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Jul 28, 03
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need girl advice quick
Heres my situation, i met a girl a few days ago at a party, she was a bit drunk, i wasnt. We spent like 5 hours straight talking about absolutely everything and were getting along great, and her friend told me that this girl liked me. I get her number, next day i call her to go with me to a movie, she agrees, i have to cancel 20 min later cuz i found out i was grounded, she said she wasnt mad but i dunno. I call her today and we hang out with her and a bunch of her friends, it was kinda boring and neither of us were that talkative and she really didnt do anything when id put my arm around her or anything. I got bored and left, and i asked her if she wanted my number if she wanted to do something later tonight, she said to just call her.
OK! so what should I do?!?! Should I give her a call tonight and ask her to do something with me alone? or get friends to tag along? Or call her another day? I never normally ask for advice, but id like all the help i can get to be with this girl. Sorry i wrote so much! 
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Jul 28, 03
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Dont worry about how she was quiet...people are always like that the next time they see eachother they are just shy...especially when they like someone..dont take it personally..talk to this girl and see what she thinks and maybe it's just not meant to be
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Jul 28, 03
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she wasnt on any drugs. She was drinking, but she really didnt seem that drunk, not even tipsy or anything. Should i just ask her out tonight, just her and me? or wait a few days and see if it was just her mood? Should i ask her straight up, what the whole deal is? thanks for replying!!!
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Jul 28, 03
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Keep in mind that drunken conversations are a lot different than sober ones.
It would be a shame if she was one of those people that needs substances to come out of their shell, or in order to be comfortable around other people. But it's too early on to determine that especially since you hung out with a group of her friends as well. I say give her a call either today or tomorrow and make plans to hang out.. JUST the two of you! Don't wait too long to call her because that will show her a lack of interest.. good luck
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Jul 28, 03
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it wasnt really a drunk conversation, i was totally sober, and she seemed normal even though she was drinking. But you might be right about that shell thing! I didnt think of that, thank you so much!
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Jul 28, 03
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you need to call her and ask her straight up why she's giving you the cold shoulder. its the only way you'll find out what shes really thinking
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Jul 31, 03
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Advice: Don't bitch her out, girl's usually bring friends a long with them to meet you because it's a security net for them. She is more than likely shy about talking to new people, your goal should be to make her laugh because once you do that the hole relationship will loosen up. I've been in awkward situations with people I didn't know and by making someone laugh I've found that it just loosens everyone up.
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Jul 31, 03
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Yeah man,try it one on one..if you dont hit it off after that then your'll know right. Usally I like to hang out one on one because you dont have people around to distract you..Hope you have good luck with this! *hugglez*
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Jul 31, 03
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^^^^holy monologue!
dude. call her...and BE YOURSELF! hello...no grrl wants to be attracted to some guy because he's not "overtalking"...or trying to be "mYsterious"...for real just be yourself... she'll either like you or she won't! and vica versa! geez...it's not the end of the world if it doesn't work out.... ps~why would you take a guy's advice over a grrl's in this? guys so don't have chicks figured out! ha!
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Jul 31, 03
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^excuse me? guys have all the info in the world..........lol j/j
here's what i would do.........don't call tonight (if tonight is the day after) call the following morning, see if she wants to hang out during the day, then dinner/movie.........see how that goes (if she agrees) then decide for urself.......
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Jul 31, 03
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don't be too pushy by like calling her to hang out right afterwards ut most likly girls when they're around thier friends don't act the same at all.. just call and talk and be like well would u wanna do somthing again sometime then just kinda chat on the phone because ya most ppl if their shy in real life o nthe phone she should be more relaxed.. good luck!
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Jul 31, 03
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But yeah, so whats happened is, i couldnt get ahold of her yesterday, so then i called her friend seeing if she (her friend) wanted to hang out today. So we hung out, both her friend and the girl i liked showed up. Me and her friend were getting along great, not so much the girl i like. So ive basically given up on her, i dont think shes interested, either that or shes playing really weird games. But im seeing her tomorrow at a party, so well see if things go well like at the last party when we met.
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Jul 31, 03
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by the way elguato i really liked your advice! thanks :D
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Aug 16, 03
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Aug 16, 03
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girls that do that piss me off so much, what's wrong with calling the poor guy if you like him? daym! mindgames like that are so played out!
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Aug 17, 03
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Aug 18, 03
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Whats with you kids and rules???
Im 100% behind just being who you realy are and do what makes you feel comfortable. Yeah no one likes it if you call ALL the time unessesarly DUH. But do what you feel comfortable with. Its no fun when you try to be somone your not. U like her, CALL! So meny chicks complain when guys never call, thinking that they dont care.
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Aug 22, 03
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call her and take her on a crazy trip of your mind in an electric blue roadster.
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Aug 23, 03
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i think you should just ask her straight up. and then talk about it for a bit and see if she is up to do anything wit you alone and maybe you guys could get to know eachother again. and maybe she was just shy cause she does like you and maybe she didn't want to make herself look stupid around you or something like that.
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