Spanking - a good thing or degrading?

[Jingles]

Now you very likely not going to give your partner a 'spank' when you are 'making love' or deeply lost in one anothers eyes

but other then that - what are your thoughts on the spank? If you are a boy, you mind getting a little spanking too - or is that soley reserved for the girls?
Do like just a random smack to the bottom here and there in bed - or do you prefer a more continuous spanking - cause you've been bad :moon:


'Some girls they like candy, and others they like to whine - I'll settle for the fact that your hand is somewhere on my behind - Treat me like I'm a bad girl, even when I'm being good to you - I don't want you to thank-me, You can just...spank me' - --

Madonnna 'Hanky Panky'

[rawb]

COMPLETELY DEGRADING AND SETS THE WOMEN'S MOVEMENT BACK 30 YEARS.

IT NEEDS TO STOP TODAY, IF NOT TODAY TOMORROW, OR FIRST THING MONDAY.

[stringbeans]

hah!

[Lostcause]

My wife likes it and i smack her ass all the time.
I like it too...but when your butt starts to go red then you should stop.

to be honest im not really a big fan of spanking. the sound to me is not at all a turn on and sounds very sick actually. i'd rather have biting, pulling hair or roughness.

[hardstylin]

im all about the spank.

peace

[Ragga_Wh0re]

I only like having my ass smacked me when im in bed. If its outside of the bedroom I hate it I feel like a hooker or something.

[junglequeen]

nope dont like - not a fan of being hit - now light strangalation on the otherhand......

[taylormade]

**OUCH** FUCK OFF!

[soma]

THEY ALL LOVE IT!

seriously if anyone ment it in any way but fun it's not a spanking it's hitting

and if I spanked anyone and they didn't appriciate the joke I'd expect a slap across the face.

that's why only special girlies can get my hand print across their bum. :kam:

[MistressSpankME]

Originally posted by soma


seriously if anyone ment it in any way but fun it's not a spanking it's hitting

Agreed.

I'm sure you all know my opinion of spanking. I'm a big fan, however I have yet to be bent over someones knees and be spanked repeatedly (regardless of how much I'd like to... I guess I'll have to work on getting that happening hey?).

About it being disrespectful,. it all depends on how its meants and what its purpose is. Even if it is being administered in what may seem like a degrading situation ie: Top "punishing" bottom, certain role plays etc., if it is consentual, and being given and received for the right reasons then it is certainly not degrading.

If it is degrading it is a hit and/or punishment sprung from anger, hate, or disrespect etc. and not a welcome, sexual gesture.

And about stopping when the bum gets red, for me thats when it gets to the good part :) I enjoy pain to a point, and spanking is a fun fun way to receive it.

[Danshrew]

The more the better, but only nicely, I have a whip made especially for bondage, so it stings but it doesnt hurt real bad, i think its all good but you gotta be gentle with it.

[sweet~kandy]

I think its a good this when playful. Although it can get outta hand and thats when it becomes a bad thing

[Bitchin]

I dun care for them.. but when cuddling.. its always fun to give the boy a lil'smack on da bum.. *heehee*