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Aug 20, 05
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feeling intimidated..
i get this feeling all the time and it bugs me, cuz i think i have more "self confidence" than that. i have a list of ppl im really intimidated by...due to their achievements, success, or maybe even looks. they're actually ppl i just really look up to, which results me to act really shy around them... my rant is how okay im shy, okay but im actually intimidated... but dont think im a snob because of that. i know some crazy awesome ppl around me, but im just too shy to even approach or sometimes even say hi.. im totally not a snob. ha!
oh well. Last edited by bebu*funfun; Aug 20, 05 at 11:30 AM. 
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Aug 20, 05
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Aww.. I am totally the same way. I know these people definately think I am a snob..and that sucks. Eventually we will get over it ;)
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Aug 20, 05
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Heh people have thought I'm the biggest bitch for the longest time cuz I don't say hi to people. It's kinda annoying but I got sed to it. I'm just really shy around some people... especially people I don't really know.
-shrug- I've been told I'm really intimidating too... I mean I don't think I come off/look like I'm gonna beat the crap outta people for no reason :(
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some ppl just have that vibe though.. i cant put a finger on what exactly it is, but some ppl just have the "im better than you" vibe.. not that its true, but it could be just the glowing self confidence. no clue.. im usually really shy with ppl i look up to a lot.. ppl who have achieved crazy things that i respect.
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just do what you want.. look out for yourself first and then others.. and tell yourself "what have i got to lose?" nothin.. either you will gain more confidence or you will be right where you are now.. always try to furthar yourself for your own personal gratification.. i have the same problem.. but i am realizing that i only live once.. "Life moves pretty fast, if you dont stop to look around once in a while you could miss it"
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Aug 20, 05
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i find lately more then ever im intimidated by gorgeous ladies - im lacking big time in the self confidence area and own up to it 100 %. im doing my best to get rid of this feeling but it can be really hard sometimes.
im always intimidated by artists who i admire - sometimes i get irrationally jealous of them. but i tend to force myself to talk to them, almost in a sneaky way of stealing their secrets. anyways, the only way that i really release myself from intimidation is reminding myself of what i have and what i have accomplished and who i am. i got through my sketchbooks, stare at my paintings or put all my work in one room and go through it all. i remind myself that i wouldnt be surrounded by such wonderful and amazing people if i wasnt one of them too. and i remind myself of what i have done already in my life that deserves compliment, how much ive survived, what has brought my down and how i brought myself back up again. self love and recognition can make a day feel better sometimes.
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Aug 20, 05
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Bev.. your such a snobby bitch man.. I hate you soo much.
take your thumb outta yer ass for once.. geesh ;) hahaha. You know I love ya, we got soap! Yeah, a lot of people mistake shyness for snobyness. like.. A LOT OF PEOPLE. I dunno... If I know someone thinks so'n'so is snoby... I just guess its because they dont knwo them. because how can someone be snoby to you.. if they dont know you.. well sorta. except when you get those dumb whores. they're breed of their own. Butdont be intimated by people. Cause you of all people shouldnt be. If they do/say/look/act/whatever better then you... in your eyes. Jsut look up to them. though... we all know you can do/say.look/act better then them anyways ;)
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I dont let people intimidate me... most people are looking for people to intimidate so if you let them they will.....
the trick is to just focuss on your own thing and to not worry about what another person is thinking ...if you are confident and comfortable in your skin people can sence it and then treat you the right way. I've always thought that people think I'm snobby because i dont really talk to people i havnt met a few times....I just like to feel the person out first
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I can feel you on that. And it's funny too, you feel like once you're all grown up and more comfortable with yourself that you're over all that awkwardness that being 16 can give you, but I can still be around people that make me fumbly and speechless.
But being reminded that we're still a little humbled by some things every once in awhile isn't all that bad.
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Aug 20, 05
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sometimes i want to post in threads but, i can just feel miss myra lurking around on here waiting, once she told me shes was gona stab me in the eye.
i feel this thread *tear*
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Aug 20, 05
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I know exactly how you feel. But it seems so funny hearing that come from you because you are an extremely talented artist, dancer, etc etc. Youre cute as hell and youre an above average human being all around soo... theres absolutely no need for you to be intimidated by people you admire because you are just as wonderful
*tear* heehee
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Aug 21, 05
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hmm. i got that problem too. sooo many people do. and some of my closest friends have this problem. anxiety is huge around the world
People are all scared of eachother half the time. Whats he/she thinking? Am i Cool, Smart, Sexy,Succesful? Is what i have to say, worth saying it? I find lots of the really great,nice , caring kids always have similar issues. The shyness and paranoia of what other people think. Its because your a sensitive soul.... and it really sucks that other people who do intimidate, cant sense this about some people immediately and say. listen bud, loosen up, your good shit! So at times we'll come across as snobs, which totally sucks cuz that is never the case. But if your lucky enough to be blessed wit high sensitivity to things, youve probly got a lot to offer the world. So dont let the anxiety thing get you down! If you can feel it, your the shit. so dont hold back
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Aug 21, 05
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im def full of confidence, but no matter how confident i am there are still some ppl i look up to big time...or just extremly impressed with. i dont think i need more self confidence..if i get more im just straight up too self loving and flat out maybe a cocky.... it's just fustrating when im around the ppl i look up to i freeze up and have a hard time saying hi...which results to them portray me as a snob or a straight up bitch... im not like thatttt!
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Aug 21, 05
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Aug 21, 05
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seans right..crotch grabbing really solves all problems.
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Aug 21, 05
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are u saying im scary looking?
kam...just grab ure dick
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