Long Term Relationships and Laundry ordeals!!

[lou_belle]

Having an argument at the beginning of the day about laundry makes the day so much more exciting and we don't even have to talk to one another...because we're officially in a fight!! Yay for the white load being ruined! Now I've got some time to myself!

*Don't read if you aren't interested in laundry drama*
HEHEHE* I had a load of whites in the dryer ready to be taken out, but he didn't want to have to take them out, so he threw his dark load into the dryer to funk it up a little bit and see what happens. My 375 dollar Juicy White Jeans got totally skunked...and then he says I deserved it!! :) ridiculousness*

*tsk *tsk

[Bobby_T]

I say: If he bought the jeans, then he can ruin them all he wants.

[mapleleaf4ever]

Next time he does some Whites, just toss in a pair of non-colourfast Red Underwear or Socks.

[BAL1STOPHER]

Originally Posted by lou_belle

it up a little bit and see what happens. My 375 dollar Juicy White Jeans .

i always knew you were a moron

[matéo]

Hrrm.

Mixing laundry is most def a sin in this home.

[b0ld]

sorry I just had to....

[crookedking]

Originally Posted by b0ld

sorry I just had to....

haha at first i thought that said "tron my shirt bitch" and it made no sense.

[mapleleaf4ever]

lol I thought that too... I was wondering how you Tron'd a Shirt.

[frogprincess]

lol @ white jeans

lol x 424209534523 @ 345 dollar white jeans

[BAL1STOPHER]

b0ld gets karma for that shit most def

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

I had my own little laundry drama today.

Me and my boyfriend live together and unfortunately, we dont have a washer and dryer. Every week *I* wash/dry/fold/iron the laundry. I pay for it. (I know its not more then $20..but still)

Today I was in a huge rush and only had time to drop the laundry off..and flip it into the dryer.. I wouldnt have time to pick it up. I call my boyfriend to ask if he could pick it up (I already pre paid the lady to fold it all) And he tells me - "I dont know how I feel about that..no..I dont think so, sorry" WHAT THE FUCK? I am soo mad. I was late for dinner with a friend because he "didnt know how he felt about picking it up"

Were still fighting.

The End

[mux]

I don't get it. Guys don't like to do laundry?

I do all the laundry in my relationship. AND the dishes. Most of the time.

OTOH, I haven't cooked a meal in six years, and I eat like a king.

[b0ld]

Originally Posted by BAL!S

b0ld gets karma for that shit most def

word!

[Ree Fresh]

Originally Posted by LLaaUUrrYYn

I had my own little laundry drama today.

Me and my boyfriend live together and unfortunately, we dont have a washer and dryer. Every week *I* wash/dry/fold/iron the laundry. I pay for it. (I know its not more then $20..but still)

Today I was in a huge rush and only had time to drop the laundry off..and flip it into the dryer.. I wouldnt have time to pick it up. I call my boyfriend to ask if he could pick it up (I already pre paid the lady to fold it all) And he tells me - "I dont know how I feel about that..no..I dont think so, sorry" WHAT THE FUCK? I am soo mad. I was late for dinner with a friend because he "didnt know how he felt about picking it up"

Were still fighting.

The End

Easy... only pick up your laundry and he can pick up his... or jsut worrie about your own laundry and he can take full responsibility for his own if he doesnt have any respect for how much your helping him.

If thers still promblems break up cus you cant live the rest of your life like this.

[lou_belle]

Originally Posted by BAL!S

i always knew you were a moron

I always knew u were broke ass.

[lou_belle]

Originally Posted by LLaaUUrrYYn

I had my own little laundry drama today.

Me and my boyfriend live together and unfortunately, we dont have a washer and dryer. Every week *I* wash/dry/fold/iron the laundry. I pay for it. (I know its not more then $20..but still)

Today I was in a huge rush and only had time to drop the laundry off..and flip it into the dryer.. I wouldnt have time to pick it up. I call my boyfriend to ask if he could pick it up (I already pre paid the lady to fold it all) And he tells me - "I dont know how I feel about that..no..I dont think so, sorry" WHAT THE FUCK? I am soo mad. I was late for dinner with a friend because he "didnt know how he felt about picking it up"

Were still fighting.

The End

Laundry drama is nothing but THAT...over and over...it's a chore that needs to desperately be done and yet it doesn't get the glory because it's nearly impossible to keep the laundry hamper empty. Somehow my man thinks that pink socks are ok, and tingy whites are part of life, as long as the hamper is empty...but I just won't allow it!

As far as my DR.LORI opinions go...
HAHa* unless you want to join the hoarding singles that can't do laundry for anyone else but themselves I'd say that u'r problems with your boyfriend about laundry are something that you can fix. They are most likely more apparent when you pms and make up problems in your head about how nothing is good enough:) PMS is a mystery* u could find yourself a laundry lover...but then u'd have to be damn good at something else. If you've aqcuired the laundry label, then you do it. Simple as that, if you're busy and he's busy then whatever...you can't go getting mad at him if it's your job to begin with~ Just make sure it's give and take and not JUST give.

[lou_belle]

Originally Posted by wellbelove's

Easy... only pick up your laundry and he can pick up his... or jsut worrie about your own laundry and he can take full responsibility for his own if he doesnt have any respect for how much your helping him.

If thers still promblems break up cus you cant live the rest of your life like this.

While you're at it, why don't you just make one box of kraft dinner and leave him a few spoonfuls in the bottom of the pot for dinner so he appreciated when you actually cook?

[wum]

a bit off topic, but anyone else not live with their S/O but still in a "long term" relationship?