Who would be ok with your bf or gf still....

Would you be ok if your bf or gf still talked to their x almost everyday still after they have been broken up for a year...who you knew they were IN LOVE when they were together......
and they talk that cute little talk they used to do when they were going out right in front of you....but they kepted on saying to you "we're just friends" and "i love you" to you......

would you be ok with that or do you think there is something fishy going on there?

[dragon boi]

hell no

[frogprincess]

i take it you are the rebound girlfriend....rebound relasonships usally never last more than a few months.

to avoid total heartbeak, send loverboy on a trip to dumpsville.

take care and good luck in cow town.

:143:

[~lazee_grrl~]

does he know how insecure u feel about his friendship with the ex...cuz maybe if u talked to him about it..he might back away from it a bit..not totally ignore the ex or sumthing..cuz yeah..if they are friends..u can't expect him to ditch her..and since they did go out..they'll probably always have a certain bond..but yeah...if i was in that situation..i would definitely be suspicious too..

Originally posted by ~lazee_grrl~
does he know how insecure u feel about his friendship with the ex...cuz maybe if u talked to him about it..he might back away from it a bit..not totally ignore the ex or sumthing..cuz yeah..if they are friends..u can't expect him to ditch her..and since they did go out..they'll probably always have a certain bond..but yeah...if i was in that situation..i would definitely be suspicious too..

yes i have talked to him about it...
and all he does it get mad at me about thinking it..and that hes sick of me bringing it up all the time.
he knows how i feel..and yet he does it right in front of me...
its like he doesnt relaly care.
and now were moving to calgary..cuz he wants to get as far away from her as possible....to help our relationship.
so maybe thats a good thing.
i just get so mAD when she phones...like cRAZY mad...my heart starts going all fast.
and it has gotten better..they dont talk all the time anymore like they used to..its just that they still have to talk...why?
i NEVER talk to my x anymore..why would i want to...
hes old news ..you know.

Originally posted by frogprincess
i take it you are the rebound girlfriend....rebound relasonships usally never last more than a few months.

to avoid total heartbeak, send loverboy on a trip to dumpsville.

take care and good luck in cow town.

:143:

i am a rebound gf unforuntatly..and its been the hardest almost 9-10 months of my life.
But finally it seems like were getting somewhere now..moving away and all..i just dont understand why he still does it knowing how i feel about it.....grrrrr

[crookedking]

as long as they're not doing anything else who cares?

[Babyfyne]

:044: ..I think i'd be pretty paranoid too actually...it's all about trust tho'....he should understand there is a line that you just can't cross...."cute-sie" voices should be shared between you and your b/f...NOT you, your b/f and his ex.....you have to think too that it has been a YEAR since they broke up...again...IT'S ALL ABOUT TRUST...if you are doubting it's quite obvious you have a lot to learn about HIM... :500: ,it's hard to tolerate.. but it's YOU he's with....if he IS cheating on you.. "SHOUT ME A HOLLA" *giggles* and i'LL BACK YOU UP ! :052:

"SHIT HAPPENS...."!!

Yah...it's totally all about the trust.
And I have to admit..I don't fully trust him...
there are reasons for that....but i love him alot..and i know he loves me...and i know that hes not doing anything with his x..its just..why do they need to talk the way they do when they do talk?
like...makes me want to puke..especially in front of me...COME ON!
Me and him have come a LONG way...like...fuck...you dont even want to know.....
so us moving to Calgary I think is going to be a good idea...get as far away from his x as possible (is why he wants to move there) and to just start fresh together.
I dont know why im saying all this... :219:
THanks for listening though :135:

[BabyK]

DUMP HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

that's my 2 cents becuz he prolly still loves her and ur just being used for whatever as a rebound (<--you even said it urself)

Sure he's a nice guy but there are plenty of nice guys who put you first.

If he put u first he wouldn't do that shit in front of you.

[stabmyhead]

rebound gf, obviously. shame on you for even staying with him for so long. you said he's sick of you bringing it up all the time. he's probably just sick of you al together, notice how he still does all that cutesy talk infront on you and such. maybe he's too scared to break up with you, maybe he;s using you to move to calgary so you can pay his way. *shrug*

sucks to be you to say the least. :P

[stabmyhead]

i think something fishy is up if he wants to move away from her to calgary and they talk everyday.. maybe he knocked her up.

Originally posted by stabmyhead
rebound gf, obviously. shame on you for even staying with him for so long. you said he's sick of you bringing it up all the time. he's probably just sick of you al together, notice how he still does all that cutesy talk infront on you and such. maybe he's too scared to break up with you, maybe he;s using you to move to calgary so you can pay his way. *shrug*

sucks to be you to say the least. :P

everything that you just said there..is totally wrong.
he tells me he loves me all the time
and hes asked me to move to calgary with him.

and yes he still does that cute fucken talk with her...but trust me..ive been doing alot of thinking today.........
can't ignore how i feel forever you know.. :052:

Originally posted by stabmyhead
i think something fishy is up if he wants to move away from her to calgary and they talk everyday.. maybe he knocked her up.

LOL..your funny.
no he didn't knock her up.
hes moving there for a change and he wants to start a life with me.
but theres just things i cant forget :(

[~lazee_grrl~]

well..if u want ur relationship to move forward in any way..u gotta get ur feelings and wut bugs u..out into the open..and then get over it..or solve it...cuz if u continue holding onto it..u won't be getting anywhere...its not solved so it'll continue to bug u til sumthing's done..unless u can just ignore it?..hope stuff goes good for u..~

[BabyK]

Your kidding yourself, dump him

[BB_YungYung]

I don't get the question but I answered anyways
I don't get
talking cute?
well you always have to let yourself to get over your x. that is if there is anything to get over.
haha

[miss.myra]

Well, this may be stating the obvious, but you can probably do so much better than that.

Myra

[jade]

Originally posted by lil ms jess

And I have to admit..I don't fully trust him...

a relationship without trust is a difficult thing to keep going. if you don't have trust it's hard to have anything else (well, maybe good sex but that's beside the point).
are you hoping for things to magically get better when you move?

Originally posted by jade



a relationship without trust is a difficult thing to keep going. if you don't have trust it's hard to have anything else (well, maybe good sex but that's beside the point).
are you hoping for things to magically get better when you move?

NO...i've thought about it. And ive even told him abut that same question...that just cause we'd move away..doesnt mean id forget everything that im feeling.
I dunon...thanks for everyones opionion.....i appreciate it.
:Keebler:

But.....I dont know yet what I have decided :035: *shrug*

[stabmyhead]

i'm just gonna laugh at you when you are posting back from calgary and you think things are gonna get better with your "bf" just because you moved away from his ex that he seems to obviously still really cares about.. who are you kidding? yourself.

*shakes head* i hate seeing women get duped and fooled by easy talking guys... oh well.

ENJOY YOUR LIFE IN CALGARY.

[jade]

well, good luck. sometimes putting something that's bothering you in the back of your head and hoping for it to go away doesn't always work. it has a tendancy to pop back out a while later and it still bothers you.
he sounds like an ex of mine....
again, best of luck to you.

yah thanks!
putting it in the back of my head has stoped.
its all out in the open......no worries.

stabmyhead: please dont post about how much you'd you laugh at me when im in calgary blah blahhhh...i didnt ask for you to do that....so dont do it..thanks :)

[hexe]

Wow! Talk about drama! Well I'm new here so I don't want to step on any toes(yet) But I was in a similar situation except, I was the boyfriend, and from that perspective, my comment begins.. Well first off, not EVERY guy is a jerk-off, (well most) I actually still live w/ my ex, (she has her own room, and it cuts the cost of livin') I got four roomies, and it hard to find a cheap place where I'm at(most expensive city to live in) I barely see her (we have separate lives obviously)first a little background history, we were together 4 yrs, broken up 2yrs ago(I broke it off) and we both have and have had relationships w/ other people. We do still do the "cute talk" but it's not like lovey dovey or anything, it's more like I still call her "babe" once in a while, and she still calls me "pendejo"anywho, I know my recent ex hated it, but she knew nothing ever went on, as nothing ever did, my ex ex is like a sister to me. But I know that we shouldn't do the cute talk anymore, it's just not cool. It's disrespectful to you, as it was to my recent ex. (we broke up for other reasons..)So it's cool if they're still friends, but the cute talk should stop. That's my 99 cents. -peace

[deja]

forget it... it's not okay...
that had happened to someone i knew and geez, the girl thought that the 2 of them were still together!!!! the dood was just afraid of telling her straight up that it was over b/c he didnt want to hurt her... fuck that... no way...