'Ven You 'Vont to Shag A Friend

chat noir · #1 (**permalink**) Jan 11, 03

So vhat happens when you vont to shag a friend ven you know you shouldn't?

Hmmm.....perhaps because you are druunnk?

**ƒORM** · #2 (**permalink**) Jan 11, 03

he who hesitates, masturbates...

he who penetrates, contemplates

your call :y:

Ragga_Wh0re · #3 (**permalink**) Jan 11, 03

DONT DO IT!!!!!! when i was fucked up on Thursday night i crossed the line with one of my friends and last night when we were hanging out i felt all wierd and like SO not attracted or interested anymore and i dont know how 2 tell him "yah buddy i was fucked up so no touchy touchy" when u cross the line the friendship is for ever fucked:(

**ƒORM** · #4 (**permalink**) Jan 11, 03

^ agreed

But on some occasions it leads to bigger better things. Ask yourself what the chances are and if it could work. Prepare to lose a friend if the shit hits the fan.

Ragga_Wh0re · #5 (**permalink**) Jan 11, 03

i think he just wants 2 bust a nut... noting big and better could come of it if thats all he intends

Sammy Skillz · #6 (**permalink**) Jan 12, 03

it depends...if it's decided by both parties that it's just casual play....then it's all good.

crookedking · #7 (**permalink**) Jan 12, 03

go for it.

stabmyhead · #8 (**permalink**) Jan 12, 03

Probably not the best thing to do when drunk...

I don't think I could ever do that to a friend of mine while drunk... and I'd be pissed off if one of my friends tried anything while I was drunk or if they were drunk... regardless as to if I was in a relationship or not, or if I liked them in 'that' way. But I guess it depends on if you think you're friendship is worth losing over some casual fuck fling that might not even lead to anything deeper...

crookedking · #9 (**permalink**) Jan 12, 03

just because you have sex with a friend doesn't necessarily mean that you're going to lose them. remember that chat.

Moon · #10 (**permalink**) Jan 12, 03

best to do it when you can actually talk about it together and have some sorta mutual agreement to it.... cuz if you feel awkward talking about it then i'm sure you'd feel awkward the next day after it happens.

and who needs awkwardness in a friendship? doesn't that defeat the entire purpose of friends?

miss.myra · #11 (**permalink**) Jan 12, 03

Sometimes it happens...

sometimes people wait until they are drunk because they're really afraid to make any moves (liquid courage!)

sometimes it happens.....and is still a relationship a year and a half later :)

Sue Bitch · #12 (**permalink**) Jan 12, 03

casual sex with friends is cool as long as you both know it is only sex then there should be no problem and benifits in the future is that you can call them up later down the road maybe as a booty call

chat noir · #13 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 03

friends with benefits -- true, so if it's decided that it's just casual, than it's cool?

I think that you're right about the liquid courage...haha

crookedking · #14 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 03

fnk is always right.

Bitchin · #15 (**permalink**) Jan 13, 03

nope, I had this happen between a friend and I.. and now we never talk.. and it sucks.. cause hes fun to chill with.. and shit.. but no.. bad drunken mistakes I think ruined it imo.. to him.. it could be completly diffrent though.. he could still think things are the same or whatever.. we tried to talk about it.. BUT.. yeah.. its just didnt work.... so were distant.. oi