getting hit on

[cutienikki]

How come when you are in a relationship that you get hit on by guys or girls ( wantever your preferance is) and then when you are single, not as many people hit on you as when you were in a relationship?!?!?!?!

[Pussy_Kat]

not really the way it goes for me
its the other way around
when im single everyone knows it andt when im taken everyone knows it
i dunno why but i get hit on ALOT when im single and not enuff when im taken*

*its nice to get hit on even if u have a bf

[ashley112]

cause people love what they cant have

[Veni*C]

ya i find it that way too... not gettin hit on enough when ur single and gettin hit on too much when your taken.. what the hell is up with that :moon:

[e_BoY]

lol so true

[neoh]

I know exactly what you mean.
It's a pain in the ass.

[Bitchin]

WEll.. actually...

Erin and I had a chat bout this awhile a go..and i'd agree with you... but she I guess opened my eyes..

I only noticed it when I was seeing some one..and never did.. when I'm single..

but maybe you just DONT notice it.. I'm extremly blind to it.. lke ask anyone.. I wouldnt know.. even if you told me :kimmie: its sad.

Everyone perhaps still does hit on ya.. you just dont notice. open yer eyes and you'llsee that they're all still hittin on ya

[ebbomega]

^^ Basically, I was about to say that with less ebonics.

You're a lot more comfortable with yourself when you're not constantly, in some recess of your mind, debating how to score.

[Oscar Da Grouc]

not for me...i never get hit on..girls hate me :(
but oh how i <3 them

[Kelster]

nah i agree

it's crazy

when i'm getting cock all the boys flock...and then poof it all disapears for a coupel months!

[Atlantis77]

theres actually a theory about this. Apparently its proven with some animals. Somethin to do with releasin this aura or scent when ur sexually active or there is somekind of sexual tension. This scent is picked up by the opposite sex. This works a lot more with males cuz with animals, say the lion with the most lioness is the big cheese, so it symbolizes power, provider authority and such. Somethin i read, thought it was intresting, i could get into it in more detail but im too lazy to type. Dont quote me on this either.

[Kelster]

hah hook me up with some aura...i'm going crazy here :284:

[crookedking]

fuck the aura! it's all about the pheromones!

[Akeel]

two words.

spanish fly.

[Miss T]

i think its cuz when you are in a relationship, you are more confident and happy so the people are attracted to that. :)

i'd definitely say its so not cool when the person hitting on you doesn't get the point when you say you have a significant other...speaking from experience.... :(

[mugsy]

its because you have more self confidence\non-desperate look to you. you are not nervous to approach or carry on a conversation with anyone.
but with some people, this is always their attitude, and i'd have to go with erin and jovi in that they just dont notice all the attention they actually do get.

[jomama]

you guys are all self enfatuated and crazy :)

[Séguin]

haha, this is so true. But I at least TRY to find girls that are single

[Jblaze]

lol funny cuz its true... Wutever tho just the way it is...