married guys trying to be smooth....

[prozac]

Seriously I feel like punching this dork.

**** says:
tu es occupee?
prozac says:
non
**** says:
what,s new in your life.. it,s been a while.
prozac says:
hmmm
prozac says:
not a lot
prozac says:
im doing really well at work
prozac says:
taking a week and a half of vacation in february
**** says:
I went to Lotus other day
prozac says:
really?
prozac says:
what day?
**** says:
saturday
prozac says:
oh no way? with who'?
**** says:
obviously I thought of you
prozac says:
of course
prozac says:
it's better with me
prozac says:
who did you go with?
**** says:
I was hoppy to see you there
**** says:
a friend
**** says:
new friend
prozac says:
hoppy?
prozac says:
you are such a fob
**** says:
fob = fresh on board?
prozac says:
fresh off the boat
**** says:
lol
**** says:
I,m not chinese
prozac says:
you are an immigrant though
prozac says:
how was lotus
prozac says:
i haven't been in a while
prozac says:
did you see anyone we know?
**** says:
no
prozac says:
how are things at your house?
**** says:
why are you single
**** says:
very busy
prozac says:
um because some peoiple can't appreciate certain things
**** says:
you know I,m with my son
prozac says:
yes i know
prozac says:
how is he doing?
**** says:
very good. you will see him one day
prozac says:
why do you say that?
**** says:
why not
prozac says:
well sure
prozac says:
where's his mom?
**** says:
good
prozac says:
I said where not how. haha
**** says:
**** to London
**** says:
will be back
**** says:
sorry
**** says:
how are your friends
prozac says:
sorry?
**** says:
how are your friends doing
prozac says:
no, why do you say sorry?
**** says:
those I know. Beth Kim ....
prozac says:
my friends are good. beth lives with me now. kim is happy with josh
**** says:
nice


For those just tuning in....I found out a year and a half into our relationship that he was married with a kid (wow the level of deception would boggle your mind) and now that I have busted him he's still trying to booty call me and lie about the fact he lives with his wife. Fucking loser.

[prozac]

Wow. I'm one of those bitter bitches aren't I?

[galaxie]

HOLY SHIT DUDE
What a fucking tool! I'm sorry you had to go through that. Wow. =\

[esoter1c]

Originally Posted by prozac

Wow. I'm one of those bitter bitches aren't I?

I'm surprised you don't have him blocked.

[prozac]

^ yeah I did and then he wormed his way through my roomie and it all went downhill from there. :evil:

[esoter1c]

Originally Posted by prozac

^ yeah I did and then he wormed his way through my roomie and it all went downhill from there. :evil:

He's pretty slick with the slime. :sick:

[prozac]

**** says:
too bad that we can not get together
prozac says:
you know why can we cannot get together
**** says:
we,ve tried..
Bend says:
and I know I,m FOB
prozac says:
that was never the problem
**** says:
so why did you say that today
prozac says:
because you said "hoppy" instead of "hoping"
prozac says:
i really thought you were smart enough to understand why i dont see you anymore
**** says:
I know. but I usually keep in touch with people that were important to me at certain point of my life
prozac says:
yeah i agree
**** says:
question: are you not happy to chat with me even though we are not together?? I am
prozac says:
what if those people are upset that they were lied to?
**** says:
I would hope the best for the person. Being upset is not good and it surely does not help
prozac says:
hahha

[prozac]

Seriously. ugh ugh ugh.

[Revolver]

this guy is as classy and smooth as a color me bad photo shoot.

[prozac]

that convo gets way worse lol

[cubed]

how do you go out with someone for a year and a half and not realize they're married?

ALARM BELLS ARE RINGING!!!

[prozac]

^^^uh dude. he had a seperate apartment rented out. ie. the one I saw...and a wife at home who was part of a more traditional culture and so did not question or go out...

[prozac]

I'm not usually a "drag things out in public" kind of girl.....I just find this so retarded and fascinating at the same time...

[Disco_Whore]

I'd think you have every right to be bitter!

...And I thought my best friend had bad luck dating 2 guys in a row who DIDN'T TELL HER THEY HAD BEEN PREVIOUSLY MARRIED. One of them still wasnt' officially divorced yet, and he was trying to propose to her! Wtf?

But STILL married, with a child and living together??? Harsh.

[impure]

i was thinking this exact same thing.^^

srsly.

[impure]

i just don't know anyone could miss some pretty obvious signs for a year and a half.


ever notice he doesn't answer his phone in the evenings?
perhaps that's because he doesn't want his wife and kid to see him chatting to his booty call.
just a thought.

[prozac]

^ yeah no, he played the "workaholic" card very well. and answered his phone in the evenings...

[prozac]

prozac says:
i asked you if you were married and you said no. i know that's bullshit now
**** says:
**** says:
I,m not. but I,m with my son now Jessica. things changed .
**** says:
but it does not make me a liar.!!!
prozac says:
I don't know ****
prozac says:
maybe you should look at it from my view
prozac says:
you never had me over to your new house
prozac says:
never let me know any details about your son coming over
prozac says:
and i have a hard time believing someone who works as much as you would plan to raise a 7-year-old alone
prozac says:
at the end you only came to see me briefly
prozac says:
come on!
**** says:
the true is you too hot Jess , I will have sex with you anytime.. and I think you too
**** says:
I remimber telling you that I was planing to have my son with me sometimes soon
prozac says:
yeah i remember that too
prozac says:
still does not explain everything else
**** says:
not much to explain
prozac says:
i disagree
**** says:
the only reason we didn,t get over . was just time
**** says:
remember my place in burnaby
prozac says:
yes
prozac says:
no excuse, that place was almost empty
prozac says:
i felt really fucked over by you
prozac says:
and honestly
**** says:
fucked over?
prozac says:
i know that you were dishonest
prozac says:
very disappointing

**** says:
ok jessica
**** says:
You know what?
**** says:
I,m the only one. that say hi to you on msn
**** says:
right?
**** says:
I don,t remimber that last time you sent me any message
**** says:
why do you thing I always try to talk to you????
**** says:
because I want sex???
prozac says:
haha
prozac says:
thats actually often what i think
**** says:
or because I want to fuck you over???
**** says:
ok. just delette me
**** says:
and don,t tell me I fuck you over
prozac says:
hey now
prozac says:
stop and think
**** says:
I want to keep in touch with you. if you don,t want it,s fine
prozac says:
that's not the point we were discussing
**** says:
what was the point?
**** says:
that I was dishonest
**** says:
etc...
prozac says:
the point was I know now that the relationship you had with me previously was dishonest
**** says:
No way
prozac says:
no?
**** says:
No
**** says:
No and not
**** says:
I never cheat on you
**** says:
I always respect you
prozac says:
so can you tell me that you are living with your son alone? now? and that i was the only woman you were sleeping with when you were sleeping with me?
**** says:
I just told you that his mom went to london and will be back
**** says:
I had no time !!!!!

[impure]

mmm.
there should be some sort of award for this.
seriously, it's an amazing feat to pull off, even if it's a devious and hurtful feat.
it's still amazing.
and wasn't there a thread recently about giving credit where credit is due?

i'll take the initiative.

[jenai]

prozac, you could either confess to his wife and beg forgiveness, or get even.

the first strategy will get him off your back for good but poison things with his wife

the second strategy requires a lot of planning, a lot of saving of chat logs, a couple dedicate male friends to display their 3733+ skillz, and the satisfaction of watching him swing in the noose made from his lies as it blows up on him.

but neither of these strategies are totally harmless.

this is why i think we know the option you shall take: change cell phones, keep IM address of cheater & log on promptly when he's online. you might consider creating a new IM address for your real friends.

don't get sucked into this cheater's scheme cos he wants to have his cake it and eat it too.

though, i like my second strategy the best. >:=)

[prozac]

Honestly. I just need confirmation that I'm not the only one who thinks this guy is retarded...

*shakes head*

[prozac]

Originally Posted by impure

mmm.
there should be some sort of award for this.
seriously, it's an amazing feat to pull off, even if it's a devious and hurtful feat.
it's still amazing.
and wasn't there a thread recently about giving credit where credit is due?

i'll take the initiative.

my friends and I have been discussing this since september...seriously the lengths this guy went to were incredible!!!!!

[galaxie]

I don't trust people with poor grammar. Even if English isn't their first language.

Like I already said, what a tool.
Having an affair is not a feat, it's a fucking disgrace. Cheaters should be subject to a public stoning.

[ebbomega]

and once again sage manages to scare just about everybody on the fucking forum.

This thread is disturbing all around.

[prozac]

^ I agree but to his credit, he's over 30 and has only been speaking/writing English for a few years.

edit: for galaxie