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Sep 08, 02
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Sick of being lonely
Anyone else with me on this one? I can admitt that I am absolutly sick of being alone. I soo need a companion, I realized this tonight, didn't think i really needed a girl in my life until I went to this concert and saw all these couples. I miss the feeling of waking up next to a pretty girl. I hate waking up by myself. I hate not having someone there, I hate being alone.
Can't believe i posted this. 
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Sep 08, 02
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i feel ur pain sweetheart......i do...i really wish i wasnt alone i miss being to hold someone...*sigh*...we can be lonely together
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Sep 08, 02
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You usually shouldn't seek relationships if you're just looking to fill some kind of void.
Ask yourself, why are you lonely? What is missing from your life? ...most of the time it's an issue more than just lacking companionship.. and as they always say, you always find the right person when you're not looking :) Myra
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Sep 08, 02
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I like bein single but then again I wouldn't mind a girl in my life either. I wouldn't want a relationship unless I had real strong feelings for her.........anything under that is just sex, and thats it. I just hate all the arguing for stupid ass reasons bullshit, I see a lot of my friends in realtionships and it seems like half of em fight 24/7. And then theres some other buddies who get a girlfriend and thats tha last anyone sees of them. Like I can understand how much they care for each other and want to be together a lot, but you still gotta see your friends no matter what. Guarunteed when I do get in to a relationship there will be time for my girlfriend and time for my friends, and time for my friends doesn't mean once every 1-2 weeks. I just wanna make sure that theres no fuckin around as in head games (I hate that shit) and the girl is just right. Eventually somethin'll happen........maybe I should just chill and wait and someone will show up unexpectedly, but then again bein single is not so bad either.
Last edited by Guice_39; Sep 08, 02 at 07:27 PM.
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Sep 08, 02
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Call me crazy but I'm perfectly content being celibate. All too often I've gotten into a relationship and there are expectations from both parties and it's enough to drive any couple to hate each other. Far too many cons outweigh the pros when it comes to a relationship, no matter how great those few pros are.
Granted, if someone came along that I knew we'd get along great together with, I'd pursue it but seeking a relationship just because you need some snuggles is not a wise idea. That warm and fuzzy feeling becomes more addictive than any chemical narcotic and us humans seem to go to ludicrous heights in order to keep it (stalkers, anyone?). *sigh*The things evolution has done to us to pass on our seeds...:smoke1:
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Sep 08, 02
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but back to the original post, being lonely is the fucking story of my life!!!!!!! the best way to become...er...unlonely.... is to keep busy OR get a significant other but finding someone you really relate with is really hard, bleh~
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Sep 08, 02
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Everyone is alone.. being in a relationship or sticking your dick into someone only makes the physical lonliness less severe.
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Sep 08, 02
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the more i think about it the more i dont want a relationship....just a companion i guess....im not ready for another relationship...i just want someone to be around and have fun with and shit...see i like being single and all...but sometimes its just not enough....even tho im hella busy i still wish there was someone there sometimes....even my friends arent enough to fulfil what i want....and sex would be nice...if i cared bout the person...:P
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Sep 09, 02
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Being single has its ups. Also at the same time being with someone has its downs.
I think a lot of people know where your coming from, I am one of those people. It suxs in a way, but I can give you this advice. Friends are what you truly need first. Also, if you stop searching, someone will just popup and the feeling of being alone will disappear.
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Sep 09, 02
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ugh... I know how you feel but even worse...
I lietrally have no one.. yeah sure I have family.. but its not like they give 2 shits... I didnt realize that I was ACTUALLY alone till about a week ago when something happen.. so yeah... its kinda lame... be nice to have some one you can totaly confind in and everything.. ugh.. have a sense of security with some one.. (k, yeha I'm sure some of you thik I'm biulsshity and whatever... but live my life and know me.. then tell me I'm lying..)
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Sep 25, 02
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Don't worry, You'll find someone !!!! I did, (right now I'm probably still fucked up w/ emotions) and I was better for it, I gave it my all, I loved her with all my heart, but I guess it wasn't meant to be! Maybe we were to different, maybe she wasn't really ready yet, even it seemed like she was!...blah blah!!! Just remember once you find someone try to cherish the good time! (thats what Im trying to do but I usually end up crying)
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Sep 25, 02
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i wasnt feeling lonely until yesterday.
i thought me and a certain guy (coughppcockcough) might actually get back together even though we havent really talked lately...... but it turns out he's found someone new.. :( *cries* blah...whatever....
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Sep 25, 02
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I wouldn't mind some new friends. Although, I am starting to spend more time with my good friends from high school (who aren't really part of my social scene), so I guess that's kind of like making new ones?
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Sep 29, 02
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Sorry to hear it =( I hate when that happens, but if it's meant to be then things will change. Maybe she just has some growing up and self realization to go through. If you really love her, stand by her as a friend, that way you won't miss out on all the good times you can still have with her =) g'luck!
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