When do you want to settle down?

[ppcock]

Start a fam, have kids that shit themselves and never shut the eff up.

what's your timeframe. I personally wish mid 30's, another 10 years of freedom would be rad.

[Pussy*Kat]

Since I dont speak to my bioligical dad, I really want my grandpa to walk me down the isle.

So Id like to get married before he gets too old to do that :(


Have kids and start a fam though? Late 20's. I dont want to be a super old mom

[shebavpg]

^ My parents wont be coming to my wedding since they moved to south america. And I don't speak to my bioligical dad either anymore. Off and on for the past 15 years. I'm going to have my best guy friend walk me down the isle. :)


I also would like to have kids in my late 20's, early 30's but I would also like to enjoy a career first before I bring kiddies into the world. I would like to be married by my mid/late 20's.

[jax0r]

Nev0r.

I think i'm as settled as i'll ever get. I get to go out once in a while, I'm working on my career all the time, I've got the home, the car, the dog, but i don't feel tied down at all, which is how i like it.

[G3N3R4L]

35 is my minimum age required to ride this ride.

40 is the new 20 anyways,

[Gusto]

it'll happen when it happens. probably before i'm 40 and no longer physically attractive.

i swear a bomb must have gone off in my body about 6 months ago. because this crap is on my mind a lot lately.

i have never been inclined towards babies or marriage. i am just not that maternal. if i do these things though, they will be done traditionally. marriage than carriage. i am willing to forgo babies too. i only want babies if i want to share that experience with someone. not cause i want them. personally i dont want to be genetically tied to a jackass for the rest of my life.

[miss.myra]

carreer comes first. family comes after (if at all).

[ebbomega]

IF THE GAYS ARE ALLOWED TO MARRY WHAT'S THE POINT?!?!?!?!?l

[Erin]

No kids for me. But I would like to get married one day... It means a lot for my Dad to walk me down the isle, so I really want him to be there. I don't want a big expensive fancy wedding either. I want to run away somewhere with a few people and get married somewhere hot. As cheap as possible - I don't want to go into debt for a wedding! Besides, it's not about the party, it's about the marriage.

I already have the home, the pet, the car, the truck and the man. Now all I need is a ring I guess...

*If I don't have a ring from this asshole in the next 2 years, I'm outta there! :)

[Courtney]

I used to not want it for along time
lately I wouldn't mind having it late 20's/early 30's
I just wanna travel the world and be selfish for awhile still...
but honestly I could live in a small town and settle down and probably be happy :)

[Courtney]

ps- my maternal instinct kicked in a year or two ago and i want babies :)!! at least two

[Courtney]

pussy kat and shebav...i know how u feel well its different but Im gonna need someone else to walk me down too :( probably my mom to be honest..........maybe strange but I love her the most so why not

[Pussy*Kat]

^ Awe, its a super hard decision to make.

My step dad is my new dad, and as much as I would love for him to do it. I know it would mean the world to my Mumpy.

*sigh* sad situations

[Courtney]

decisions decisions

[Pussy*Kat]

I think the traditional side of things makes it clear your dad should be giving you away the new first man in your life.

But nowadays with tradition almost always thrown out the window I think its more about who you personally care about most, and who you want to pass you onto the new stage in your life.

*shrug*....me wedding will be far from traditional as it is so...

[laska]

I can't even feed myself properly or keep my one-bedroom apartment clean.... I think I'll wait a while

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by Erin

Besides, it's not about the party, it's about the marriage.

You know, a lot of people say this but I think it's because they've forgotten what a wedding is about.

It's not just the two people and the minister, though that's all that's needed in a legal sense. But what a marriage is is a commitment from ALL PARTIES PRESENT, not just the couple, to do whatever they can to ensure that the marriage is a successful one. That "If there is any reason that these two should not be wed" point is a very important one for all those present. If you can't justifiably shut up for that part, you shouldn't be at the wedding, because you yourself have made a commitment towards the marriage.

There's a lot that happens at a wedding, more than just the beginning of the marriage. The fact that a lot of people miss this kinda goes to show how little people pay attention at these ceremonies.

Hatched matched and dispatched - the three main religious ceremonies that everybody seems to go through regardless of what religion they are a part of. Baptism isn't really about purifying the soul (it's about celebration of a life and commitment from the community to teach the child in the most moral way they can), funerals aren't really about passing the deceased soul to heaven (they are about a community easing the souls of the people that loved the deceased in life), and marriage isn't really about joining bank accounts (it's about a community recognizing a love as enduring and committing to helping see it through).

You'll notice the two things common to each of these ceremonies - love and community. Why does everybody always forget about the latter?

[Ashley*Dawn]

I'd love to get married in my mid 20's and have kid in my late 20's early 30's. I'm not anywhere close to getting those dreams yet, but it'll happen when it happens.

[rawb]

PLANS ARE BULLSHIT IMO, JUST LET IT HAPPEN l

[laska]

Eyes of Blue silky long curls Ivory Skin "Ashley"

Is this you? Just curious.

[tiedye]

Not until I'm old enough and wise enough to know better and still want to go through with it.

[ppcock]

Originally Posted by rawb

PLANS ARE BULLSHIT IMO, JUST LET IT HAPPEN l

rawb is going for the shotgun wedding approach.

reception at mc donalds.. stay tuned.

[Courtney]

Originally Posted by Erin

No kids for me. But I would like to get married one day... It means a lot for my Dad to walk me down the isle, so I really want him to be there. I don't want a big expensive fancy wedding either. I want to run away somewhere with a few people and get married somewhere hot. As cheap as possible - I don't want to go into debt for a wedding! Besides, it's not about the party, it's about the marriage.

I already have the home, the pet, the car, the truck and the man. Now all I need is a ring I guess...

*If I don't have a ring from this asshole in the next 2 years, I'm outta there! :)

no kids eh
you will live a life of wealth my friend

[cubed]

I fully agree with rawb on this matter.