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Apr 12, 03
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woah calm down okay im just saying that i understand that its her money right and she knows im trying to find a job but still i mean what i cant go talk to her cuz when i do try and talk to her she jumps to conclusions without me explaining and when i try to explain she just ignores it cuz she thinks she knows everything from that lil thing that she heard...........
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Apr 12, 03
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dont run away its stupid
i tried it..foudn out my parents didnt care at all... and i stupidly went back home. it was pathetic. after that i smartened up and finally got through to myself that love doesn't exist in my family and that being independent is the way to go. this place is just a house..with a free room to stay in and free internet to use....and a table to draw. tough it out.. you might not like your family right now...but in the future u'd take a bullet for them. dont run away..its stupid.
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Apr 12, 03
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trust me I'm calm, it's called sarcasm.
i was just pointing out that there isn't much to complain about if you're under her roof. Until you have the means to be financial independent you kinda gotta suck it up. I'm very much under my parents wing because I don't think it would be easy to be financially independent while going to university both at the same time. I didn't even want to go at first, but I also see that if they're the ones to provide the money I gotta make a compromise with them, or do it their way. It isn't necessarily fair, and there are exceptions, but really taking what they give you for granted isn't fair. Your mom could not buy you clothes at all and you'll have more to complain about. If it's your own money you have all the liscence to complain, but when it's not, respect the parental bank. actions speak louder than words. If she doesn't listen to you, maybe your actions might prove to her your maturity. I don't know how much it applies to your situation.
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Apr 12, 03
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all right thanks you guys for the advise *huggles*
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Apr 12, 03
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sorri for being rude but its kinda frustrating
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Apr 13, 03
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i kno whut you're saying, you just wAnt to get away, teach her a lesson maybe. I did that, i went off too live in nyc for 3 months, had a lot of fun. lived with a friend for a year. Now that i am a wee bit older tho i realise no matter how fucked up your parents are. No matter how 'bad' they might be at being a parent, NO ONE cares about you when it comes down to it except your mom. your friends and everyone else you know doesn't give a shit about you, so remember that.
on a side note......the most important thing i have learned in my life, or am trying to learn anyway, is that you cant trust ANYONE, and if you want to be nice and help people out, do it but dont put your heart into cuz you'll get stomped on. :c-tard: bye
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Apr 13, 03
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Stop on fronting and fucken' run away already you attention deprived child!!
You have it a lot better than a lot of kids, so I suggest you shut up, bend over, and take it. Stop being such a spoiled, ungrateful brat and go with it. Yes, your mom is sucha bitch, she just doesn't understand you... right. If you think that's bad, I don't know how you are going to deal with the rest of life's problems as you get older. Do you have the emotional maturity to run away and make something productive of yourself? You think running away and punishing your mother for your immaturity is really going to make things better? Grow up.
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Apr 13, 03
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Apr 13, 03
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well fuck you know what if you dont like it then dont fucking respond to it all right and ya obviously i have learned my lession that's why i apoligized to everyone........fuck :finger:
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Apr 13, 03
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but still i mean ya i tell a part of a story right but they dont know all and how i feel so i mean dont bitch at something that you dont fully know about........
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Apr 13, 03
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hmmmmm maybe ur right :c-tard:
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Apr 14, 03
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dont trust anyone :) lol but i already knew that :PartEkid:
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Apr 14, 03
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i duno lol :soak:
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Apr 21, 03
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aww..i feel like i know exactly how u feel*huggles*
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Apr 21, 03
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aww..i feel like i know exactly how u feel*huggles*
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Apr 21, 03
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listen ive been in your shoes.. im 18 and my mom is still all over me like you wouldnt believe. nothing you can say will really put her at ease... i never did anything to make my mom worry and she still did. its part of their occupation. moms will be moms.
the only thing you can do is relax, realize that all she is doing is yelling (if she is doin anything else then you shoul get help) running away wont "teach your mom a lesson" and being a supposed bad ass wont help either. just relax. you are 16... that is pretty young. i thought i was all responsible at 16... and only two years later i realize how dum i was to think that. at least your mom cares enough to jump down your throat. some moms dont even care if their kids come home until the next week. things will get better, your 16 you got shit loads of horomones girl, no matter what you think, you do have mood swings, its all about bein a girl. so you givin your mom just as much hell as she is given you. wait it out, im sure there are times when you dont hate your mom. youll be fine, life will go on, an you will grow up soon enough.
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