the race before friendships begins

[LoveKat]

so i met this boy and i think he is really sweet. sweeter than any boy i've talked with or met in the last year (no offense). we've done the whole online flirtation thing, writing cute notes about each other and our mutual attraction and giddiness.

now i want to tell him that i am starting to like him as more than a friend. we still have a lot of getting to know each other, but i want to come forward with how i feel before my window closes and he begins to respect me too much as a friend to ruin what we have :finger: :finger: :finger:

so yeah, how should i go about letting him know this without seeming like a geek. i already seem like a geek writing this post, but i don't care. i just want snuggles from him.

*huggles*
nathaniel kristofer

[specialkonrd]

be like,
nice pants! they'd look better on my floor!

[cerah]

*cuddles Nathaniel*

Honestly baby... just talk to him/ Let him know that you respect him as a firend but that you want to express the feelings you have for him. If he wants to just stay friends be sure to let him know that it's totally fine with you, just that you had to get this offa your chest because it was bugging you.

But from what lil I know of the situation I think more likely than not he feels the same way.

What's the worst that can happen tough if you talk to him? He'll say he just likes you as a friend and you'll have that relationship to build upon.

[Kandyapple]

well have you only talked to him on the internet? If so make the next step and start talking to him on the phone. by hearing your voice you can probably try and hint with your tone that you have an interest. It's hard to realy express feelings on the net. like its not hard to type them but its more personal. on the phone or in person is better. If your feeling this way you definatly should take the next step. and you should express your feelings if you think there is a chance that the opportunity may pass you by. just get it out there. if you guys are flirting then there is a good chance that there is a mutual attraction. so if your still just strickly on the net then you should start talking on the phone or in person. If you already have and you know that you realy care about him knowing him in person then go for it. I know I've gotten to the place where things were to hard to go forward because we were friends. and it got strange because of it. so yah its totaly your decision in the end because you have the best idea of who you are talking to but I would say go for it when you are totaly sure the time is right. If you want more then go for it now.

[miss.myra]

It's always super awkward when you meet someone and you really really like them...
It reminds me of when Darian and I met, because we both really had these innocent crushes on eachother, but were so afraid to make a move for the longest time. It was just always so very cute and awkward and over time I couldn't stand it and I just made a move..however, it took me months to build up any courage to do so..

I think a lot of the time, people can really easily sense that the other person feels something more for them...you can notice the awkward silences, the blushing...everything..

I'd say maybe hang out a few more times and see how it feels and then make a move. It's totally natural to feel nervous about it!!

[LoveKat]

meow

i'm pretty sure that he feels the same way as i do, but i'm a pessimist and never believe that someone likes me until they tell me themselves

and yeah, i have talked with him on the phone and met him in person. he gives great hugs!

[krisamata]

he so wants you
you know it
go for it.

[LoveKat]

^

i wish
i hope

*crosses fingers and heads off to dreamland*

[LoveKat]

blah

i'm starting to wonder what he thinks

i don't even get a phone call back :(

[Kandyapple]

did you tell him?

[LoveKat]

no i haven't had a chance yet