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Sep 21, 01
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because not many people are there to listen..
because people bullshit about being there for you when in truth you know that if you confronted them with it, they would turn their heads.. some people rather ignore than to face things.. some people just don't care... some people.. just suck. 
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Sep 21, 01
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nobody is ever there for me... anyone wanna be? yikes... i'm on the phone with my best friend right now... she's crying about how drunk she is, and how she misses her boy... depressing... she just puked on the phone... lovely... "you're always there" she says. "i have nothing else to do" i reply... she won't shutup... someone else call me! ahhhh
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Sep 23, 01
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ive been able to do that a lot better lately... making me feel all warm and fuzzy inside... maybe ill give up the ASC cult for a while... NOOO... i swear, i am not sappy... damn you erica! dont even say that. im "hardcore" lets not forget that. rarrrarr.
im kinda sick of ppl always going "theres no one there for me" self pity bullshit. no direct hit on bob or anything, but i notice a lot of people do that.. maybe if they let someone be there for them, or stop crying wolf about it and toughen up. they wouldnt be shitting themselves everytime something they dont like happens.
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Sep 23, 01
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that's great leslie sounds like ur doin purdy good ;)
abandoning the asc? DAMN YOUUUU *shakes head in disappointment* haha.. j/j well maybe you're right.. i guess in truth there are people who are there, but it just doesn't feel like it sometimes ;) but i think it's easier to say that when you really DO have some one that is there for you 'by ur side..'.. or "Feel" you do.
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Sep 23, 01
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yoko, i would never desert my ASC crew ;] dont you worry. but yeah, ive been a lot happier lately, although i do miss our late night talks. WHERE ARE YOU AT 4 AM MISSY???
ppl dont like sharing their emotions and such cuz they dont want other ppl to know more about them, cuz the more you know, the more of an advantage you have over someone. you could use and abuse the information if you wanted. or you could be just some selfish bitch and you dont care to share anything because you dont wanna lose bits and pieces of yourself as you try to open up to someone else, i mean what you told them something about you and they agreed that it was horrible and made them not want you or something? btw thanks for the negative karma points bob. :D:
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Sep 23, 01
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where am I at 4 am in the morning?
haa most-likely sleeping now... trying to catch up on that so I don't fall asleep in class. hehe.. *mehhhhh* the things you have to give up to give in something else... rahh.... one night I'll pull an all-niter, u better be there or else! i need caffeine ;(
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Sep 23, 01
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hmmm..late nite chats..gotta luv those..
but with people being quiet or less willing to open up..they could be insecure with themselves..or scared of getting hurt by the ones they thought they could trust..i mean..and sum peopel do understand and give good input..but others dont accept sum things..or give bad input thats just not needed...its hard to know wut to tell people..or how much... i, personally, think i use to open up too much..i mean..its really easy to gain my trust and for me to open up to u..but once a person disappoints me..its never the same..i won't be close to half as open as before..i dunno...a lil protective barrier is always nice to have.. some feelings can be easy to share..but others can be sooo damn hard to even bring up....and since i hate and always avoid confrontations..my feelings are always hidden and shoved back..sum things just aren't nice to share..~
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Oct 05, 01
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OH YA! Especially if something bugs you, or you need space to think, then let the other know...that way they know why you are behaving the way you are...trust me, you don't explain what's going on...thoughts and I mean MANY thoughts run through your head!
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Oct 07, 01
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i've never been too open with ppl..but i used to be alot more open with ppl then i am now. i used to be so much mroe trusting, but i've ogtten hurt alot by that so i'v ejust, toned it down in a way. i don't trust as easily. and i'm not as open. i mean certain things i'll share i don't care..but there's alot that alot of ppl don't know... and i'll admit it, the reason i don't open up and share my feelings as much is cuz i'm insecure..a bout who i am and what not.. i'm not even sure yet so i don't know how ppl will react and it's just.. i'm not ready to..
but for some ppl it just comes easier, others it doesn't. but everyones different so you can't expect everyone to just be able to open up just like -that-! we are who we are.. we're all different.. our experiences are what shape our lives and what not..so you can't expect everyone to just be able to communicate their feelings that easily.... when u open up to someone, you expose yourself, your making yourself vulnerable. by sharing ur deepest thoughts, or secrets with someone, you make urself an easy target for attack. if that person attacks or not, well that's their choice. sometimes they can use the info against u. and it hurts. that's why u have to be careful who u tell this info to. it's why you don't just tell everyone everything. you tell those u trust. but trust can be hard to gain... depends on the person..
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