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Jun 20, 03
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LOVE?? wanting sombody ... yet so hard to find
i went on a date last night ... and i kept comparing this guy to sombody else . I dont know why really , then after i felt so depressed for so long. Now i just keep thinking too much about things, like if i will ever find sombody that ill love , or if that sombody will ever find me , or how many times will i fall in love , how many times will i get heartbroken , things like that ! and i know im 2 young to be thinking about it but those things worrie me. I feel like i need sombody. sombody i can feel comfortable with and not worrie about what he thinks of me . its so confuzing . love is confuzing . what are your thoughts on love and its weird creations that your mind thinks of?
-Julieann 
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Jun 20, 03
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dont think about it.
itll happen :) as i learned the hard way, youll always find someone when your arent looking.
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Jun 20, 03
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Well said starfish...:)...me personally I try not to fall in love cause the last time I fell in love he broke my heart and cheated on me on Valentine's Day...Now what kind of fuckin boyfriend is that...yah just stick with makin friends so you can always have someone there to cry on or to give you a huge hug when you need one...:)
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Jun 20, 03
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ya i agree totally ... men can kiss my ass . i just want to have fun with my friends and chill on the weekdays . not having to worry about a mans bullshit and messed up prioritys!
-Julieann!
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Jun 20, 03
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just keep dating until you're sick of guys, that's what i did (not intentionally though :P )
i think i'm at that point right now, just saw so many guys that i'm pretty sick of em but hey, now i'm [almost] content with being single until i do find the guy for me
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Jun 20, 03
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ahaa well said KELSTER . very true they tend to just POP out of knowhere when you lest expect it ! lol . but i am feeling alot more calm about the matter thanx to your generious advise!THANX YALL!
-julieann
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Jun 21, 03
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You're young, party hard, have fun.. live life love life.. just enjoy :)
I think people get wayy too caught up in this concept of "love" and they spend all this time searching for "love" or whatever. That time could be so much better spent by doing something you love and just focusing on yourself. I think it's wrong to go out there with the intentions of finding someone.. I think that things work out so much better when they coincidently fall into place. I look at some of my friends that rely on having a boyfriend in order to be happy and I think that's absurd... why should a person's happiness be determined by having another person in their life? I think you shouldn't let your head get caught up in "love" just focus on your own happiness, and deal with things like heartbreak when you need too. Remember that you don't need anybody in order for yourself to be happy.. if you're happy and if you have your head on your shoulders then that's going to prove to be a more beneficial accomplishment than finding some relationship that's almost inevitably going to end within a few years. Good luck Julieann
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Jun 21, 03
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Really nice words, sHaDeS604
I'm currently trying to do all the things you say in your post...i'm really trying to think about how I dont need someone in my life to be happy...i'm really not succeeding though :386: That lonely or empty or missing feeling you get can hit really hard sometimes...
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Jun 21, 03
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it's weird how that happens finding someone when you've given up or least suspect it. i wasen't even looking for love at the time me and my boyfriend got together a year ago.
i think love is somewhat overused and people don't realize what it actually means. it's not just a word...it's a deep emotional feeling that you share with someone special. you'll just know when you're in love..it's the best feeling in the world. sooner or later, you'll never know when that person will enter and be a part of your life.
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Jun 22, 03
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i dun think it's so much looking for someone to love, but being with someone you love to be with.
at such a young age and going out with the intention to find love is just foolhardy. love is not fool hardy, but it's something that can't be bought or intentionally sought. when you break it down, a b/f or g/f is just a friend you can open up sexually with. love is something that develops after time and with acceptance of seeing every side of a person and feeling comfortable to open up emotionally with. at this point in time in my life, i'm not looking for love. i'm looking for someone who i love to be with and someone who i feel comfortable enough to be sexually open with. if that should turn into more emotional forwardness, awesome.
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Jun 22, 03
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My advise is: Dont wait for the "right person" to come.. if you do that, you will only be depressing yourself. If you forget about it, it will come and you'll be the happiest person. Believe me, I was thinking the same thing.. questions came up like: Is the right person ever going to come, and I going to be single, why does everyone else have someone...
but I waited a while and found someone who I want to be with forever... Just give it time hun
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Jun 22, 03
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Jun 22, 03
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deep..
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Jun 22, 03
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GOAT! i think you know what i mean . im just not good at getting my emotions out with words .. that is my trouble ? yes i just want somone to love! not a sex partner . SOMEONE TO LOVE!! how hard is that .. i will go and love my goldfish gumpy! i think its a boy! ? !
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Jun 22, 03
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Love sucks...All it does is tares you appart...
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Jun 23, 03
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woa courtney....the sky must be fallin or something. sean... it was a deep shit moment that had to be said. but then again...this is comin from the guy who's prolly only dated half a dozen girls with a longest relationship of a month. enough said :soak:
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