Frustrated

[IntakE]

This is a rant to be clear.

oh my gawd...it's one of those days I wake up thinking it'll be a good day, but the of course one thing goes wrong with one member of my fucking family and I get my mom yelling at me cause my dad's yelling at her and then my little sister bitching because she cant find something. Im getting so sick of this happening every other fucking day!. Why does it seem that all my family does is fucking fight. Im so glad I have work to get the hell away from all of this shit.

[dj_skratch_1]

I'd say budget your cash, and plan on moving out if it's getting out of hand...that being the last resort. See if you can't work some sort of appeasement with your family, most often than not, the only reason why people fight is because of pride....so if what they are argue'ing about is a big deal to them, make a solid effort to help them out, it may end up really paying off in the long run, and make things that much more manageable for you. Hope that helps.

[miSsy_chriSsy]

Ashley, my love:

1) You don't pay rent.

2) You don't pay bills. (so quit yer belly achin lol)

3) This will all clear up the moment you graduate and finally move into your own place ;)

4) Your parents will actually miss you not being around all the time, and hence, you will all get along fine.

5) Enjoy these days while you still can

<3

[dj_skratch_1]

^ Thats exactly what Krystal said Cafe Del Missy

[impure]

Originally Posted by miSsy_chriSsy

Ashley, my love:

1) You don't pay rent.

2) You don't pay bills. (so quit yer belly achin lol)

3) This will all clear up the moment you graduate and finally move into your own place ;)

4) Your parents will actually miss you not being around all the time, and hence, you will all get along fine.

5) Enjoy these days while you still can

<3

she speaks the truth.
i regret moving out of home as early as i did and for the reasons i did.

[miSsy_chriSsy]

Originally Posted by dj_skratch_1

^ Thats exactly what Krystal said Cafe Del Missy

it's a farmatronic remix of common sense i tells ya ;)

[dj_skratch_1]

wickie wickie wa! =) One of my favorite remixes....So Essential ;)

[miSsy_chriSsy]

maybe another thing to consider is the attitude that you are contributing to the house also. It's funny how just giving your mom a hug, or starting a positive conversation with your dad can really switch the mood. They'll appreciate it I promise.

[mapleleaf4ever]

Originally Posted by miSsy_chriSsy

4) Your parents will actually miss you not being around all the time, and hence, you will all get along fine.

heh heh yah, mine come out to work and buy me Lunch once in awhile now. I think they finally realized that it was my Sister and not I messing up the House.

[dj_skratch_1]

Or telling them all the positive things that you are working towards in your life. The biggest fear most parents have is hoping that their children will grow up to be successfull, if you can reassure them of that, how ever you see fit, I'm sure that would minimize a lot of the tension as well.