tears, do they justify?

[yoko*]

It sucks when table's get turned on your just because your opponent starts CRYING...

I've nothing against crying itself, I do it too but I don't expect people to come running over to me for support just because I'm bawling. If they think that my point is wrong, then my point is wrong and they should stick to that... and not let tears get into the way of their judgement... comfort and support is a kind gesture, but still.. crying doesn't validate one's opinion..

Plus, some people are more sensitive or can cry more oten, and let tears flow like htere's no tomorrow for even idiotic reasons.. So does it make me less "hurt" or offended just because I didn't have the urge to cry?

Today I made some one cry... and I feel BAD for it, I do.. because I don't want to make ANY ONE cry, but it ticked me off when I heard some one else say "Why are you guys being so mean?" I was simply expressing my honest feelings like I would to any one.. Itry to be as honest as I can.. and sometimes it comes out a little too harsh, but she was being SOOO pesistant about something I DID NOT WANT TO DO. .and she even tried to trick me into participating, and that pissed me off. But when i found out today that she disrespected my WILL and proceded with HER plans.. it ticked me off. she gives me a choice, I say NO so she leaves me with none?

The situation is idiotic, I must admit.. it's a small little conflict, but what my main point is that it reminded me of situations in the past where I've seen or observed so many people who, as their last resort, use tears or some form of manipulation to gain support...

And they get it. I remember saying to someone, that TEARS MEAN NOTHING TO ME. I personaly believe that you have to try to see beyond that. If I don't cry to a tragedy in my life, and some one else does, does that make me less hurt than them? no.. and I mean what is one to do when some one you care about starts bawling in public infront of you...? say "shut the fuck up biatch, you know you're wrong!"?

I find, that girls often do this... but that's just from my personal experience...

So what? do tears justify????????????????????????? ANY ONE ELSE UNDERSTAND WHAT I MEAN?

[bob]

i dunno yoko, but honestly seeing a person cry is a turn on for me.
wow i really am a horrible person.

[yoko*]

bob, you think a tea-kettle is sexy :P

well i barely agree with you but I can see where you're coming from... the only time I would find it appealing is if it's from some one who doesn't cry often... it's like being able to see a sensitive side to them that you've never seen before.. then it's like "AWWWWW"

that is all.

[bob]

exactly

but i know whatcha mean about ppl using tears for manipulation ... now that's pathetic ... but effective for the most part.

[Babyfyne]

oNE OF my g/f cries super easily...so easily that her b/f is now immune to seeing her cry...he use to feel bad when she cried and would appologize and shit like that...but he doesnt anymore..cause she does it so often...
Someone shouldnt be able to get away with something just because the flow works start.....no one should feel like they are a bad person because of it...!! But then again it all depends on the situation...your situation YOKO...you shouldnt feel bad:P~~she deserved it :P~~ :PartEkid:

[~lazee_grrl~]

sum people do cry really easily...and sum people don't...i know i do..hah..u know i do yok..=P~..so when i do..i expect people to just know its me kinda thingy..and sum people like to fake cry..just cuz they know it'll get people's pity and stuff..so i dunno...sumtimes u can SO tell when sumone is faking it for attention..but other times..its iffy..but yeah..i dunno wut i'm saying no more..??..

and yok..the person that said u were being mean is very sympathetic..so when she sees tears..it gets to her..but yeah...cuz u didn't agree to it in the first place..i don't see a reason why it's ur fault..it isn't...and i wouldn't have put u in that thingy but since she was the buyer of it..i had to do what she wanted me to do...sorry babe~..

[yoko*]

babyfyne..i dont deny that I feel bad about it though, or that i made her cry but argh. anyways, thx for the reply.;)

it's okay jen, you shouldn't apologize.. how is it any of your fault.. this post is more focused on the "crying does it justify" part... so no worries.

i just don't like the fact that she GIVES me an option, but then deprives me of it afterwards and her scheme-ish ways of trying to get me to do it... i hate dishonesty and I also hate being tricked into things like any body would.. i;m sure there's a LAW about using people's pics without their consent though, jen.. hehe.

I understand that "that girl" must be a sympathetic person, but honestly, it's none of her f-ruitin business and what the heck-ers does she know? i just don't like third parties blurtin out biased comments like that... ANYWAYS...

usin people's affairs without their permission, that's so not cool. it doesn' t matter who payed for it...

[yoko*]

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I'm still bitter about it, can you tell.. lol I want to start monday FRESHHHHH so......
*FORGET FORGET* *kickself*

Okay I've forgotten, what was I talking aobut again... I forget! *ladeedaaa off to lalaaland with candycoated dreamssss*

[deja]

if you gotta cry, you gotta cry... especially if ur hormones are just outta control... wut do u do?
damn PMS