What the fuck?

[SmokeOne]

by starting this thread you are the one that is comming off seeming like the unsecure one. IF you cant trust your Bf when a girl flirts with him..then why be with him. And he doesnt seem like a type of guy to do that. So mellow out.

[PwInCeSs]

Originally Posted by Ista

lol....
This was a general question.

But I appreciate how much effort was put into all the assumptions.
And ps. Yes , this happens to us. And unfortunatley he's a flirt , but its nothing im crying over lol...I just dont get girls thats all.

Anyway...THANKS FOR THE STORIES KIDDIES!

: /

If he is flirting with girls, what dont you get? He knows he has a gf and flirts, the girls know he has a gf and flirt back.
I think when it comes to this subject you seem a bit insecure, if you trust him then whats the problem.

(yes flirting may just be how he is all the time, and i know he doesnt mean anything by it, but thats how it is)

[t-skywalker]

IF YOU DONT TRUST THE PERSON YOUR WITH . THE RELATIONSHIP IS ALREADY OVER!!! who cares what other chicks say to your man aslong as you know your the only person he is thinking about and he is being loyal to.

not like anyone can control what others write/say to them. its when they are feeding the fire and being secretive that you have a probleme. and again you shouldnt be with them at that point.

[Skitzo_Style]

AM I THE ONLY ONE HERE THAT IS BAFFELED BY THE FACT THAT THERE ARE OTHER WOMEN IN THE WORLD THAT FIND ERIK ATTRACTIVE BESIDES FERRAH?!?!?!

ferrah, you have no reason to be jealous. erik would never cheat on you cause he doesn't have the balls to do it.

just know that whatever erik is doing is harmless and get on with life.

[Ista]

Originally Posted by Ashley*Dawn

I'm a huge flirt in general. I flirt with everyone... and I mean everyone... my friend’s boy or girl. When I'm with someone they know I flirt but it's completely innocent. I also know girls will flirt with my boyfriend. I think it's flattering I know I've got an attractive boyfriend.
The only time it should worry someone is if they don't trust the person they're with. If you trust him then take it as a compliment.

well then your all a bunch of slutty mcsluttertons!
its like a huge flirty orgy with you then eh?
hrmm.....
sl00t.

^ Andrew , spell my name right for fuck sakes.

Thanks for the insight there buddy-o.
haha I noticed erik doesnt have the balls to do so , because Im capable of detaching those balls.


nyeah...
cam soon.

[Skitzo_Style]

Originally Posted by Ista

well then your all a bunch of slutty mcsluttertons.
its like a huge flirty orgy with you then eh?
hrmm.....
sl00t.

^ Andrew , spell my name right for fuck sakes.

Thanks for the insight there buddy-o.
haha I noticed erik doesnt have the balls to do so , because Im capable of detaching those balls.


nyeah...
cam soon.

sorry ista (im not going to bother calling you by your real name, cause i cannot spell it right), but there is no reason to be calling ashley a slut. she has known erik for a very long time, even longer than i've known him. so there is no reason to get jealous and call her a slut just cause they flirt with each other. its harmless. she's a good friend of eriks and i am pretty sure he wouldn't appreciate you calling her that.

with that being said, forget about this whole litte ordeal, and get on with life. erik is a good guy and a pussy, so you are gurenteed he will not leave you for ashley. :P

[Ista]

^ guy , what the fuck are you talking about , shut up.
Fuck....my eyes.....

[crookedking]

i think that if i was dating erik i'd have more threads that start with "what the fuck".

[Ista]

^ hey , well if your boyfriends so much better YOU start a hate thread about him....pff....
:)

[thechix0r]

wow... can we suspend her again

[crookedking]

Originally Posted by Ista

^ hey , well if your boyfriends so much better YOU start a hate thread about him....pff....
:)

i don't want to rub my relationship in your face.

[Carrie]

I don't think its about whether anyones boyfriend is better then yours and they should post about them.

I think that as a girlfriend on a message board with all your boyfriends friends and acquaintances it is a bit rude to be making threads about such topics regarding him.

You have said that it is just a general question and wasn't regarding Erik, but you have gotten all defensive when anyone said anything about Erik and his flirting, which makes me think that it's just not a general question.

I don't know your relationship with him and how he feels about you making all theses threads, but I really don't need to know every problem you two are having or not having in your life out there in Toronto.

Yeah I can just not look at the threads, but there are always some funnies that people post and it's like a car crash, hard not to look.

I know I once said something innocent on here and my bf isn't even a member and he got offend, since then .. my life stays off here.

[t-skywalker]

^^^i agree with everything she said. and where is erik in all this? if i went on here ranting about my man he'd be pretty hurt. if my man started a thread about me like this id be pretty hurt and hope he'd delete it.

[prozac]

tacky tacky tacky

[Ashley*Dawn]

Originally Posted by Ista

well then your all a bunch of slutty mcsluttertons!
its like a huge flirty orgy with you then eh?
hrmm.....
sl00t.
.

Right sweety... I don't care what you think about me. I simply said I've got a flirtatious personality. Call me a slut all you want you don't know me at all. I'm nothing close to a slut. I'd sink to your level and start with the name calling but I'm bigger then that.
Have a nice day.

Originally Posted by Skitzo_Style

sorry ista (im not going to bother calling you by your real name, cause i cannot spell it right), but there is no reason to be calling ashley a slut. she has known erik for a very long time, even longer than i've known him. so there is no reason to get jealous and call her a slut just cause they flirt with each other. its harmless. she's a good friend of eriks and i am pretty sure he wouldn't appreciate you calling her that.

<3 Thanks for that!

[cinist]

Originally Posted by Skitzo_Style

AM I THE ONLY ONE HERE THAT IS BAFFELED BY THE FACT THAT THERE ARE OTHER WOMEN IN THE WORLD THAT FIND ERIK ATTRACTIVE BESIDES FERRAH?!?!?!

ferrah, you have no reason to be jealous. erik would never cheat on you cause he doesn't have the balls to do it.

just know that whatever erik is doing is harmless and get on with life.

ahahaha

[Erin]

Yeah. That one ^ made me laugh pretty hard.

[Ista]

Originally Posted by crookedking

i don't want to rub my relationship in your face.

But it would be so much fun!!

Ps. I still think ashley is a sl00t for the comment she made.

But thanks for everyones useless imput.

[FireWire]

Useless input? What were you expecting to hear from making a thread like this anyway?

Your insecurity/paranoia is useless - lose it before you start ruining peoples' lives by it.

[Skitzo_Style]

Originally Posted by Ista

^ guy , what the fuck are you talking about , shut up.
Fuck....my eyes.....

what am i talking about?

i am talking about the fact that you are obviusly jealous of the fact that there are other women that flirt with erik (the idea still seems complelete obsured to me), but it is true.

if you don't want people to give you sound advice on how to handle something like this, then don't start a thread about it. if you have too much pride to try and look at this situation from a different point of view, then don't bother trying to find people who will feel sorry for you.

instead, start your thread off with something along the lines of "my bf flirts with other girls! everyone say how much of a slut these girls are and feel sorry for me!!!"

maybe you will get a better result than this thread.

[miss.myra]

Originally Posted by Ista

But it would be so much fun!!

Ps. I still think ashley is a sl00t for the comment she made.

But thanks for everyones useless imput.

Sorry, but if you think that because a girl has a flirtatious personality that makes her a slut you're totally wrong. I would say it's more slutty to post all about the graphic details of your sex life that nobody even wants to picture in the first place.

Anyways, there are not a lot of things more annoying to boyfriends than an insecure girlfriend. If you posted this shit because someone (who by the way, would probably never want to fuck your boyfriend) is friendly and innocently flirtatious towards Erik on this messageboard, all you're doing is embarrassing your poor boyfriend. Grow up.

[FireWire]

Originally Posted by Skitzo_Style

i am talking about the fact that you are obviusly jealous of the fact that there are other women that flirt with erik (the idea still seems complelete obsured to me), but it is true.

lol, it doesn't matter what YOU think of the guy but as long as he has a woman by his side, especially a gf - other women will find him more attractive (and again, regardless of YOUR opinion on this guy). Being taken is sexy. If a girl has chosen a guy, that just shows to all the other women that this guy has something a girl wants, and makes other girls want him too. That will cause jealousy in the girl going out with the guy.

Say... will you be able to pick up more ladies if you walk into a nightclub all by yourself or if you have a two women hanging from your arms?

So that's why. :p

[rawb]

GUYS IS ISTA STILL PRETENDING WHAT I SAID DIDN'T HIT TOO CLOSE TO HOME

[Skitzo_Style]

Originally Posted by miss.myra

Sorry, but if you think that because a girl has a flirtatious personality that makes her a slut you're totally wrong. I would say it's more slutty to post all about the graphic details of your sex life that nobody even wants to picture in the first place.

Anyways, there are not a lot of things more annoying to boyfriends than an insecure girlfriend. If you posted this shit because someone (who by the way, would probably never want to fuck your boyfriend) is friendly and innocently flirtatious towards Erik on this messageboard, all you're doing is embarrassing your poor boyfriend. Grow up.

my dearest myra (aka sarah),

i would give you karma if it was not disabled! <3

[Gusto]

it isn't about you this time rawb.