|
|||||||
| Mind and Body Ask for advice or offer some. Keep it work safe clean. |
 |
|
|
LinkBack | Topic Tools | Rate Topic |
Jul 05, 01
|
||||
|
||||
|
you gonna get married? *eeps*
inspired by addy's post about her sister getting married... i ask you this, do you guys plan on getting married? ever? do you plan on getting married just so you can murder your rich partner for insurance money and then they haunt you and finally lead you to losing your mind and killing yourself taking your children with you.? staying a "big pimpin' mac daddy/momma" for the rest of your life? staying in solitude as a hermit/nun/priest/guy that wacks off in your room excessively to paint the walls white? dying from some weird disease before even getting close to any of this? or what?
COULD you really see yourself getting married? and if so, do you have anyone in mind? do you think it'll last? ha. have you ever been married? engaged? divorced now? widowed? anything else.? ---------- i guess this is where i state what i think of the whole thing... due to my over analytical, pessimistic, cynical, overly bitchy, blunt, undecisive, competitive, jealous, desire for change, inability to stay in one state, mood swinging, arguementive, dramatic, blah blah blah. nature.. i doubt there will be anyone that i can stand or be able to stand me in excessive amounts of dosage at a time.. i am one of those ppl that would want to maybe live in seperate houses even after being married to each other. maybe its the whole fear of being with someone for sucha long time, that they start becoming part of my life that when i try to break away, i'll end up losing parts of myself, and un-needed heart break. kinda like why i would back out of a relationship. the whole settling down state scares me.. cuz it makes me feel so old, and its so boring but by then you owuld of grown so comfortable that you dont know how you can break out of it.. that you are maybe even, TOO LAZY to break from it... i could never imagine someone like me getting married (despite what a lot of my former friends have told me. "oh leslie you'll be like the first of us to get married, cuz you know you have a bf all the time". yeah but do i like any of them for more than a 2 weeks before i get bored of them? of 9 bfs or so, i have only been interested in 2 of them for more than a month and both were relationships longer than 6 or so months.) and even if i get married.. i would imagine that i would divorce the other person.. due to conflict, or loss of interest. no one wants to put up with baggage. and im one of them. ive never been married, never been engaged or anything. i kid around and tell everyone im a widow sometimes but thats about as close. ive had a bf or 2 ask me to marry them but they were joking most likely although i think one of them might've been serious about it.. er.. i dont think theres anyone i could really imagine marrying. im against the whole marriage ceremony bit.. i would only like it cuz i get to dress up all pretty and girly and see everyone cry. there was one person i thought maybe JUST maybe.. i would be able to be with for the rest of my life.. but that is a long ass time.. (well not really. i could change that at ANYTIME *cough* bullet to the head *smerks*) i would need change, i need to break apart from the pair every once in a while to miss the other person.. so i dont go insane.. seeing someone everyday drives you insane.. (thats probably why i dont stay at home that much anymore and now me and my parents get along JUST FINE.) i rambled way too much in this.. and i keep getting off topic *sigh* i guess in the end its the whole fear of committment, not because im unloyal. no dont get me wrong.. im loyal but, err.. i guess i just dont want to fall for someone.. and become so blind and attatched to someone that.. there would be nothing without them.. a slave to my emotions. wait... maybe i am already. argg. i need some coffee or alcohol right now. no "sun induced stupidity" for me today.. .stabitout. 
|
|
Jul 05, 01
|
|||
|
|||
|
stabby...
not gonna lie I didn't read all of ur post ...jk...but for me personally..I've never loved anyone or even come close for that matter....so maybe my opinion would change if I had...I think marriage is a bad investment because it leads to such expenses as children dogs....bla bla bla....it's probably my selfish immaturity talkin but marriage doesn't seem right to me...I think my lack of being able to love someone plays a major role in my opinion...
|
|
Jul 05, 01
|
|||
|
|||
|
hm..marriage.. ya.. i've thought about this before.. and y'know what? i seriously dunn if there is anyone who would wanna marry meeh.. maybe it's jsut meeh but i dunno..
maybe there is someone... i don't know.. i can't really see myself getting married...i dunno.. it's just weird 2 meeh.... maybe i will be able 2 once i'm older.. i know i can love (i have.. and still do... ahh..) but i dunno if i could married.. plus i'd have 2 find someone that doesn't bore meeh (happens alot 2 meeh in relationships) and and and!! someone who doesn't wanna have kids.. most ppl i meet seem 2 want kids... it seems normal enuff but i wouldnt' want kids.. i'm to scared.. and plus.. i don't think i would tree then good.. i mean i bet anything.. i fi had kids.. i'd be one damn abusive mother.. maybe not.. but i dunno..my temper is 2 bad.. i wouldn't wanna bring someone into the world and then subject them to THAT.. ugh.. but really all i can say is who knows.. ask meeh in 3 years and maybe i'll have a better answer for u..
|
|
Jul 05, 01
|
|||
|
|||
|
too soon....
i can see myself getting married one day.... but it is way too soon to think about it right now... i wanna live life and have fun before i wanna have a family. and beatitfarmer when u do find that person and fall in love with them then u wouldn't mind investing in them
-karina
|
|
Jul 05, 01
|
|||
|
|||
|
oh jeez....
Marriage... god christ damn I dunno!!!
I can see myself being married, but that all seems so far away, with two kids... or something like that. But, I dunno, I haven't been able to have a boyfriend, much less a long term relationship that could even possibly lead up to such commitments. I'm young still, so what the hell am I talking about. i guess I'm a bit skeptical, because apparently i'm "picky," so finding someone is really hard for me... who knows? but I'm pretty sure I will:)
|
|
Jul 06, 01
|
|||
|
|||
|
Theres something really scary about getting married and having 2.4 kids and living in the 'burds.... but thats just me...
i doubt I'll ever get married... prolly just have a whole shit load of boyfriends...
|
|
Jul 09, 01
|
|||
|
|||
|
I think I will, but I don't really understand marriage. You don't love someone more if you're married. you'd probably love them less. it's like a bird being put in a cage... the way I see it. Married life is like the life of a bird. if it loves you, it will come back everyday but if you were to put it in a cage it would probably fly away if you left the cage open... well thats how I see it. I think it's better to be in love than to go through marriage. Although marriage is the socially accepted thing to do. I can see myself having grandchildren... strangely enough... but I can't really see who I'd marry.
Peace out
|
|
Jul 12, 01
|
|||
|
|||
|
we'd have to have seperate houses or something.
fuck men suck these days i give up
|
|
Jul 12, 01
|
|||
|
|||
|
hmm..maybe if i ever find a guy that does suck and then yeah..even then it may be iffy..
i'm with wundergirl on how they all suck these days.. blah blah blah...and kids?..hmmm~
|
|
Jul 12, 01
|
|||
|
|||
|
Hopefully one day...
I've never been in love yet...but I'm only 16 and marriage just seems so far away. I wanna finish school and get my career started..But I deffinitly want 2 get married one day!! :027:
|
|
Jul 18, 01
|
|||
|
|||
|
Re: too soon....
Quote:
|
|
Jul 19, 01
|
|||
|
|||
|
I don't know
If I want to get married
i don't think I want to get married to someone who would always want to beat me in things or think lowly of himself. I don't think I ever want to get married maybe I should become a nun. heheh just kidding dragon boi But I want to have fun don't like being followed but that's what marriage brings what a bummber
|
|
Jul 19, 01
|
|||
|
|||
|
2 aLl Da GuY'z......
1......2........3....................RuN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
word'z frum "tRu_@zN_sPiNnA69"
|
|
Aug 01, 01
|
|||
|
|||
|
er...it's possible i suppose.
but i'd say 27 is the youngest i would want to get married. -lauren
|
