I am a fink

[Magi]

So I was at a club yesterday

standing by the dance floor, I was scoping the crowd, sipping some canadian

and then out of the blue, this chick comes out of nowhere and asks me to dance.

Now, lemme just say that I found her very unattractive. I made some lameass excuse, something about not liking the song and politely turned her down.

I don't know why I did. Her offer was sincere, and just the mere fact she had the guts to come up to me in front of my buds and ask for a dance merits a song or two on the floor, but I guess I didn't wanna lose face or something I dunno...

but later on I felt terrible about it. What's the harm in dancing with her? I guess I was just flattered and felt high and mighty for a second. This isn't the first time I've been asked to dance by a stranger, but it's the first time I've turned them down. I of all people should be one of the last to be rejecting others. I am no prize myself.

that will never happen again


but yea just wanted to let you all know that I am an arrogant snob. :(

[donkey punch]

some people just need to realize that they are not in your league
you cant help it that your a sex God

[crookedking]

and i thought you were talking about being a rat.

[ebbomega]

I've done one thing I've sincerely considered Assholish in my life.

Whenever I think about it I beat myself up. The fact that everything turned out alright in the end means squat all. I've apologized to what I believe God is (I use the word for lack of a better one), to the people involved, both to their faces and in my own silent prayers (again, using the word for lack of a better one). But one thing I've learned is that it's usually inevitable at some point for us to go against our moral code. I think the most important thing about it is to notice when you do it and don't try to lie to yourself with excuses. Call it what it is and only then can you start to fix the situation.

[No trace]

Dude, you cant beat yourself up cuz you werent interested. If you did you would be settling for less, and thats no way to go. Being the nice guy and dancing with her would have just led to more troubles down the road. Trust me. Been there.

[yoko*]

it's ok to reject people.

:145:

[stringbeans]

i thought this post was about you being FNK .. i obviously cant read

[jawa]

i wouldnt worry about it too much. if your just going too feel awkward there is no point. As long as you said no, in a nice way, i dont see how you were being an asshole

[Kelster]

hah i turned down some chubby mexican at the plaza on friday!

rejection sucks, but that's life

[samosa]

its alrite to reject someone.. its better to reject them in the first place than to give someone the idea that u want them :toasted: