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May 11, 04
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what should i do?
..wat to do?
it so happens you give your number to a guy at a rave..which turns out to be a bad idea..and u totally end up regreting it..cuz he's sum wat of a wierd guy..then he calls you and and is so eager to take you out... But you dont want to! wats a good way of saying ..that your not interested...? Any good advice! Thanx 
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Blunt, yet honest... I'm with tested. :)
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May 11, 04
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Lay it straight out to him.. if he doesn't get it then he is a freak. Just end it fast if your getting creeped out.
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May 11, 04
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just be like, 'actually i don't really wanna hang, i've been really busy lately and i just don't have the time'
or you can just go out on the date, get a free meal and make it clear when you say your goodbyes...and in case he turns out to be cool, you can change your mind and pursue it ;)
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the longer you wait to NOT be honest with him, the longer you'll have a problem. if your not interested, tell him. he has the right to know, and you have the right to your space.
you dont have to say fuck off, although it is very effective. you can just say your not interested.
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May 11, 04
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You don't have to be a complete jerk but be honest and say you just arn't interested if he's a cocky bastard then don't worry too much about his feelings, life is too complicated to worry about hurting everyone look out for your best interest
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May 11, 04
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Yeah that wouldnt be such a good idea sayin yes to this guy lol i think the first part of ur advice is good thanx for all the advice guys.. i wasnt to sure wat to say... this guy doesnt take no for an answer gzz lol next time at a rave...maybe the E will block out that part of me remembering any kind of way to contact me other than fnk lol if all else fails...maybe pickin up the cell isnt a good idea..or is that to mean
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May 11, 04
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Ang i think if you remind how you were acting.. and how you got sick.. and all the other things that happened to you that night... he should get the point... you were at a a party and being friendly nothing wrong with that and if he actully likes you he should want you to be happy... it will all work out... just tell him you dont want to date him... suggest maybe going to a rave or something... then you dont have to go all by yourself... and you should never date a guy that has a girlfriend... so he is a definite no... that is the perfect reason to turn him down without any explaining....
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May 11, 04
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man oh man
u fnkers have the best advice!! ..yeah thats a good idea... i should just say that im not interested in going out on a date..but hey maybe i'll see u at one of the raves comin up... but secretly i hope i wont lol but i probably will haha
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May 11, 04
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Say that you were on heroin and didn't know what you were doing. Or you could just say, hey sorry but I'm not interested.
Haha....this reminds me of this one time when i gave my pager # out (because I was scared to give him my phone #). The kid called it 3 times saying hey Rhianna call me back when you get this. It rocked because he never left his # so I couldn't call him back. He was one sketchy kid.
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Invite him over, suck his cock, call it a night. /sarcasm In all seriousness your best solution is to be honest and tell him you changed your mind and you're not interested.
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May 12, 04
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say u dont remember meeting him :D ' dude seriously! i hav no idea who u are' <--- it works
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