~*~Intelligence OR Body???~*~

[RiCeY]

Okiez guys...If you could only CHOOSE 1 which one would it be? What do you think is SEXIER in a women/girl?

Intelligence OR a great body? :kimmie:

[RiCeY]

It would be nice to meet someon who has both of these qualities...But if it came down to just choosing one from the other I would personally have to say intelligence...A great body can only go so far where a great mind can last...

[c.tard]

for a girl to be sexy, she can't be JUST one of those..

it's gotta be a nice mixture of the two..

i mean, if a girls got smart and has a good personality, then good, and a nice body (when i say nice, i don't mean pefect either) then good..

but a good body with no brains or anything. then that's not sexy.

or a really smart girl with good personality with a naaaaaaaaaasty ass body and face that i don't even wanan look at..

not sexy.

gotta be a good combo of both..

[bob]

this question should be open to both guys/girls

but i'd say intelligence. but i'd probably get more specific... there's so many differences with intelligence... i think the word i'd rather use is "knowledge". some girls just don't have a clue when it comes to how men think.

[RiCeY]

Of course the mix of the 2 would be perfect Cheryl...But if you could ONLY choose one what would it be? I'm sure there's guy's out there who would go for a drop dead gorgeous girl but with 1/2 the brain...

[JoNeSie]

Well, if you're asking what's sexier, then it's obviously the body. If you are asking what people are looking for, then as for me, I go for a combination of the 2. If they are completely lacking in 1 area then, I don't know if I'd even bother. I do however rate intellect over appearance. People may say I'm shallow, but I'm sure most ppl agree that there has to be a minimum physical attractiveness.

With most people out there, either end of the spectrum would probably not be attractive at all. If I had to choose either, I'd probably choose neither.

[c.tard]

to really fall for someone, ya there has to be some physical attraction between you. i totally agree.


but what i'm saying is, even a girl had a fucking killer body.. i wouldn't think it's sexy if she had like nooooo personality and what totally dumb.
sure, she'd be hot. but annoying and stupid. annoying and stupid does not = sexy.

to be sexy, i think you need a bit of both.

but i mean, if your talking sexy likelooking at someone in a magazine (ie : lingerie model) then it's all about looks. cause you don't have to talk or anything with them.. :P

[RiCeY]

Originally posted by c-TaRd:
but what i'm saying is, even a girl had a fucking killer body.. i wouldn't think it's sexy if she had like nooooo personality and what totally dumb.
sure, she'd be hot. but annoying and stupid. annoying and stupid does not = sexy.

to be sexy, i think you need a bit of both.

Agreed...Well said too! OMG we actually agree on something for once...Crazy...Hence I think most guys I think would rather go with intelligence like I said rather than the hot body...Being stupid does not = sexiness :)

But I wouldn't be surprised if guys did go for a girl just for her body despite having no intelligence at all

[c.tard]

well ya, i'm sure some guys have done it..and will keep doing it :P

but if a girl is sexy, she's got a bit of both.
if i were to be with a girl, she couldn't be really really stupid.. or really really ugly.. she's gotta be good looking and have a good personality.. otherwise i'd just wanna smack her :P

[Kelster]

**wALkiN**

if i HAD to pick one, it would be looks

i mean, this person may have all the personality in the world, but if i got sick everytime i looked at him, then nuh uh!

["jawayo"1]

she better be hot...like hot.....if shes got no intelligence....if not...oh well...lol....

[Joanne]

intelligence.

but then again, it all depends on the situation. looks are something that fade and don't last forever. intelligence and personality can. therefore, if it were a choice in say, a husband, it would be intelligence. If a person had a great personality and we really got along well, attraction is something that I find occurs naturally.

however, if I were ever in a situation where I just wanted a short-term relationship or fling.. then the body obviously.

but the idea of being in a long-term relationship with a guy who I couldn't keep a conversation without hearing the words "huh? I don't get it?" or "um.. what does that word mean?" would drive me nuts.

--Joanne :P

[*Caitlin*]

a good body is nothing if he's as dumb as a post.
if you cant carry a conversation, it's over. unless you were in it for just sex.
then maybe :)

[MistressSpankME]

Seeing a hot body obviously gets my panties wet alot faster, but intelligance is way more important to me.

My boy is chubby and hairy and I love him to bits! Besides the fact I preffer a slightly chubby boy/girl, so i don't get jabbed in the eye with a hip bone or something while cuddling, He is smart, and cute, and sure as hell knows his way around. There's no way i'd choose someone else, or even be more attracted to them because they have a better body.
I dont know, with me i'm not really into the whole stereotypical "nice body" anyways. I like girls with curves (that aren't man made), I enjoy little pudgy tummys and comfy arms to lay in. I went out with a boy that was extremely buff once, but it didn't matter how nice his body was when it came down to the fact I couldn't really open up to him. I think the only reason I swooned so much over his body was because I was young and I was "supposed" to like it.
But yah, intelligence all the way.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

well i dunno when it comes to relationships i like the best of both worlds but when it comes 2 sex i just want a sexy ass mutha fucka with a porn cock orrrrr a sexy ass italiana latina or euro chick with huge tits a ghetto booty long dark curly hair big brown eyes and full lips...so pretty much me :toasted: haa haaa

i am so shallow yet oh so deep

[sebcoe]

a great body is definately sexier, but not what i look for. finding some one sexy doesn't make for a long lasting relationship. and as for intelligence, it really depends how you define some one as being intelligent. a girl who is intelligent and great at solving math equations doesn't do much for me, if that is what you're asking.

how bout just a nice well rounded person who you are attracted to! :)

[Locky]

Its a tough call, i'm lucky i got both with my gf.

[Rhianna]

both, well all lot more than just those two things. There's way more to people than what they look like and their intelligence. But I could never go out with a tool.

[galaxie]

IMO, for a relationship to work, there has to be physical attraction as well as mental attraction.

Let's not forget that you went up and talked to the guy/girl in the first place because you were physically attracted to him/her!

Drew: bahahhahaahhaahahahaha much agreed :D

[got_rice]

i picked body...

cuz all the smart girls in my classes are really not that sexy

[strawberr_E]

i've discoverd i'm a sucker for the sweet heart kandE boys. personality for sure.

[strawberr_E]

[b] to answer the question: same goes for chicks.[/B

[me,myself&I]

They have to have both...

Or I don't even consider it!

[crookedking]

after racking my brains out for hours i have finally found the answer.

hot body.