Ex's

Pennywise · #1 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 05

why do you have to make life so difficult

Clayton. · #2 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 05

I always had a feeling that girl wasn't as nice and innocent as she made herself out to be, nobody believed me though.

crookedking · #3 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 05

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Originally Posted by Pennywise

why do you have to make life so difficult

because you never held the door open for her!

miss.myra · #4 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 05

Yeah, but eventually most of us learn to get over it.

Maybe you should, patrick.

Silverwinged · #5 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 05

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Originally Posted by miss.myra

Yeah, but eventually most of us learn to get over it.

Maybe you should, patrick.

amennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

Pennywise · #6 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 05

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Originally Posted by miss.myra

Yeah, but eventually most of us learn to get over it.

Maybe you should, patrick.

i hope this happens soon

Play-it-hard · #7 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 05

Ex's always get in the way, Weather its cause you still have feelings for them or sumone else does, Fuck ex's, there nothing to cry about, you always find sumone new and forget all about them

Sue Bitch · #8 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 05

I have had the same problem this week

it would help if they would stop calling though

miss.myra · #9 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 05

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Originally Posted by Pennywise

i hope this happens soon

Rest assured that every single person in the world has had their heart broken and 99.99% of them survive it. I'm sure you can too.

Pennywise · #10 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 05

i know i can
its just i guess im afraid to open to someone new

BongMan · #11 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 05

Hear ya on that one dude it takes a while but eventually you will find the one.

Grapes · #12 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 05

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Rest assured that every single person in the world has had their heart broken

Besides me?

SteveO13 · #13 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 05

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Originally Posted by Pennywise

i know i can
its just i guess im afraid to open to someone new

dude I think everyone can quote u on this for sure man . I still find it so hard to open up to another girl cuz of my ex's

Bitchin · #14 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 05

fuck ex's... just fuck em'.....

you'll be over her one day pat.. give'r time.

t-skywalker · #15 (**permalink**) Jul 27, 05

dude my ex and me are still friends three years still going we see eachother at least two times a week and i consider him my bestfriend now...i guess it depends..we had to stop talking for a year b4 we could be where we are today:)

justShell · #16 (**permalink**) Jul 27, 05

It deffinately takes time to get over a serious ex. but it will happen. im giong through that right now. i thought i loved him so much, and i did . but it seems like i dont want to even try to get to that place again with someone because there just going to hurt me like he did. but we all will get hurt by someone untill we find the right person. but thats along way off.. so just let the good times outweigh the bad ones.

b0ld · #17 (**permalink**) Jul 27, 05

heh I have a better relationship with my ex right now then when we were together....

FireWire · #18 (**permalink**) Jul 27, 05

Hahahaa... b0ld that's a first!

Man, I can't stand any of my ex's at all and I totally stopped talking to them. Just feels SO much "lighter" without them...

Pennywise · #19 (**permalink**) Aug 10, 05

so i changed huh? You got a phone pick it up call me.

How Come.. we dont even talk no more
And you dont even call no more
We dont barely keep in touch at all
and I dont even feel the same love when we hug no more
And I heard it through the grapevine.. We even Beefin Now
After all the years we been down.. aint no way no how
This bullshit cant be true
We Family.. aint a damn thing changed.. unless its you!

Pennywise · #20 (**permalink**) Aug 10, 05

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Originally Posted by miss.myra

Rest assured that every single person in the world has had their heart broken and 99.99% of them survive it. I'm sure you can too.

i guess im that .01% of the people that dont survive it

baby-phat · #21 (**permalink**) Aug 10, 05

Aw, chin up sweetheart. You will.. it just may take longer than you'd like it to. *hugz* Trust me, I thought I'd never get over a guy I dated years ago- and though it took a long time I eventually did. :)

C_squared · #22 (**permalink**) Aug 10, 05

ex's suck.

you know you left on bad terms when you have to duck to avoid them in public. Experienced.. first hand.

Kraig · #23 (**permalink**) Aug 10, 05

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Originally Posted by Pennywise

i guess im that .01% of the people that dont survive it

Naaa... that's just the way it feels now bro.

With anything that happens in life, YOU make one of two personal choices in how to deal with it: 1.) you can choose the negative approach and dwell in that negative energy (poor me, life is over after her, etc...) or 2.) you can take the positive approach and focus on that energy (yeah it sucks the relationship is over, but look how much I learned from it and look at how much of a better person it made me.)

It really is as simple as that. Your judgement is a bit cloudy right now naturally... Give it time.

Goodfellow · #24 (**permalink**) Aug 10, 05

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Originally Posted by Kraig

Naaa... that's just the way it feels now bro.

With anything that happens in life, YOU make one of two personal choices in how to deal with it: 1.) you can choose the negative approach and dwell in that negative energy (poor me, life is over after her, etc...) or 2.) you can take the positive approach and focus on that energy (yeah it sucks the relationship is over, but look how much I learned from it and look at how much of a better person it made me.)

If only it was really that easy.

Kraig · #25 (**permalink**) Aug 10, 05

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Originally Posted by GoodFlow

If only it was really that easy.

It actually is that easy to make a choice, as easy as it is to do something right from wrong. It is emotion that will of course cloud that. -- This is why it is also important to understand that stuff like this takes time.