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Jan 19, 05
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friends who have new boyfriends
that dissappear.
that ditch you. example: when you say "hey im taking 6 courses in school, and im working, but i really want to see you, so im gonna leave school early" they say "mmm yah, im tired. plus i want to go see _______ cause i didnt see him yesterday." that suddenly have no time to talk about anything. that suddenly have a new inspiration view on things, but not in a positive way. that suddenly seem to have better friends, the boyfriends friends. where did she go? BOYFRIENDLAND. thats where. 
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Jan 19, 05
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i can relate to that in a way, i have friend or...or two, who are 2 completly diffrent people when the are seeing somone , as apposed to when they arent...it mostly has to do with choice of parter though...and just when you think they woke up and started being themselves again (got rid of the bitch)they find a replacement...and at first its all good, then u see it happening again and all you can do is sit back and be like......fuuuuuuuuuuck..
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Jan 19, 05
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i have a girlfriend whos the same way... she totally becomes obsessive when she has a boyfriend, totally ditches her friends for him, and lies and says she going to "the keg" with her parents........ grr.. then after we find out she lied she buys us with pot cigs and munchies, but i'm not really complaining about that....
all you really gotta do is talk to them, cuz sumtimes they're dumb enuff to not realise they're doing it.... if shes your real friend, she'll care about what you have to say, just tell you you feel like shes changing bcuz of her boyfriend and that she needs to make time for her other friends
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Jan 19, 05
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Jan 19, 05
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6 courses in school? a real go getter that one
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Jan 19, 05
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I didn't like it when 2/3 of my best girlfriends did that to me... My 3rd best girlfriend is also very busy with her bf but we still try and make time for each other, like taking dance and yoga together, etc. Now I'm often busy with my bf when those "too busy before" friends wanna chill. Oops... To bad it took too long for you to come around!!!
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Jan 20, 05
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If they dissapear for a while i dont really mind since the couple is fresh and u know. But if it gets to the point where they sell you out then its bunk. I mean not chillin that much anymore is fine and dandy and understandable but i've seen some people sell out their own best friends on their bdays or what not just cause their gonna chill with their bf/gf. Now that is over board
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Jan 20, 05
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Does # 1 get a medal of some sort ? how does this ranking system work ?
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Jan 20, 05
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Shes always with him, which is fine.. good for her but i dont even EVER get invited out with her or anything. But if i happen to have a guy that im seeing or whatever shes always like "lets double date" and if he goes out she stays home. She lives a few blocks away and i NEVER see her. I hate it. Even for my B-day i wanted her to come and she wont because he doesnt want to. Gee thanks...
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Jan 20, 05
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im trying to be nice since this is her first offense of ever trading friends in for a boyfriend. so she must really like him, and for that im happy.
but, i reaalllllllllly miss her. and will tell her when she gets back from the mountain.
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Jan 20, 05
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Jan 20, 05
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Get one of your slutty friends to sleep with the friend in question's boyfriend. Problem Solved! :)
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Jan 20, 05
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There is no ranking system, but perhaps that was confusing. I had three best friends. Two of them got bfs and ditched me/are too busy for me. My third best friend still makes time to chill with me, and both of us have bfs too, so it can be done... my other friends just chose not to. So now when they wanna do something I wont choose them over doing something with my bf bc they're not worth it anymore (its a bit more complicated than that, but thats the general idear). So now I have one best friend, nd she deserve a medal for sure. So perhaps there was a ranking system and contests involved. LOL.
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Jan 20, 05
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Ive always had this problem, becuase i was always the single one. But it doesnt happen anymore... We sent out a message not to ditch us. A very effective message i might add.
About the friend ranking, i find it kinda humurous. A best friend is a best friend, they dont need a rank. If you trust them, and are trusted in return thats all that should matter. You dont need ranks.
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Jan 20, 05
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Jan 21, 05
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I agree. I was in a relationship for three years where it was basically me and him hanging out ALL the time. As a result, I never really got to go out and have fun with my friends. And seriously, no matter how happy you think you are, it's stupid to ditch your friends for some guy. Your friends are ALWAYS there for you. You friends also get REALLY annoyed if you only call them to hang out if your signifigant other is busy. Seriously, it's healthy to get out with your friends, so don't avoid it. If you're gonna be a jerk to your friends and constantly ditch them, don't be suprised if you don't have a shoulder to cry on if you break up. Could you imagine being out a signifigant other and your friends? That would suck. Never, ever, ever forget your friends. I think that I totally learned my lesson. I think that a lot of young people have to go through one leechy experience to learn better.
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