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Jun 08, 02
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I need some help, seriously
ok, ive been kindda messing around with some chick for a month, we've done everything but fuk....shes older than me and she thinks we are the same age....she sent me an email today saying this:
"I just have a question for you?? whats going on with "us"? I know I should probably ask you straight out...but I'm being too shy about it....I just want to know if its just a fling or something more or what? I care about you and I want to know now before anything goes further....ya know?? the other day when I was sad...I was more or less confused...because your always talking about other girls..and that day when me and *** were looking for something to do you said we should go pick up guys....so it kinda made me wonder, and I'd really like to know how you feel? so...........get back to me kay....miss ya." what should i do?????/ i havent gotton serious in a really long time....... any suggestions???????? serious comments only please thanx 
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Jun 08, 02
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you cant ask anyone that but yourself.
my only advice to you is to be honest with her. see what happens... good luck :)
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Jun 08, 02
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OOOHHZ...okay been there done that.
first things first..let her know about the age...honesty seriously rocks. she might even think of u differently cuz of u're age. a big wall might just fall on u after u tell her u're age and stuff. i think u just hafta think deeply and...do u actually care about her..do u have any special feelings or wuteva towards her. it doesn't hurt to give it a shot.
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Jun 08, 02
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first of all...do you care about this girl? or do you want to keep it as a 'fling thing'
if you want to take it seriously..tell her your real age....starting off a relationship by lying is no way to start just pretty much ask yourself what you want...and then talk it out with her that's what i'd do good luck hope things work out for the best~!
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Jun 08, 02
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From the sounds of it, you aren't good enough for her. You have been lying to her in the beginning, and you don't seem that interested in her at all except for a place to plug your penis.
Chances are she's not going to be pleased with you lying about your age, or lack of interest in her. Then again, some girls ar desperate for companionship and will continue fucking you to be close to you and make you happy. I say break up with her for her own good. You can't seem to be honest or possibly fulfill what she needs from a partner.
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Jun 08, 02
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^^^
please tell me youre kidding.
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Jun 09, 02
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....yeah....thats pretty sad no wonder i have a hard time trusting guys...
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Jun 09, 02
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Ooouch! Been there done that for sure!
If it's a fling...in your eyes, you gotta let her know straight up. Or you'll end up totally hurting her! If you're thinking it could be more, then reassure her it's not a fling and you'd like to continue on with things. If you're a bit nervous about taking it to the next level with her, but you still want to, then take it slowly. Word of advice...don't tell her about you and so-and-so, and don't tell her to go guy huntin'! That can really ruin things when you're just startin' out! Good luck!
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Jun 11, 02
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if things start to go get serious, i will tell her my age straight up........right nows its kindda a fling, but we havent slept together yet.....i dont wanna hurt this chick......she cares about me and she has always thinks about me......im hooking up with her this afternoon......she also says that we do not spend enough time together, soo ill putting in the effort to see her at least 3 times this week.........she lives too far from me though, its a 40 min drive each way, but thats ok
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Jun 11, 02
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Kraig the counsellor!
Sweetboy -- 'Sup dude? Good to see you on F&K.
I think this one is really fairly easy and some have already said it in their replies. Communication is the number one thing in any relationship - personal ones included. BEFORE having any discussion with her, you have a decision to make. She sounds like she is ready for commitment so that is great but now the question remains are you? Once you have the answer to that one, it will determine your next course of action with her. She sounds like a pretty amazing person so just make sure you are ready for her. Peace.
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Jun 11, 02
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thanx for the help bro
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Jun 11, 02
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Kevin, your a fuck tard.. how can you say shit like.. its not like your getting any pussy anyways :p But show some respect dude... heh, and you wonder why I bash you when I get the chance? You show no respect to others how do you expect it back??
SweetboyXTC, be honest with her and your self.. and whats meant to happen will happen :) Kraig- you sound like one of those ppl that do those help columns in magazines and shit, its cool
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Jun 12, 02
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i hokked up with her last night, things went well, but im still not ready to tell her how old i am
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Jun 12, 02
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i know, i know
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