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Mar 18, 02
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Players!
Players fuck guy's like me over.. cause almost every girl I meet has been played by someone or in some way.. and whenever you try to be a nice guy and cheer them up or just be nice to someone cause you like them, they're all suspicious of you. Every girl I get to know has asked me if I'm a player when I first start to get to know them, and I tell them all that I'm not, which is true, I'm not and never will be one. Yet it takes like 3 or 4 months of getting to know me for them to realize I am who I say I am. Why does this keep happening to me? I don't have a player rep, none of my close friends do either, is it that hard for people to believe that there actually are people out there that still try to be nice or what? any help would be appreciated, I'm trying to understand why this shit keeps happening to me, cause I'm sick of it..
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Mar 18, 02
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i'd say cause the girls who are doing this.. they've been fucked over by someone who was saying prolly the same things as you. being all nice and ya i'm not a player.. that kinda stuff..
and if they trusted that all before and took the chance, then got fucked over... it's going to take more to make them believe in the next guy.. and even more if it's been done to them a few times.. they just have to trust what you're saying.. and if there are bad experiences making it harder for them to trust, then there is.. it happens..
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Mar 18, 02
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u have to earn your "non player" rep. i am really careful in which guy i start falling for because the amount of players out there totally takes over. just prove to her that u're not a player and be u'reself.
<--- im a player magnet
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Mar 18, 02
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i'm always suspicious of why a guy is interested in me ... i don't know to many bad experience i guess ... but after i start hanging out w/ the guy and i see that he what something else besides the obvious ... i start to let my guard down.
so my advice to u would be if u really like someone and u want to get to know them ... do exactly that , hang out w/ them and after some time this girl is going to realize that ur not like all those other guys that have played her and have probably hurt her too.
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Mar 18, 02
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yea trust and shit like that. i aint no player but people think i am with the people i hang out with. all my friends are players and im all non playered out. damn it
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Mar 19, 02
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your posts are always good for a smile buddy...i can never tell if you're telling the truth or not...you see i think you're lying cause you want all the girls on this message board to think that you are some sort of mr nice guy.
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Mar 19, 02
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oh and btw ladies i am nice...i just tell the TRUTH!!!!!
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i know him personally, before this board and everything.. and i know for a fact that he really is a nice guy.. and what he says isn't lies just to get girls.. he's not like that.. so =P to you crookedking! =P 2 you! heh..
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Mar 19, 02
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Thanks Charly.. a lot.. hearing that from you is a real nice thing considering everything that happened and all.. y'know what I mean.. and I guess all of you are right, just get to know someone. My only problem is, I alway's get to know the girl I'm interested in and they get to know me, but by the time I think I have a chance with the girl, I end up being to close of a friend to them for them to give me a chance.. I don't like hearing that "your a one in a million guy" because everytime I've heard that so far I've heard this same line, "and that's why I wouldn't risk our friendship" and then boom.. that's all she wrote.. I don't understand why girl's think if you crush someone that they'll still be the exact same person and you'll have the exact same relationship as you had before.
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Mar 19, 02
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np..
but if that's the story... i think your taking that maybe one step too far? i don't know, could be wrong.. but maybe.. get to know them enough so they'll trust what you say, but not so much that you guys become superclose.. cause if you do, unless you find a girl willing to take the risk, it won't happen.. and we both know that not everyone is into taking risks, even when they should..
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I think my hole problem is flirting, I don't know when someone is flirting with me..
PS.. I know some people aren't as into taking risks like I am, but I learnt to accept it, although it did take a while. :) BTW, you and John looked really good together at the rave, I saw you give him a kiss, hehe.. brought a big smile to my face.. I think you know why ;)
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