... you're just still in high school.

sidekick · #15 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

^^actually me and X0X_manda_XOX are both out of high school. It's something that follows you for your whole life i think. It still happens to my dad even.

miss.myra · #16 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

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Originally Posted by rawb

it can totally happen, one of the parties has to be ugly though.

Does this mean I'm the ugly friend? :(

AAAAAAAFFLECK

MrDFrost · #17 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

yeah i dont think it has much to do, whether your in highschool or not....its the whole mentality....if you can deal with it, theres no problem. if you cant, dont.

hardstylin · #18 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

i have pounded dated fooled around with almost every chick friend ive ever had at some point or another. its the sex talk that will make shit happen it always does.

Jingles · #19 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

Once i wondered the same thing
and so I asked my mom - cause she knows the answers to all :)

And she told me - that friendships formed in teens and twenties with the oppisite sex are usually based on attratction - at one point or another either party was attracted to their 'friend'
thats why you often see hot people hanging out with hot people, they all would like the oppurtunity to hump some of the members of their peer group
and these friendships are often a little more playful or flirtatious then say the friendship of a man/woman in their 60s -- and that's what likely elicits the question 'are you boyfriend/girlfriend?'

MistressSpankME · #20 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

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Originally Posted by x0x_manda_x0x

ew.always asking if ya'll r fucking,or if ur there "g/f" ew.

Much better than being asked if the person you are involved with is your brother

zarlon · #21 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

i feel yah on this girl... everyone always thinks me and my boys are dating or whatev'. its soo annoying... "THEYRE JUST MY FRIENDS, FUCK OFF!" then theyre like "oh, so can you hook it up?"

*shakes head

fuckin geigh

bungoshlung · #22 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

i think it also depends on how you guys act around each other and how often you're seen together that may give ppl that impression

crookedking · #23 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

cause guys just want to have sex!

x0x_manda_x0x · #24 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

Yeah.I'm not sure if i am a flirt? LOL. i might be. But i dont mean it in an I WANT U RIGHT NOW....type of way. U know?
But i still think people should'nt assume just because im With a guy that im WITH a guy. :)

hardstylin · #25 (**permalink**) Apr 07, 04

hmmm you sound like a real cock tease....

j/k :)