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Punching Bag Bitch, cry and whine your way into oblivion. |
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Not knowing how much....
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to believe. 100% just give the person the benifit of the doubt. 50% though... what parts should you and shouldnt you believe. 0% if I'm not sure.. why should I even believe any of it. So many people run thier mouths..... and say things.. perphaps.. you wanna hear... or dont... or make agreements.... or just tell you something.... or anything.. really.... And trying to figure out whats true and whats not. is a fukcing bitch. Maybe it's just a good thing... I don't belive anything.. anyone says anymore. it's all a load of shit. |
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werd.....
I've come to the realization that you can never trust anyone completely..... I hear everyone talk shit about each other and I jus let people have their opinions....If i judged everyone according to what other people have said I would have no friends... I have to be my own witness... ....because I've ended up with some wikkid friends from not litsining to other peoples veiws on a person..and jus seeing for myself |
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usually just asking a person and actually talking about something usually stops all the "DRAMA" and bullshit....i never listen to ppl unless it come from the sorce.....sometimes ppl try to complicate a situation to benefit them selves(what can they gain from the situation)...fun how life is....and how a simple im sorry or what can we do to fix this usually is the simple way to go...
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but this is more so a general statement. I dunno, I seem to not believe anyone.. like even when it comes to making plans. or they say.. they'll do something.. like.. grab a glass of water... like anythign anyone says. I dont beleive it untill it happens. but its not so much a trust thing... but whther to belive them... if that makes sense. it's all in how one precieves what one says. |
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It's easy to know a shit talker and take everything they say with a grain of salt.
What is harder is knowing someone you care about isn't being totally honest with you 100% of the time because they don't want to upset you/make a big deal out of something/cause a situation..whatever, that hurts more. |
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its really bad when you finally realize how many lies and shit you have withheld for someone else, that you have been a part of only because you thought the world of them that they thought the world of you, that they alone would hold all your secrets so why not keep theirs only to find that they have lied to you, told others who really didnt need to know things about you and who refuse to admit to anything that they have done to you or others.
i hate that. i really dont like realizing how you can get sucked in by some people, believe their lies, and infact think that what they do is a good thing. i didnt like what i did to find all this out, or realize all of it, or to end all of it, but it was what i had to do. drama was unavoidable, plus i needed it as the slap in the face of reality of what a friend is. lying about anything at anytime is not ok. and i dont associate with people anymore who use others as tools to gain things in life - wether its me or other people. and jovi i understand - i still trust people in many ways. i just learned a rough lesson. |
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I always tell the truth...the BRUTALALY honest truth...whether you want to hear it or not. In turn, Ive become an expert @ pulling my foot OUT of my mouth...causses more little probs but avoids the big ones all together...and usually the people it offends are people who talk shit or that are so fake it hurts..so I dont loose any sleep over it
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I dont think you can ever believe anything 100%
trust no one - x files Ive always been a very honest and open person. Therefore I tend to think other ppl are like that as well... however ive deffinently learned from life experinces there are some ppl who lie/bullshit/and talk through their teeth with out notice or care :( Over all I like to give everyone a first chance, but once you blow it YOUR DONE! (Thats why you should never lie/bullshit/manipulate storys) As for loved ones and dear friends... sometimes its hard to believe them with certain things... but I would always give them the benifit of the doubt just as I would like them to believe me when no one else does. If its dealing with gossip/stories... I always make note that im hearing their side and we all know how ppl can exagerate or manipulate it so you understand their feelings better etc. Therefore I try to get both sides of the story (you can be so surprised sometimes) or just take note of it before I let it really effect me. |