Apr 16, 04
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knowing that my ex is now with another girl and their happy with each other and they love each other hurts me...cause i still love him. i guess it hits you the hardest when the one you love loves someone else...but in the end im sure in time it wont hurt me as hard. it just hurts cause he basically gave me a bullshit reason when he broke up with me...how he didnt want a girlfriend right now how i was the best girlfriend ever. blah blah you guys know the drill. shit about how he needs to get shit together in his life. then a few months later hes with someone else. i dont know where i went wrong...we never fought i didnt see the point so what do you guys think?
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Apr 16, 04
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hahaha thats awsome hit you with the old i dont want a GF right now which means i dont want you as a GF, im pretty sure everyone has had this lame break up line dropped on them Ive had 2 chicks bust it out on me both times i just laughed and said sure. Most of the time people u date arnt even worth hurt, as soon as you find some other guy ull be happy you two broke up, specially if hes using cheesy lines like that. What a dork, the next time your gona break up with a guy you have to use that line on him it will make you laugh, plus its your duty to pass on the torch, no what im sayin.
peace
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keep your chin up :)
he sounds like hes a confused boy and you can do better plus if you love someone you should be happy that theyre happy even if its not with you...
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Apr 16, 04
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You were the best girlfriend ever, but was he the best boyfriend ever back to you? Doesn't seem like it if he couldn't get his shit together. What your feeling happens to the best of us, but eventually you're going to meet someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated, and you'll be so much better off.
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Its the nature of love.
For love to really be love, you have to feel it that deeply. The shit side to that, is that when you lose it, because its in you so deep, it hurts that much. For the good to be that good, unfortunately, the bad has to be that bad.
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yea true...the only thing i want for him is for him to be happy if hes happy with the other chick. then good for him. it makes me happy. i guess you cant ever stop loving ur first love...but im fine without him. im sure im going to go thru many of these kind of things in my life. one after another...im still young have much to learn.
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I've had problems with this before also, and even though it takes me a while to let go (or at least until I meet someone better then him), I eventually see that we're not that great for each other. Well, not as great as we once were. It'll take time before it stops hurting to see him with other girls, until then, meet others, and do your own thing.
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Apr 16, 04
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I think everyone's been through this at one point or another in their life.
The guy I thought was my "first love" went back to his ex-gf after he broke my heart and took my innocense, nice guy, hey? I felt really sad and shitty, but then afterward I realized, what a fuckin loser! I treated him great and he was shit to me - everyone deserves to be treated the way they treat their significant other. Finally, for me, after numerous failed relationships (some due to loser guys, others due to personal differences) I've found someone who treats me just as well as I treat him - let me tell ya girl, it feels great, and I know that he knows how lucky we both are to have found that in each other. Don't fret - you said yourself that you're young...and you won't appreciate the good until you've had the bad (trust me) =)
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