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Nov 18, 03
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What do you peeps think of this point of view on dating?
Quote from a female: "I like to have sex on the first date because if the guy isn't any good then there is no point for a second date is there?"
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Nov 18, 03
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hmmmmmmmm i dunno it has its pros and it has its cons. If u fuck on the first date then the relationship prolly wont be anything more than sex,but if u wait and the guy is a shitty lay thats kinda irrelevant. Sex is much better when there is feelings involved, and if ur partner is a shitty lay u can take time to teach them how to be a wicked lay.I only fuck on the first date if i just want the guy for a piece of ass,but sometimes if i actually like the person as a person then I wait.
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Nov 18, 03
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Sounds like a shallow person - better off without. Unless of course you are looking for the one night stand thing, then I guess you know your gonna get some lovin with no strings attached
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Nov 18, 03
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Nov 18, 03
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thats a good quote
how the fuk does it make the person shallow? .. shes just saying she wants to have a lover whos good in bed... if thats shallow then im the king of france it also relates to "no pre-marital sex" ... what if u marry someone whos not good in bed.. ur gonna be fucked for life.. literally
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Nov 18, 03
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I love how some people think sex on a first date is indicative of ho-trash.
This month's cosmo had an article on it and some reader said that sleeping with someone on a first date CAN be good because it CAN mean that the person you are with is comfortable enough with you to be able to do that so quickly. But really, having a strong point of view for things like this is silly, it all really depends on the circumstances.
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Nov 18, 03
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You should know your Mom's number off by heart shouldn't you? 
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Nov 18, 03
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Last edited by Kazuma; Nov 18, 03 at 11:41 AM.
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Nov 18, 03
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Well...hmmmmm
Sexual chemistry is important - I agree. However sometimes a person who isn't the greatest in bed will make a great partner none the less - and if you care for them then teaching can be fun for everyone If you sleep with them right off the bat, before you can really appreciate them as a person and they are a crappy lay - then chances are you will miss out on a potentially great thing ---- Personally i find the first time you sleep with a person isn;t the best anyway you are just learning one anothers style and heaven knows the 'tricks' you used on your last lover may not work for this one - right? so few peeps actually 'date' anyway .....
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Nov 18, 03
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yeah i agree with jingles^^ :keebler:
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Nov 18, 03
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Well... if you're definitely gonna get some if you hook up on a date with her *BAM*!
Sounds like someone who is obviously not ashamed to pull down her panties without hestitation, just to make sure that the "sex" is good. :soak: My impression of dating is to get to really know someone. Builld/create an atmosphere where both parties are comfortable where you both can open up and talk about anything. It's to investigate if there's that "click" in the relationship. You sense the communication of body language, speaking tones, etc.
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Nov 18, 03
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if u can't go out on a date without fucking someone, you're a slut... it's a pretty simple concept... I dunno how anybody can deny that fact... if u do ur just fooling urself... people who aren't sluts won't jump into the sack with someone on the first date and likely not the second or third date either
it's called having moral value for yourself... if you don't value yourself then what have you got? also, judging a person by how they have sex IS shallow as hell... no way around that either... there's more to people than how they fuck... if you can only think so far as your pants then I pity you for the life you live... love isn't about tallying up how much pussy/cock you get, it's about finding a person who's special to you in all the ways that matter... you're about as likely to find that person humpin on the first date as you are to plunge your hand into a stack of randomly gathered hypodermic needles and come away disease free dating should be about finding a lover, not about going out to get some sex... if you want to do that, don't call it dating, call it prowling, cuz that's what it is
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Nov 18, 03
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I find it hard to respect a girl if she gives it up on the first date.
But if I really like a girl, I'll be on my best behaviour.
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Nov 18, 03
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hmmm
i dont think that is a good idea at all anyone who is that sexually motivated would scare me aaahhh cant people just sit and talk for a bit?
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Nov 18, 03
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but some times it is beter to know the person or persons be for.... but well for the most party ever girl i have been with got off the first time and want more.... so well it all depend on if the guy or girl can ask or read how the uthere likes what they are doing or not like it.. it all abou t knowing you shit
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Nov 18, 03
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I don't think it's really a question of values or sluttiness as so many people like to point out. I think it all really depends on the situation.
There are so many factors to consider when the situation comes up. Human beings are sexual in nature anyways... I mean hell, our entire society revolves around it. It's shoved in our faces from day one. I've had 3 very serious relationships over my life. The 1st, the mother of my son, was a slow starter and we didn't have sex for almost a month after we started dating. The 2nd, lasted 2yrs and we were very much in love and had sex on the first date. The third, and current, we had sex on the second date. In each case there was never a question of values, when was the 'right' time, or is it too early, have we waited too long. We did it when it was right for us..... every situation is unique.
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Nov 18, 03
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I think that when a chick says that to a guy, their just throwing themselves at the guy so that the guy will do her. Which means that she probably thinks the relationship will all be sex. Some people in relationships dont have sex for the first 6 months of dating. It sure shows that she into sex if she's asking that early.
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Nov 20, 03
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i don't think that you can really judge the success of a relationship by whether or not you fuck the person on the first date... i mean, how many of you have waited months before sex only to finally have sex with them and realize you were suddenly bored? and hey, it works the other way too. i had sex with my boyfriend on the first date and we're still together.
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