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Jan 21, 04
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if YOU were dying at a rave
trying to bring up conversation.
i've been raving for a while. i've seen people fuct up. and i've asked them if they are alright and stuff. but... for some reason, the people who are the worst off, are the people who don't want help. or... they're too incapacitated to recognize what's going on, so they're friend waves off the help. If you've ever been high, to the point where you were uncomfortable even talking to the medic person. why would you lie to them? Why do you think people don't like asking for help, when they're obviously not doing well? i think it's because they don't want to get thrown out for doing e. what about you? 
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Jan 21, 04
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that happend to me at a party once.... my e was too strong and i was screwd outta my mind... i hated it
when my friend got help i didnt want any... i think your tottaly right. but at the same time i didnt want any help cuz it just made me soo sketchy... but ne ways thats why i hardly do that drug anymore is cuz sometimes its just to intence. :smoke1: Last edited by hellzbellz; Jan 21, 04 at 06:55 AM.
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Jan 21, 04
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I think that if a person is floored enough that it gets serious, their mind is incapable of processing any sort of thought, including the fact that they need help. I've never come close to the point where things have become serious, but I do recall occasions where a trip has gotten intense and the last thing I wanted was someone hovering over me asking all sorts of questions.
What the person wants at this point is irrelevant. This is where friends or others need to step in, no matter how much the person tries to push them away. If a friend of the person is refusing help because of a fear of getting in trouble, then they are far from the friend that they should be. So what if it might pass. It might not.
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Jan 21, 04
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^ damn straight
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Jan 21, 04
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When one is high as fuck... like orbiting around Jupiter there isn't very much you can do other than just sit there and try to put together a thought.
Your perception changes, you cannot really figure out if you are in reality or in a dream. You could be in really bad shape and not know since you really are that fucked up. I have been there once and from my point of view I was a bit cold, colour was everywhere and I thought I was OK. However my friends were freaking out because I was sweating like a madman, overheating and drinking tons of water to keep hydrated. Even though I don't remember doing so I was told I drank 8 bottles of water that night in a couple of hours. Friends who tell people who are concerned to go away are retarded.
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Jan 21, 04
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I used to get it a lot:
Me: Hey man! are you ok? is your friend doing ok? open your eyes man, just look at me. Person: .... Friend: no, he's fine. he's just tired. Me: don't worry, i'm not security. has he done drugs? does he need water? would he like to lie down on a cot in the medical room? Friend: NO! HE'S FINE. GO AWAY (and they start moving friend to another area) Me: listen, if he did drugs, dont' worry about it. lets just make sure he's ok till tomorrow. I've seen people carry out friends (most ly asians do this) who are just fucked. and instead of letting us look at them before them going home where there's no help, they just leave. with 5 or 6 caps in their 120 pound nammer bodies. so stupid. i nkow it sounds retarded. but, it happens. white people are the worst tho. white friends look at you like you're shit and they know more and that their dying friend has done more before and never had any problems. Friend: Fuck off. he's fine. Dunno. might sound obsurd to you guys. but maybe you've just never seen it.
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Jan 21, 04
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You shoud carry a video camera around Lawrence and make an "Inside Edition" exclusive story.
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Jan 21, 04
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what if you wouldn't be caught dead at a rave
 :moon: :c-tard:
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Jan 21, 04
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Jan 21, 04
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I had a bad experiance one time the pill i had was way to strong and it didnt' hit me until way late after all my freinds, exepct one went home. And the only thing i could think was to find him and see if he could help me out. i didn't want to go to the staff or anything liek that cause it would have gotten me barred from the bar and cause a scene. But anyways i found the guy we went and sat in his car for a bit until i chilled out. Now i rarely do anything and when i do its only a little bit. I"m alway asking people if they need help at parties here but i get the same responses.
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Jan 21, 04
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forwerd- are you a medic?
i ask people if they are ok all the time. because of the way i dress people don't feel threatened most times. (kande style) i just hand them some water and a lolypop. sometimes take them outside for some air.
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Jan 21, 04
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*cough*end of summer*cough* got way too fucked up for my own good. morphine, 2 caps of e and 8 points of jib followed by another cap of e an hour later.
didn't feel as fucked up as i know i looked. when i see someone who looks higher than me, i always offer some water and ask if they wanna go out and get have a smoke to cool down. if i actually died at a rave, i've had some good times. don't stop the rave cuz of me. there's a garbage can out back that isn't full, that'll do till the morning. i won't be offended.
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Jan 21, 04
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Sometimes it's just a matter of pride. Individuals who drop often may come to believe that they can't get into any serious trouble, that they are immune to it or some dipshit reason like that. If someone comes up to them and flat out tells them there may be something wrong, it could come across as an insult, especially coming from someone they don't know.
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Jan 21, 04
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You aren't going to get kicked out of a party for being too high and needing help, that's stupid. It's not like security/medics don't know you're high unless you tell them, jesus.
At kiss last year I took my first gel cap and "turned blue" as my friends like to say. I remember getting higher and higher until my body just couldn't handle it, and all I wanted to do was go to sleep. But everyone thought something bad would happen if I did go to sleep so everyone harassed me, threw water on me, poked me etc I was so friggen annoyed. But obviously they were just looking out for me.
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Jan 21, 04
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I've delt with alot of thos really fucked E-tards to buy there E from some sktch case in the bathroom
Maybe your right about not wanting to be kicked out.. I remember at my first party I cut my Finger on something, and i was bleeding pretty bad and my "boyfriend" wouldn't take me to the Medic (keep in mind its PLAZA so.. medic room) because he was afraid they'd find out he was high ... that and he was so high he coulnd't really get off his ass to take me anyways. In the end his Ex came with me.. actually for some reason i remember her carring me... why i don't remember.. its not like I was that hurt... I think we were joking around... but my memory isn't so clear of that night.. i was sleepy. I never did anything I'm always Drug free.. but i have many stories about high sketchy kids asking me for help... or falling in the mud and crying....// hah.. mud + GHB = funny I think they are just to high to know when they need help...
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Jan 21, 04
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Well my sis didn't feel well once at a party I think it was...uhmmmm Summer Love 2001...anyways...she wasn't doing that well and I didn't hesitate a second to take her to the medics...ppl told me too but I already knew I would go...I mean...everyone should...I just took her there...and the mere presence of medical personnel usually makes you feel better and reassured that your in good hands...well that's how I feel about it anyway...I always try to help ppl too....I seen this asian lady puking in a garbage bin at Plaza once...I asked her friend if she needed help...she just waved me off...but looked like she just didn't wanna make a scene and seemed to appreciate me asking....I just wish more ppl would be more sensible and not take the risk...just go to the medics...lie down take a breather or whatever and leave when you feeling better...they all know ppl do drugs and I never seen anyone get kicked out while they were with medics....so I hope ppl will start getting that in their heads....and I agree with that "pride" mentallity..I guess if you done a lot of drugs you may seems insulted when someone wants to help you when you look fucked...
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Jan 21, 04
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this posts reminds me how much i absolutely dispise the overwhelming feeling you get from e some times.
i dont know if ill ever do that drug again. heh now i remmeber close to a half dozen different instances in whcih other people have asked me if i was alright. The funny thing was that almost everytime i was completely sober and just nammer squating because i was tired. Haha i actually met an fnker (lamzwell) cuz i looked too fucked up(and i was) at spooky 6. Last edited by SEAN!; Jan 21, 04 at 02:20 PM.
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Jan 21, 04
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shit, people who do drugs need to know the warning signs, and get help regardless of what might happen (ex. getting kicked out, having your parents called etc..) actions have re-actions, and you gotta be prepared for that. Sadly, lots of people who do drugs don't realilze this, and as someone mentioned before, they get all caught up in there pride, and don't seek medical attention. Most times, you are ok, but you never know what will happen when you take drugs. you gotta take care of yourself, and watch what you take. Enough preaching for one night...moral of the story, be responisible for yourself.
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