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  #26 (permalink)  
Old Dec 08, 02
O.G. Sammy
 
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and who is this thread about
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Old Dec 08, 02
O.G. Sammy
 
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????
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Old Dec 08, 02
Kuckucksuhr
 
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ta guelle monsieur...


One of my good friends from high school, Shannon, moved to London where she was working as a research assitant @ UW.

I was always really worried about her, 'cause she always got into some really interesting scenarios. She'd always be calling me 'cause she'd need a ride home from some bar where a guy had ditched her.

Anyways, things kept getting worse and worse, and it seemed like it was every night I was getting a call on my cell because she had gotten herself into another mess.

We started going to clinics every two months or so to get her checked out. She said she was allergic to latex -- which I think was bogus, and that was her reason for "bare-backing" (so to speak).

It was just a matter of time before she got something. She wound up picking up Gonnerhea from some sleazy guy she had slept with back home. You know, after you spend enough time in the waiting room at the clinics, you realize that it isn't just dirty people who are getting this stuff....it's everybody.

She still doesn't use protection and she still has random partners. Shannon says she likes the thrill of the unknown. Which is really going to suck when she gets something worse.

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So, basically that's how I got started with the whole school programme, going into schools and talking about STD's and it was really scary how many kids didn't know shit about them.

The whole thing was based on not just going in and saying don't have sex, but about making sure that you know that risks involved.

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Boy, I don't know your history, so I can't make a judgement.

Unless you want to be the slut?
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Old Dec 08, 02
strange.
 
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Quote:
Originally posted by Gold Streaks
Because it is ok for guys to sleep around ok. A guy who does this is not a slut. He is a playa. Shit, let a playa play!
ugh. this comment makes me mad. its really annoying when guys have this attitude. hes a slut. its not cool. unless hes like 14 and fronting for his "homeboys"

whats your excuse? btw, i really hope you arent this mentally young. and stoopid. and if you are, then maybe you should get some tests done?
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Old Dec 08, 02
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Originally posted by ~*goddessa*~
I dont see why people call people sluts. Big fuckin deal so they like a variety of sex partners there is nothing wrong with that!!! Dont be so narrow minded and slap labels on people!Just because what they do u dont agree with doesnt mean that u have the right to sit there and call them down for it.
Keep an open mind :kimmie:
i think it shows a lack of respect for them, and their partners.
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Old Dec 08, 02
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yeah i agree with linds... but whatever floats your boat, have fun harversting those stds baby
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Old Dec 08, 02
strange.
 
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i like it when people agree with me :beam:
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Old Dec 08, 02
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lol well u must get it alot lol u seem to be quit consciencious
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Old Dec 08, 02
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i do? hahaha. forreal? no...no one ever agrees with me. boohoo.
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Old Dec 08, 02
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sexual intercourse

Function: noun
Date: 1799

1 : heterosexual intercourse involving penetration of the vagina by the penis : COITUS
2 : intercourse involving genital contact between individuals other than penetration of the vagina by the penis
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Old Dec 08, 02
strange.
 
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and?
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Old Dec 08, 02
O.G. Sammy
 
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unless i want to be a slut?

what the shit? i was asking you a simple fucking question about who the thread was about. fuck that noise.

and yeah...you don't know my history. true. so i'll let you know that i'm not a slut.

too bad for your friend though.
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Old Dec 08, 02
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its funny how half the people that replied this "slut friend" is a girl.

Am I blind because i dont see any refference to his/her gender in the original post.

Anyways, if you are a true friend to this person I think mentioning the fact that constant sex with random strangers is not the smartest things. Just make sure that he/she is aware of the consenquences (well, they probably are, but just remind them.. some peopel just need a slight kick in the bum).
But don't barge in or start lecturing them like their parents would do.
Sluttiness isn;t always a phase, some people need to be sat down and told what can, or is happening because of it, and that you care and you dont want these things to happen.
You can also suggest other, safer ways of getting regular sex if its something they can;t stop doing.

buy them sex toys, hook them up with a friend with benefits if needed.
I have to agree with diva, letting your friend go on with this lifestyle without saying anything, doesn't make you a friend in my mind, just a bystander.

And Valerie.. sorry but by the sounds of it, this person falls into the definition of slut.

slut ( P ) Pronunciation Key (slt)
n.

A woman considered sexually promiscuous.
A woman prostitute.

(omg, that was the first time i ever looked up that word and it DOES only pertain to females.. that makes me sick. iw onder if there is a REAL word for a sexually promiscuos man, considering there is numerous of rtheir fmale counterparts)

she sounds sexually promiscuous to me. And if you didn;t notice this person is speaking of his friend.. not judging a stranger because he heard she is a "slut".




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Old Dec 08, 02
Kuckucksuhr
 
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right, so clearly this thread got totally out of hand :punch:

-- I think now all we're doing is arguing the definition of a slut, which is maybe something that should be changed?

A

^^^Cheers, MistressSpankMe
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Old Dec 08, 02
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Quote:
Originally posted by chat noir:
SEX and NUTHIN' BUT

So your friend can't get enough of it (sex that is)....till the point that that's all they ever do. The scary thing is that they're always with random ppl.

So the question is:

Is this a problem? Should you step in, or leave the person be?


isn't that a nympho?
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Old Dec 08, 02
Kuckucksuhr
 
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^^^hmm, maybe you should read the thread -- don't think that's what we decided
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Old Dec 08, 02
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ok so heres the thing.. i dont know you
but you know when i come to toronto to visit you're gonna get rocked
seriously

peace brotha
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Old Dec 08, 02
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fo real, caitlin will fuck ur ass up
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Old Dec 09, 02
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Originally posted by *Caitlin*
ok so heres the thing.. i dont know you
but you know when i come to toronto to visit you're gonna get rocked
seriously

peace brotha
like seriously here
buddy you fuck with sammy you fuck with caitlin and aki.
watch yourself
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Old Dec 09, 02
Kuckucksuhr
 
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^^^ uh-huh -- I'll look forward to it

cheers!

Last edited by chat noir; Dec 09, 02 at 08:45 AM.
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Old Dec 10, 02
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Testosterone check.

I think you girls need to learn to read before you jump in. I don't see where Chat Noir made an attack on Sammy... It seems as if a bit of miscommunication and confusion occured... where Sammy might of thought Chat Noir was referring to him in the thread, whereas, CN explained, and told Sammy that he knew nothing of Sammy so he could not relate the situation to Sammy, but hey, "he 'made fun' of me/my friends online... what better way to prove our point than by beating him up for it!"

God I love logic.
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Old Dec 10, 02
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^^^

:kimmie:
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Old Dec 10, 02
my boo
 
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actually you dont really know the history behind this post.. i was talking to sammy while i posted my reply. CN is a friend of his from his building, and if you knew sammy or i then maybe you would understand that we say things liek that all the time. why am i explaining myself to you? its more of an inside thing i guess
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Old Dec 10, 02
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YOU DON'T KNOW ME BABY! YOU DON'T KNOW ME! YOU AIN'T KNOW NOTHIN'!! If I knew Sammy or you I would understand? I guess I just don't understand the need to utter online threats to people, even in a sarcastic manner based on something so mediocre, but hey, I'm not you guys, don't forget. I also don't understand why Sammy was acting all defensive in thinking that this post was about him if he hasn't been doing anything "slutty" Nothing to be paranoid about if you've been good. No, this is not me assuming anything, so put your pants back on.
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Old Dec 12, 02
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I feel in love with my best friend (she girl me guy)and eventually we dated.She called herself a slut and a whore when we were going out ,it was very uncomfortable for me as I really couldn't say anything because unfortunatly she was, but I really loved her anyways.Surprise she cheated on me like she cheated on everyone else but I loved her so much I wanted her back.So we got back she cheated on me again. She said before hand it would be difficult not to cheat on me but she would try her best because she truely loved me.So just trying to be friends with a slut is very difficult because they don't respect themselves so how can you respect them.It is very difficult to understand and like a slut when something like that happens to you.Let alone love them after they cheat on you and tell you that they still love you and expect you to love them back.
Why does someone act that way?
Childhood abuse?
Sexually active at an early age?
Promis. parent?
Insecure?
Unhappy?
Looking for anykind of attention?
looking for love or affection?

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