Valentine's Day is coming...

[Only_Glory]

thats too bad, now everyone thinks your going on a date with a male foot doctor

[crookedking]

well, if i didn't hate this holiday before....

[veN]

Originally Posted by PwInCeSs

NEV!
i vote shopping and we have to go!!!
haha
after the 21st its pay day lol

if u need any sex related items lol we kno where to go :)

You know I'm SO there. I *heart* shopping. Any excuse is a good excuse :) And yes, the 21st is my payday too... And MUCH needed! So after then!

[veN]

Originally Posted by Technique

Shit dont buy me anything !
What happened to saving up for mexico :mexitoke: :mexitoke:

Seriously a lap dance is more then enough!

Don't worry baby, there's more lapdances to come. But Shh! You don't hafta tell the world the special things I do for you! Hehe...

Saving, shmaving... We are STILL DOING Valentine's day stuff... Even if it's smaller scale bc we are saving for a hot vacation. Valentine's Day is fun in a mushy, sappy way :)

[yoko*]

i'm glad I'm single this valentine's day so I don't have to waste money/energy on men I've dated whom I've normally payed for 70% of the time and didn't even get a mere "thanks" from half of the time.

-bitter and single. :)

[veN]

I don't think I've been single for any Valentine's Days since for the last 5years... So I'm always into the VDay planning. However, I do also like to put together awesome Valentine's Day prezzies for my best friends, bc this holiday isn't just about lovers, it's about letting people know you care in an extra special way. I have been known to put together great packages for my best gfs with thoughtful mixed cds, handmade gifts, candies/chocolates and other things I know will make them smile! If you don't have a bf or gf for valentine's day, be your friend's Valentine and do something special together or for each other.

[SEAN!]

Originally Posted by yoko*

i'm glad I'm single this valentine's day so I don't have to waste money/energy on men I've dated whom I've normally payed for 70% of the time and didn't even get a mere "thanks" from half of the time.

-bitter and single. :)

apparently you dont live within reality, either that or you have a selective memory.

so you should quit lying to yourself, yoko.

http://www.tljones.co.uk/apd/apd.htm

[yoko*]

Originally Posted by SEAN!

apparently you dont live within reality, either that or you have a selective memory.

so you should quit lying to yourself, yoko.

http://www.tljones.co.uk/apd/apd.htm

You also need to go get help! Here is a link which proves that you have narcissistic personality disorder. You have some serious issues sean, your symptoms match up with more than 5 of those described by the psychological association including "a pervasive pattern of grandiosity and self-importance, need for admiration, and lack of empathy...overestimating [your] abilities and inflat[ing your] accomplishments, often appearing boastful and pretentious, whilst correspondingly underestimating and devaluing the achievements and accomplishments of others." and if you don't agree with me than that toally means that you're lying to yoursself, sean.

apparently you dont live within reality, either that or you have a selctive memory.

so you should quit lying to yourself, sean.

http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/npd.htm

[Kelster]

Originally Posted by yoko*

You also need to go get help! Here is a link which proves that you have narcissistic personality disorder. You have some serious issues sean, your symptoms match up with more than 5 of those described by the psychological association including "a pervasive pattern of grandiosity and self-importance, need for admiration, and lack of empathy...overestimating [your] abilities and inflat[ing your] accomplishments, often appearing boastful and pretentious, whilst correspondingly underestimating and devaluing the achievements and accomplishments of others." and if you don't agree with me than that toally means that you're lying to yoursself, sean.

apparently you dont live within reality, either that or you have a selctive memory.

so you should quit lying to yourself, sean.

http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/npd.htm

sorry for butting in, but i think you're both psychos. stop fighting amongst yourselves, you guys were made for each other. get over it or get back together.

[veN]

Originally Posted by Kelster

sorry for butting in, but i think you're both psychos. stop fighting amongst yourselves, you guys were made for each other. get over it or get back together.

Here, here!

Back to flowers, chocolates, fancy dinners, planning, kissing, hotels, cinnamon hearts, care packages, romantic walks... And oh yeah, even bring back hating on Valentine's Day, bc even that was more interesting than bickering.

[Kelster]

what's your guys take on hotels for valentines?


waste of money, cheesey or a romantic thing?

[veN]

Originally Posted by Kelster

what's your guys take on hotels for valentines?


waste of money, cheesey or a romantic thing?

Getting a NICE hotel would be romantic I think. But there's gotta be like entertainment and dinner involved. The hotel can't stand alone. Bc then it would be cheesy/waste of $$...

[mojo]

why is it necessary to have a certain day to prove your love to your sig. other?

i think that it is more effective to do these nice things, dinner, hotel rooms, flowers, kinky sex, to do these things throughout the year..i think that means more. to me at least.

[miss.myra]

^ I think so too.

I also think a holiday designed to alienate single people is especially cruel :p

[veN]

Originally Posted by mojo

why is it necessary to have a certain day to prove your love to your sig. other?

i think that it is more effective to do these nice things, dinner, hotel rooms, flowers, kinky sex, to do these things throughout the year..i think that means more. to me at least.

I'm all about doing it all year round as well. And I do. I just think , like an anniversary or christmas or birthdays, its an extra special time of year. Something to get excited about.

[mugsy]

i agree with mojo.

about the hotel - i dont think its cheesey. make it for more then one night, have a get away in your own city. it doesnt neccessarily have to be on the specific date, just make it your valentines celebration day.

[krisamata]

i think the whole day is cheesy.,..


it was only fun when we were young enough to have the heart boxes on our desks at elementary school...where everyone would hand out their valentines...and no one would feel left out becuase you're parents made sure you signed one even for the kid that used to pick his nose and eat it...

for now though, i make it a night to tell the ones in my life i love them... some of them get really into the "holiday" and so i go along with it...


its usually just me and the girls doing something retarded and fun... even if one ore more of us is dating someone...we usually ditch them and spend it with us!!

[bebu*funfun]

if i had a man on vday...

id say "no preplanned" presents.. we'd go to toys r us and make each other find what we think is teh perfect present for each other. its nice to get the kid out of each other. id buy a whole box of those mini vday cards and write ALL of them to him..something sweet and different on each one. hmmm it would be nice to rent a nice hotel room with a hot tub in it.. do take out food, movies, and sex all night. definately a good excuse for girls whove never worn extremly pretty lingerie to wear it as well.. even just a baby doll or full corset outfit. mmm... ooohhh and the cherry on top of the cake would be take a bubble bath together like how they do in movies.. i always thought it was the cutest thing ever.

[veN]

Originally Posted by krisamata

for now though, i make it a night to tell the ones in my life i love them... some of them get really into the "holiday" and so i go along with it...


its usually just me and the girls doing something retarded and fun... even if one ore more of us is dating someone...we usually ditch them and spend it with us!!

That sounds like so much fun! Don't worry Matt... I'm not going to ditch you! But that's a great idea.

And Bev, those are some hot ideas you have. Funstuff!

[bl0nde]

Originally Posted by bebu*funfun

if i had a man on vday...

id say "no preplanned" presents.. we'd go to toys r us and make each other find what we think is teh perfect present for each other. its nice to get the kid out of each other. id buy a whole box of those mini vday cards and write ALL of them to him..something sweet and different on each one. hmmm it would be nice to rent a nice hotel room with a hot tub in it.. do take out food, movies, and sex all night. definately a good excuse for girls whove never worn extremly pretty lingerie to wear it as well.. even just a baby doll or full corset outfit. mmm... ooohhh and the cherry on top of the cake would be take a bubble bath together like how they do in movies.. i always thought it was the cutest thing ever.

those are some great ideas!

[Ree Fresh]

Originally Posted by bebu*funfun

if i had a man on vday...

id say "no preplanned" presents.. we'd go to toys r us and make each other find what we think is teh perfect present for each other. its nice to get the kid out of each other. id buy a whole box of those mini vday cards and write ALL of them to him..something sweet and different on each one. hmmm it would be nice to rent a nice hotel room with a hot tub in it.. do take out food, movies, and sex all night. definately a good excuse for girls whove never worn extremly pretty lingerie to wear it as well.. even just a baby doll or full corset outfit. mmm... ooohhh and the cherry on top of the cake would be take a bubble bath together like how they do in movies.. i always thought it was the cutest thing ever.

That is such a cute idea going to toy r us! Personaly im all over the "thought"... writting a note/card, pictures, or making somthing on your own is what really amazes me. I think it kinda defeats the perpose just trying to make a bigger more $bling$ date then usual. Just really dedicating alot of time to the other person and doign lill things like a bubble bath I think say alot more.

[SEAN!]

Originally Posted by bebu*funfun

if i had a man on vday...

id say "no preplanned" presents.. we'd go to toys r us and make each other find what we think is teh perfect present for each other. its nice to get the kid out of each other. id buy a whole box of those mini vday cards and write ALL of them to him..something sweet and different on each one. hmmm it would be nice to rent a nice hotel room with a hot tub in it.. do take out food, movies, and sex all night. definately a good excuse for girls whove never worn extremly pretty lingerie to wear it as well.. even just a baby doll or full corset outfit. mmm... ooohhh and the cherry on top of the cake would be take a bubble bath together like how they do in movies.. i always thought it was the cutest thing ever.

that would be dope

[bebu*funfun]

dream on lil bev dream on.

[Veni*C]

its ok bev.. we can spend valentines togther with my cat....:y: go us!!!

[mojo]

Originally Posted by ~Veni_C~

its ok bev.. we can spend valentines togther with my cat....:y: go us!!!

that cat is like a lil' satan.

can i come anyways?