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Dec 31, 01
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Getting hit on by Gay guy's..
I'm a straight guy and lately, well just the other day I mean I was in this store with one of my female friends and we were looking at clothes, she walked to the other part of the store and then suddenly she came up and walked into me and was laughing so I was like what? then she told me the two guy's working behind me were checking me out and I asked her, "how the hell do you know that?" so she told me what had happened. It goes like this, when I went to go look at clothes one of the guy's went over to the other guy and motioned his head and his eye's towards me then the other one said something to him, then they started arguing over who should help me and my friend was standing right besides them for all of this. I'm straight and I'm not homophobic so I kinda take it as a compliment cause it's just like a girl saying your cute/hot whatever but now I'm like wandering, do girl's think I'm gay??? I sure as hell hope not.. why does dressing nicer and carring about how you look make people think your gay? I just don't understand it. I admidt before maybe 3 months ago I just didn't give a crap how I looked but now I do cause I want to feel good about myself and it's worked so far, does that make me gay?
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Jan 01, 02
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It doesn't mean you're gay! It means you're probably a fine piece of ass or something. At least you didn't actually get hit on! I work for Aquabus in Granville Island and the Backstage Lounge is right above our dock, so we're in there all the time using the washroom or drinking after work. Thing is... there's this 38 year old gay bartender named Dallas, and he's got this thing for me, and has for 3 months now. He's ALWAYS flirting with me. It doesn't bug me, I'm not afraid of being converted or anything, and it is complimentary, and I do get free drinks, but still... it's kind of weird.
Just deal with it, at least you don't have to experience it on an almost daily basis! :262: Pat
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Jan 01, 02
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hmm...are you gay?
well here's a question for you... are you sexually attracted to men? if the answer is no, then that probably means your straight right now. :) I don't think homosexuality is nessassarily something that we're either born with or without, but I do think some people have more potential for it than others. And I think its something that can change throughout your life too. just cos you may be attracted to guys right now (hypothetically of course, not implying you do swing that way :) ), doesn't nessassarily mean you'll stick with that sexual orientation all your life. I mean, look at Ellen DeGeneres and Anne Heche. Two self proclaimed lesbians, and now they're broken up and Anne is married to some guy. Sexual orientation is more psychological than anything else, IMO.
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Jan 02, 02
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awww man i wish gay guys hit on me!
oh wait. that would mean i would look like a guy.. nm! :P :310: katie
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Jan 05, 02
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Yeah as everyone's already stated, you're not gay. And dressing nicer, or anything won't make you gay. Most ppl live by certain rules and judgments of whether who's gay or not. Usually these stereotypes are true. But not always. Ppl just need to recognize that fact.
And Luke, interesting opinion. I sorta agree with that. But to tell the truth I don't know what I believe in. All I know is my attracted to the same sex has been with me as long as I can remember. But I finally just accepted it for almost two years now.
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Jan 05, 02
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Jan 06, 02
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hey, i just registered......and i wuz browsin around this luvley website (there'z some pretty nifty stuff in here :D: ). anaway, this thread caught my eye, since i've just recently noticed that i sometimez get hit on too!! i'd just be dancin away at a party, and there they are.....and since i'm no homophobe, i take it az a complement. hell...gay guyz can be some of the funnest ppl to hang with.....so don't get too freaked out by it. although, on one occasion, it got alittle wierd when a couple guyz followed me to the washroom n' stuff.
cheerz..... :175:
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Jan 07, 02
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ok.. thanks for your opinions guy's.. I was just feeling paranoid for a bit about that hole situation cause I'm single and I was thinking, if guy's think I'm gay, then maybe girl's do too.. so I was like "NOOOOOO" but I guess truth be told is, people will think what they think and I know I'm not gay. So I'll just keep on truckin.. laterz..
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Jan 09, 02
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Oh Christ..
See, I really don't understand why most guys aren't absolutely flattered when a gay guy hits on them. Gay guys aren't all limp wristed, odyssey flailing superfags, and they don't look for the previous qualities in someone they're attracted to either. Then again, if you had any clue whatsoever, you'd know this already, right? You should be flattered, because gay guys usually have pretty tough standards. Why do you see girls either completely falling head over heels for gay guys, or complaining that all the really good ones are gay anyways? "gay" is by no means a contagious disease, that means you can't get it from talking to a gay person, being touched, or god forbid, being hit on by one, just in case you didn't know. Worrying so goddamn much about your masculinity is also a REAL turn off for the ladies, just to let you know. Cheers! Missy.m.
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Jan 10, 02
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*lol* Sorry, Myra, I just couldn't help myself when you said that gay guys usually have tough standards :107: . Whatever! Most gay men are worse than straight men when it comes to sleeping around... they practically pounce on anything that MOVES!
Well, they're not ALL that bad when it comes to promiscuity... I'm about as far away from that stereotype as you can get. There are a few that are genuine... hehe, can you tell I'm bitter? :284: *demented hugz* ~ Trinity ~
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Jan 10, 02
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Aren't they all that way? Heh, I'll kick some ass if you want me to? :027: Myra (miss you!)
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