What does this mean...?

[MC Hammered]

Jim + Rhia + Avana all in one thread = major threadjack about to happen :c-tard:

[cubed]

Originally Posted by MC Hammered

Come on Peter... just use your head and a bit of assertiveness.

ultimately, this is what needs to be done in this situation.


don't let your heart over power your head, there should be an equal balance of the two.

[Ree Fresh]

Originally Posted by cubed

^way to go, you broke fnk.

:(

I think will have to wait till Wednsday for more quotes :(


Although my littel guy Wayan was singing to Hillery Duff today!?!

[MC Hammered]

I just reread my opening line above and I hope he realized I meant the head above the shoulders.

[cubed]

and now for something completely different....




HERE'S A KITTEN SHREDDING DOWN ON A BADASS AXE!!!!

Originally Posted by MC Hammered

Jim + Rhia + Avana all in one thread = major threadjack about to happen :c-tard:

Stop trying to lead the threadjack. You secretly want it to happen.

[cubed]

Originally Posted by R Wellbelove

I think will have to wait till Wednsday for more quotes :(


Although my littel guy Wayan was singing to Hillery Duff today!?!

I wonder if we'll find out this week that Kendra is actually a tranny named Kenny.

Originally Posted by cubed

I wonder if we'll find out this week that Kendra is actually a tranny named Kenny.

She really does look like a tranny.

[cubed]

she's got a deeper voice than me.

[MC Hammered]

Originally Posted by cubed

she's got a deeper voice than me.

But who has larger breasticles?

[cubed]

...............

[Cool-Water]

duuuude sounds like a snobby woman.
dont waste your time and good girls will just come out of nowhere

[FireWire]

Rhia - I don't deny that I don't know women... heck - if I knew women, I would've been the richest man on the planet from my knowledge about them.

But I DO know that what they say is NOT what they mean. So to me, even though what you said has some valid points - you still didn't mean what you said.

I hear women saying all the time that they want a guy who listens to them but end up having affairs with guys who could care less about listening to them.

Happens ALL the time. Go figure.


What girls tell guys to be will make those guys whipped puppy dogs and doormat type of men with a lack of balls to stand up for themselves.

What I suggest guys to be will make those guys real men - the type of men who can stand up for themselves and who will not give in to womens' whining and all their other attention getting tactics. I personally wouldn't wanna become someone's personal 'emotional-rescue-service-on-demand'. Or worse yet... "the guy who buys her everything" while she has affairs on the side with "the guy who fucks her".


So guys - are you still going to keep on listening to what women tell you they want you to be or are you going to become real men and stop giving in to their bullshit and stand up for yourselves? Women want a challenge - and you are going to give it to them. They aren't going to have you without first of all having to go through a lot proving themselves to you on why they would be worthy of being with you.

And guys... this is just silly but whenever someone starts whining or complaining to you about their life and personal problems - send that person to the mental clinic because that's where they will get the help that they need. You are only there to offer a fun ride - and you will not go for anything less than being a challenge.

[FireWire]

Originally Posted by Cool-Water

duuuude sounds like a snobby woman.
dont waste your time and good girls will just come out of nowhere

True. I say scrap that emotional wreck - she needs professional help or SSRI's but definitely NOT your attention. To me, if a girl fails in front of my eyes even once within a short period of time - I just move on. What I mean is that if she does something that *I* don't like, then that counts as a fail and that tells me that she's capable of doing it again. (That's right Silverwinged, you won't like me and you might even give me some more negative karma cause that's just what you do, but you would be just lying to yourself when you tell me that you don't like my style)

Originally Posted by Cool-Water

dont waste your time and good girls will just come out of nowhere

And this is something that lots of us never really realize, but if you believe that your dream girl will just come to you out of nowhere - then let me tell you something... she won't. Ouch? Yes indeed.

In order for "good girls to just come out of nowhere", you must PUT YOURSELF IN SITUATIONS WHERE THERE ARE GOOD GIRLS FOR THAT MATTER (or basically any kinds of girls you like). Do you consciously realize that you need to PHYSICALLY position your physical body in geographical locations where such good girls might be hanging around? They won't come unless YOU come first. Think about your chances. They expect the man to make the first move.

You will find them sitting in coffee shops and bookstores all pretty'ed up and looking like exotic flowers... just waiting for YOU to sweep them off their feet. They would rather die than make the first move. Many women have confessed that. So grow some balls and make a move.


Peace

Originally Posted by FireWire

Rhia - I don't deny that I don't know women... heck - if I knew women, I wouldn't been the richest man on the planet from my knowledge about them.

But I DO know that what they say is NOT what they mean. So to me, even though what you said has some valid points - you still didn't mean what you said.

I hear women saying all the time that they want a guy who listens to them but end up having affairs with guys who could care less about listening to them.

Go figure. Happens all the time.

Wow - do you question why you don't have a girlfriend? Between the advice you have doled out here and the advice you doled out in the thread on how to attract women, you sound like nothing more than a male chauvinist.

How do you even know Rhia didn't mean what she said? I have never heard Rhia say something she didn't mean, and she is honest to a fault, including with her significant other.

Rhia and Jim are the perfect example of the nice guy finishing first. Jim is an absolute prince, and treats Rhia like a queen. He is the nice guy, and he snagged the beautiful girl. He is the perfect balance of nice and independance.

Nice guys don't finish last, and it is the most overused excuse by men ever. And the MEN that I hear say that, are the guys that latch on overnight and want marriage right away. The reason these guys are finishing last, is because they creep women out.

Originally Posted by RiCeY

I need some clearity on this people...

When I said this to a girl...

"I was really looking forward to seeing you again... I had a fun night planned"

Her respone to that was...

"I know no wonder I don't have a b/f"

When I asked her exately what she meant by that she said...

""becuz im too bitter and get annoyed easily at people"

WHAT DOES THIS ALL MEAN?

My sous chef/friend said...

"shes telling you that she doesnt have a b/f because of how she is acting with you ... how can you be bfgf when you dont want to go out with someone ... ?"

Also when she says "becuz im too bitter and get annoyed easily at people"

equals .... "its not you, its me"

IS THAT WHAT IT MEANS? I'VE ASKED OTHERS AND EVERYONE'S TOLD ME SOMETHING DIFF...WHAT DO YOU GUY'S THINK?

She is sticking you in the friend zone. There is nothing wrong with her, she is not unstable, or weird. She is making it clear you are friends without saying that.

She is being a coward by not being straight up about it. You deserve better.

[Disco_Whore]

Originally Posted by Avana

Nice guys don't finish last, and it is the most overused excuse by men ever. And the MEN that I hear say that, are the guys that latch on overnight and want marriage right away. The reason these guys are finishing last, is because they creep women out.

^Couldn't agree with you more. I can't stand it when guys use that line.

[ash1ee]

not just baggy hoodies...
BEDAZZLED BAGGY HOODIES.

poor jessica...everyone 'never actually dated' her. get off the show granny. you're done!

Originally Posted by FireWire

But I DO know that what they say is NOT what they mean. So to me, even though what you said has some valid points - you still didn't mean what you said.

Where do you get this bullshit?

I am a firm believer in say what you mean, and mean what you say.

What half brained twits are you dating, that are like this? Do they let you order their dinners and pick their clothing too?

[FireWire]

Oh yeah, Avana makes a good point which I forgot to mention: don't be creepy. That is the cause for almost half of the problems guys have with girls. They creep the girls out before they even open their mouth.

I don't have a girlfriend at the moment and haven't had one for a while after my last one but hey... I'm cool with that. I haven't come across a respectable girl yet that I can have as my girlfriend. I have strict standards and I don't go for anyone less than classy and intelligent, and lately I just haven't been putting myself into situations where such girls hang out. Everything is fairly justified in my love life. I love my life the way it is right now because it is how I choose to live my life. And working solo has money saying advantages. I LUV it. :)

[FireWire]

Originally Posted by Avana

Where do you get this bullshit?

I am a firm believer in say what you mean, and mean what you say.

What half brained twits are you dating, that are like this? Do they let you order their dinners and pick their clothing too?

Nah dude, don't be in denial to yourself. You are evolutionary hard-wired to like guys who put up a challenge. Of course you also like guys who will listen to you, but there has to be a balance in everything. If all a guy does is listen to you, then there's a major imbalance and you will put him in your friend zone. No shit? And if a guy listens to you one time and totally ignores your whining another time - then there's perfect balance and harmony to keep you going after him because you just want more of this mysterious and challenging man.

Admit it - you would rather be impacted emotionally and swept off your feet into someone's arms rather than talked your way into their arms.

[ash1ee]

good girls only come out of nowhere for guys who deserve it.

this my friend, is why girls you meet sprint in the other direction.

we are all smarter than you. and don't you forget it.

Originally Posted by FireWire

Nah dude, don't be in denial to yourself. You are evolutionary hard-wired to like guys who put up a challenge. Of course you also like guys who will listen to you, but there has to be a balance in everything. If all a guy does is listen to you, then there's a major imbalance and you will put him in your friend zone. No shit? And if a guy listens to you one time and totally ignores your whining another time - then there's perfect balance and harmony to keep you going after him because you just want more of this mysterious and challenging man.

Admit it - you would rather be impacted emotionally and swept off your feet into someone's arms rather than talked your way into their arms.

No really, do you believe what you are saying?

I am not a chaser, nor am I a needy, whiney person to my significant other. I don't look for someone who is a jerk or someone who treats me like less than gold because I mistake it for coyness. I am a strong and independent woman.

The last relationship that I had that was serious, I was dumped for being to emotionally distant. I have been broken up with for that more times than I care to admit.

This ideal that you seem to have women is going to land you with someone that you seem to be so against. I hope that works out for you.

[cubed]

Originally Posted by Avana

Rhia and Jim are the perfect example of the nice guy finishing first. Jim is an absolute prince, and treats Rhia like a queen. He is the nice guy, and he snagged the beautiful girl. He is the perfect balance of nice and independance.

you're totally fucking with my rep.

[Prissypants]

To Peter: This girl sounds like drama dude. I wouldn't waste my time on anything romantic with her...Too much of an emotional drain.