jealous ex-bf

[MuG]

my present girlfriend used to go out with this guy up until about a year ago, then they broke up.

just recently, he has decided to contact her and begin harassing her, calling her at all hours of the night, e-mailing her non-stop. she has told him repeatedly to stop, but he just does not take a hint and fuck off.

normally, if this was your regular joe, i wouldnt be concerned about the situation. what CONCERNS me, is this guy is in a little outfit/gang/pussy group, and has a bunch of thug friends backing him up.

im just looking for some advice, comments or anything on this situation. twould be appreciated
thx2u

[mojo]

ur fucked

[e_BoY]

what race is he.

[MuG]

hes white

[SEAN!]

get a gun..and shoot him in the head....i doubt his lil crew is anyhting to be worried about.


or if you wdont want to kill him..find out where he lives or where his crew spends most of their time..get a couple cans of bear mace and some quarter sticks of dynamite..tape to explosives to the bear mace, break the windows throw the bear mace with the light explosive into the house... when it explodes the ebar mace willl fuck anyone inside up..get a gas mask run in their and light the mother fucker up.

but a better idea...would be just to ignore it..or call the cops and press charges for harrassment..

cuz violence only begets violence..unless you put a bullet in his head, then he cant do shit.

[slug]

for real... act first think later... if u were to walk up and cut him or hit him with a baton his friends wuld think u were a loony and fuck off.

[Kelster]

restraining order?

[Veni*C]

^^ i agree....she should tell him to seriously fuck off or she is gonna call the police. ive had to do the same thing with this guy that was stalking me..it was scary..but it worked..he deffinatly left me alone.

[Prissypants]

/\ Damn beat me to it!

[SEAN!]

Originally posted by slug
for real... act first think later... if u were to walk up and cut him or hit him with a baton his friends wuld think u were a loony and fuck off.

nah man..its more likely that he would get lynched, and thats no good for nobody.

it would be best if he had the cops involved in this....if this guy is a real gangster he wouldnt want to give the cops a reason to fuck up things for him...but he's probably not a gangster just a punk ass thug..either way, id say the police is the best way to go.

they're pretty good in situations like this....

[(val)Liam]

I know a person that's in a situation involving a restraining order and I've been told that it has made very little difference.

As for the gang thing, I doubt they are going to put extra heat on their heads to go after some due for dating an ex. It wouldn't be worth it.

[Magi]

ouch that sucks...

call the popo.

[mugsy]

if hes harrassing her, then why isnt she doing anything about it?

personally if any of my ex'es were harassing me, i dont think i would allow it to last long (neither would my friends) if she really doesnt want this attention i gaurantee she can put an end to it. shes probably just likes the way you two are fightin for her love. now again gang member or not i would get rid of the guy myself, if he was responding to my personal requests then i would print off the emails and save his messages and go to the police. if she doesnt feel its that serious then shes doing it for the attention.

get your girl to stand up for her rights.

[BongMan]

no what u need to do is ammass a bigger stronger meaner baddass gang meet up with this punk and curb stomp him that always helps a situation

[Technique]

Be a man and go confront him...

fook that pussy gang shit, theyre all talk.

[MuG]

called the popo

restraining order in progress -> possible court
gf is changing her cell#

[hardstylin]

get a bunch of ur friends together and roll his ass hard!! he'll realize hes a punk and fuck off.

[Jingles]

I find it hilarious (and touching in some strange way) that so many boys are all like 'be a man and stand up to him' - it's a nice 'hero' mentality - but fact of the matter is the hero mentality will get many a man shot this year

I don't know if any of you have ever been stalked and harassed - but I have ...and any responce from a current lover would simply be fuel to the harassment fire -- it causes a lot more trouble and rarely solves anything...especially if the ex is a hot head that isn't afraid to call out his 'posse' to get involved

restraining order is the best route to go - it may just be a piece of paper - but it gives you a course of action to take if the nit wit behavior continues

she should change her cell number and any other number of hers he might have - delete emails without reading them - or print them out and keep them in a file for the police -- sadly this is an issue between the girl and her ex - any involvement or physical contact fromt he current boy could result in legal action going the wrong way!

[*jP]

Originally posted by slug
for real... act first think later... if u were to walk up and cut him or hit him with a baton his friends wuld think u were a loony and fuck off.

ummmm..... thats easy to say but to actually do it is another thing. i think if you were going to do this you should have a plan b aswell like maybe a gun or something , you know just in case they don't fuck off.

but really though there's probably not much you can do unless you fought him or something which is probably not a good idea if he's in a gang.

[SEAN!]

Originally posted by Technique
Be a man and go confront him...

fook that pussy gang shit, theyre all talk.

heh, not of them are....

[Hot Karl]

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mug: good job callin the cops. that's what the're here for.