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Mar 03, 03
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being a witness
sunday was a scary day for me. between the stress of writing essays, i witnessed a horrible attack. when i was walking along the drive, i noticed a couple fighting beside me. i got a bad feeling and turned down the volume on my discman just in time to hear the woman say "you like to hit women". and that is what he did. he punched her in the head and she flew down to the ground in front of my feet. i checked to see if she was okay and her head was bleeding. i helped her up and she cried, "just hold me". so i did. for a few minutes. then, witnesses showed up. one of them helped her across the street to get cleaned up. i was in shock, flooded with nightmares of being attacked by ryan on the street. i talked to one of the witnesses. then i noticed the attacker, who had ducked into an alley. he crossed the road to the same side of the street as the girl had. i called 911 on my cell and followed him, giving an exact description. they kept asking me if i knew where the girl had gone, but i didn't see which store she had gone into. i ended up losing sight of both. the man disappeared along 4th ave, probably turning onto victoria drive. i stuck around for the police to show up. shaken up. i can't stop hearing her voice, asking me to hold her...
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u haven't been in many fights have you?
thats hardly a "horrible attack" its an attack, but FAR from horrible
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That IS horrible. Fuck, you are so insensitive Konrad. She obviously wasn't beat half to death, but she was hit, HARD, by someone she obviously knew and thats still horrible.
ANYWAYS.. I'm sorry to hear you had to witness that hun, but I'm glad to hear that you helped the woman out and didn't just let the guy run off. It makes me feel good knowing that there are good people out there that would help someone out in those circumstances, and do all they could do to give information to help catch the person that did it.
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By beating up your emotionally dependant partner. btw, I didn't know a "horrible attack" couldn't be something on an emotional level rather than on just a physical level.
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Mar 04, 03
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if she was beaten to a bloody pulp, it would be a horrible attack. Lovecat, all i have to say is ur fuckign retarded if you stayed with someone that was beating you.
By your logic, everytime theres a party at the korean theres a "horrible attack", right? People who are getting hit by thier partners should fucking leave immediately, if they don't, they're fucking dumb and don't deserve my sympathy.
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Mar 04, 03
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i fuckin hate women beaters
 any time i see women getting beaten by males my natural instinct is to mangle the males head stupid cunt ass bitch fuckin pansy ass mother fuckers argh :finger: ugh that makes my blood boil
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Mar 04, 03
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i realize that it wasn't good for me to have stayed in that situation, but i have the right to make that judgement as i am the only one who knows the circumstances. not you.
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Mar 04, 03
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somtimes it is hard to leave an abusive relationship. I dont know the situation but its not fair to say that somone is stupid because it is a lot harder than that if there is a lot of emotional attachment to the person. But yah abuse is wrong and beating women is sick. it is a horrible attack any kind of attack it horrible in a sence. it isnt a measure of how bad they were beaten its the act that is horrible. I'm sorry you had to be apart of that lovekat
but it may have been a comfort to the woman. you did the right thing.
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Mar 04, 03
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^ that's exactly whatr I was thinking.
As usual, Konrad has displayed his tremendous talent of being a narrow minded prick. It's not always that easy, fuckhead.
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Mar 04, 03
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you did the right thing nathaniel. you helped her, tracked buddy down, and got the coppers there. alot of other people would've panicked and not known what to do, or even worse they would've just kept going.
my advice about getting her voice stuck in your head...take that out and put in a song...or my voice...both'll work out for ya :)
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Mar 04, 03
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^haha
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Mar 05, 03
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this is a little off topic but anyways.
I hate it when guys treat their partners horribly. Actually, I hate it when guys treat women, horribly, regardless of whether they're in a relationship or not. It infuriates me. I hate seeing guys yelling at women, I don't see how that could amount to a positive solution. And what really hurts the most is when you stick up for them, but because they're too weak to stand they're ground they get angry at you for telling the other guy to stop acting like an ass... I guess Dumas was right when he wrote, "To seek quarrel with a man is a bad method of pleasing the women who loves that man."
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