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Jun 07, 02
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the oldest person i ever went out with was..
eeks forget it! :kimmie: 
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Jun 07, 02
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I'll be 18 in less than 2 months and I won't date anyone more than 2 years younger than me...and even 2 years is iffy now cuz of my last relationship :P ....and older, hmm i think 22 is probably the oldest i would go.
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Jun 08, 02
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Um i don't know ... the oldest guy i have dated was 21 making him 4 years older then me and it was ok .... i say as long as the guy doesn't try to over power the relationship because his older and that goes w/ older girls too, then i say why not. And i could go out w/ someone that is a couple month younger then me but i think no more then that.
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Jun 09, 02
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hahaha
oh boy....well.... NOW i have a set limit of 25!! dating anyone younger then me is kind of.. a turn off.... they'd have to totally be something special in order for me to see them if they were younger
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Jun 10, 02
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Personally, I wouldn't date a guy younger than me.
I've never done it, but I've dated two guys my own age and that was fucking brutal, so I can't imagine what dating a younger guy would be like. (ICK!) My boyfriend and I are three years apart, he's 20, I'm 17. Age doesn't really matter to me, but I'd probably draw the line at 6 years older. As for guys dating younger girls, Tim, 16/17 is OK for you. If you're a 20 y/o guy, I would stay away from anything more than three years younger than you unless their parents approve because you could run into troubles with the law...and no one wants that! It all depends on your maturity level, and the maturity level of the other person involved. If you click, then hey, good for you, and don't let age stand in the way =0)
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Jun 10, 02
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the youngest I HAVE dated was 2 years younger ... 19 / 17
the oldest... *cough* ... was 9 years older ... 19 / 28 as has been said, it all depends on whether the two of you *click*. but it is very important that you are both in similar stages of your life.
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Jun 11, 02
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i know age matters (to a certain extent)
but i personally get offended when a guy's juss chatting with you and all of a sudden asks you how old you are, you tell them your age and they're all weirded out.. "so how old are you?" "15" (at the time) "omg really? uhh..you're too young for me.." and the pleasant conversation goes downhill, cuz they feel awkward or something. like wtf, i'm younger than you but i have the brains to hold a friendly conversation.and grr, just cause I'm talking to you doesn't mean that I'm asking to go out with you/hitting on you... ^it used to bug me a lot but wutever, that only used to happen to me when i used to party.... so
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Jun 13, 02
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I dont think age really matter...
But I'm wierd and for some reason i draw the line at 21/22.... personal reason sorta... but its just something Nicole(*SparkiE*) and I think should stay at.. going past that is wrong.. but theres always excepting... Cuase when I had just turned 14 I was going out with a guy that was 21... But it totaly worked, I dont even remember why we broke up.. there was no real reason! As for younger... No not happening.. The youngest guy I've gone out with was 16 when I was 15.. and that was HELL... I dunno... younger guys just dont do anything for me.. I think they like whine too much n'stuff. Just pretty much the same reason as Natalie. Right now my boufriend is 2 years older than me, but you wouldn't exactly guess we had an age diffrence. But it works out perfect!:)
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Jun 13, 02
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Hmmmm...
Okay well now A LOT of you made me feel REALLY old here. 16 this, 17 that... sheeeeeeeiiiiit!
I am currently 23. My preference is to have a relationship with someone older than me. I just got burned by someone who was 19 turning 20 so I don't think I will play that game again IE: tired of them "figuring things out" and that kinda thing. You know, I am looking for someone who knows what they want and isn't "figuring it out," is grounded, well established and leads a similar lifestyle. yoko -- You have to expect that the conversation will change when a guy finds out that a girl is 15 and he is say, well, MY AGE! It wouldn't weird me out but more so just cause me to loose interest. I know that may sound kinda cocky but realistically 15? --- That person is still in fricken high school and most likely, living at home! I am working full time during the day, live on my own and cane come/go and party when I please. I can't imagine saying to a chick, "hey lets go to a movie" to have her respond, "okay sure, but my curfew is 11PM!" <lol> You get my point.
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Jun 13, 02
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Hehehe
I knew I would get that kind of reply. Let me explain -- don't take my example literally. The point of my example was more to illustrate the fact that some guys are just at WAY different points in there lives than younger women (and it goes vice-versa as well of course). No offense intended, I mean, it's all good I am just saying that dating a chick that is 15-16 even 17 is probably not gonna be my first choice.
... But I must admit ... they look DAMN FINE these days!
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Jun 13, 02
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^^^^ i totally agree with the last few posts!
thats why i draw the line at 20/21, cuz there is a big difference in LIFESTYLE! like my dream rite now would "have a full time job, live on my own, do wuteva i please and go wherever i please" stuff like that...but seriously IM ONLY 16 and i still respect my parents rules and stuff... im young, one day when im older, i'll get the freedom i please. and YES i do have a curfew.. im not proud of it, but my parents do like lookin after me and would really like if im home at a certain time. thats y i conclude that my "perfect" bf would be around 18 (2 years older)...and have a car...so he can drive me home. LOL i already think thats too much to ask for..thats y living my single life is great right now. and younger or same age boys? naaa they dont float my boat. i personally think im more mature than my age...and damn i need a guy who actually has more experience in life to be with me. hmm...yah tats about it
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Jun 16, 02
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Kraig ^
i knowwwwww but what if you're not even talking to them because you're hitting on them, you're just talking to them for conversation... I don't talk to the whole entire male species just in the hopes of picking them up, isn't that the guy's fault for getting too ahead of himself in thinking that upon first encounter i'm all of a sudden asking for a relationship or something, but yeah, i understand your(s) view point as well. i guess i used to get offended at the fact that, they take age into consideration, for something that they even take in consideration for. there were some though, that seemed not to care, but I don't think those guys even cared about anything I had to say... or what my name was for that matter. Last edited by yoko*; Jun 16, 02 at 10:06 PM.
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