Guy's how skimpy do you let your girl dress?

[miss.myra]

Originally Posted by Blankshots

I am not saying slutty, and I am not saying that she can't, I am just concerned as she is hot and that makes strange people grab at her, specially at a place like the plaza of nations. plus this being her third rave, I am the concerned b/f not the chauvanist saying you can't, it's a give and take thing, I ask her not to wear that and hopefully she takes my feelings into consideration. Oh and I have no fear of her not leaving with me either.

Oooh I get it, she can dress however she wants (apparently) but she somehow is unable to defend herself from the gropey hands of plaza ravers? Well if you're so concerned and unchauvinistic, why not just get her a leash? :p

If she's a keeper, she'll always keep your feelings into consideration, if she's not, then you're probably better off without her.

Oh, btw, people probably are reacting like you're a chauvinist because of the way you worded the thread, it wasn't like 'how do you feel about how skimpy a girl can dress at raves' you said 'how skimpy do you let your girl dress' ...you said it, not us ;)

[ebbomega]

My girlfriend can parade through Times Square naked if she wants.

She just wouldn't.

I figure, I have skimpier clothing than she does, and she lets me wear it. I'd be pretty fucking hypocritical if I denied her the same. More guys lusting after my girlfriend means more joy in the fact that she chooses to sleep with my sad ass.

[charly]

creepy random plaza people will grab at her anyways if she's hot.

i've been randomly groped many times at plaza, and i don't dress like a ho either.

i would be a little pissed if my bf tried to restrict what i could and couldn't wear. that just gives off the impression you don't trust her. if you did trust her, you would know that she's coming back to you at the end of the night, so it doesn't really matter.

[mugsy]

nnnnnnnnnnnnneh... see thats a tough one. i dont find myself dressing in extremely over the top panties-hangin-out kind of ways so i dont think my bf would have beef... i respect myself enough to not dress like that, and i respect him enough to not parade myself to the rest of the world. and i dont think he would be my bf if i did dress like that. however, if my bf were to say "youre wearing that? i would rather you not" i would ask why, and if the reasonings where what you stated (fear of harrasment and such) then i would consider what he said. but otherwise, id agree with most the ladies, i dress myself.

and like charly said, no matter what she wears, if your lady friend is attractive shes gonna get grabbed\talked to. its all apart of the socailization of youth.

sounds more like jealousy on your side, which is natural and a sign of care. i say be jealous, and be proud that your with the girl all the other guys want. yadda yadda yadda.

[mojo]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

More guys lusting after my girlfriend means more joy in the fact that she chooses to sleep with my sad ass.

haha

so true

i understand where your coming from though bud.OP that is

[Chet]

This works every time
start fucking her doggy style
then while you are raming her hard take a black permanent marker and make useles marks all over her leg
then pull out and slam it in her ass as hard as you can...with no lube
after she should be limping around or at least walking softly with marker all over her legs

so... she wont wear a little skirt(because of the marker) and she won't be dancing sex ( because of the anal bleeding)

problem solved

[M!SKA]

Wow Chet. I think this has been your best post yet.

[Kandyapple]

Wow you've done it again. that's all I have to say about that.

[Mo...]

my bf likes how ever i dress.. .. i think ima just tie material around my body and where some stelletos w00t... yah how about not lol...

[Chet]

Originally Posted by M!SKA

Wow Chet. I think this has been your best post yet.

I just try and pass on as much knowledge as I can

[ebbomega]

Chet! Excellent news! I've decided not to kill you!!!

[kAyB]

if i had a bf that told me how to dress i would say fuck him haha.. no one should tell their gf what to wear.

[Anjew]

I "let" her dress whatever way she wants to dress.
why give her restrictions.... you went out with her when she probobly dressed like that....
why change her?

[Prissypants]

hehe, She can dress in whatever she wants, I'm not her dad.

[sweet~kandy]

If you dont like her dressing the way she wants to dress and are afraid of people grabbing her then there is some insecurity about the relationship. If you trust her and know she wont get with anyone else then your relationship should be great. Honest and trust should be top priority, and without that, you get insecure.
Im not saying that this is the case, just casing my opinion.

[dj_zyx]

I am not saying slutty, and I am not saying that she can't, I am just concerned as she is hot and that makes strange people grab at her, specially at a place like the plaza of nations. plus this being her third rave, I am the concerned b/f not the chauvanist saying you can't, it's a give and take thing, I ask her not to wear that and hopefully she takes my feelings into consideration. Oh and I have no fear of her not leaving with me either.

dude your girlfriend should be happy with you and not dress like a that. If you guys have been going out for a while I think you should have a say and your opinion on how you want her to dress. Because you never know she might wonder off to the theater/make out room and pull something unexpected. this would be the extreme. like i said before she should be satisfied with you.

[Jingles]

Originally Posted by Chet

This works every time
start fucking her doggy style
then while you are raming her hard take a black permanent marker and make useles marks all over her leg
then pull out and slam it in her ass as hard as you can...with no lube
after she should be limping around or at least walking softly with marker all over her legs

so... she wont wear a little skirt(because of the marker) and she won't be dancing sexy ( because of the anal bleeding)

problem solved

What Chet says makes about as much sense as the original post
So - this is the most obvious solution, Chet is a smart man - you shoudl listen to him

fair warning though -- drunk men are like lions on the hunt ..they often go for the limping ones who have strayed from the pack.....

[Liqwid]

Originally Posted by Prissypants

hehe, She can dress in whatever she wants, I'm not her dad.

tysen i miss u!!!

~Dalyn:008:

[*spacecase*]

^ are you serious?

guess us gals really do need a man to take care of us and dress us and make sure we act appropriatly....

hell, men should just think for us too!

we all know that us gals have waaaay too much estrogen in our brains to be able to hold thoughts in there.

[*spacecase*]

sorry, my post was meant for dj_zyx

[Jingles]

Originally Posted by dj_zyx

dude your girlfriend should be happy with you and not dress like a that. If you guys have been going out for a while I think you should have a say and your opinion on how you want her to dress. Because you never know she might wonder off to the theater/make out room and pull something unexpected. this would be the extreme. like i said before she should be satisfied with you.

Whoa - what?
Okay - if my man (imaginary as he may be) puts on an outfit that doesn't match or the pants are too short ..i mention it - but if he thinks he looks good ..then that's who gets the final say

we can make suggestions -- why don't you wear this? or i think that top would look nice with those pants...
But you don't get to dress your partner -- you might want them to look a certain way - but who are you to dictate ? How would you feel if your partner held up a skin tight blue, purple and orange spandex one piece with a helmet and snow boots and said -- this is what you are wearing tonight hunny :)
No matter how long a person has been dating or married you don't get to do that -- we can only offer opinion

If your partner is going to do something 'unexpected' it can be just as easily done in a sweatsuit as it can be in booty shorts So i don't understand this reply at all

[Chet]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

Chet! Excellent news! I've decided not to kill you!!!

I'd Like that

[Chet]

Originally Posted by Jingles

fair warning though -- drunk men are like lions on the hunt ..they often go for the limping ones who have strayed from the pack.....

So very true
the limping ones never know what hit them

[klockwize]

alothough he may have worded the thread wrong, i understand what is triing ti be said---im all for having my girl dress like a hottie (even slutty sumtimes)..so i can parade around plaza with everyone knowing who IM going home with!----but there are some things (cloths) that are better left for sex, not partying!

and if i find that it is TOO slutty(which is almost impossible) .....when she asks my opinion, i just say that i dont like it!--then if she resects your opinion and point of view, she will change!

but what im conserned with is....you say shes a keeper, but she wont respect your opinion, and your worried about her looking too good at plaza that guys are going to be grabing her

[Chet]

Originally Posted by dj_zyx

dude your girlfriend should be happy with you and not dress like a that. If you guys have been going out for a while I think you should have a say and your opinion on how you want her to dress. Because you never know she might wonder off to the theater/make out room and pull something unexpected. this would be the extreme. like i said before she should be satisfied with you.

If she is going to cheat, she is going to cheat no matter how she is dressed
if you start nagging her about her choice in clothes before she goes out, chances are she's going to wear it anyway then complain about you all night to her guy friends