Umm....

sweetAZNbear · #1 (**permalink**) Oct 24, 01

Lately there's been this guy (I'm pretty sure you guys know WHO), and he writes a lot of things to/towards me... I'm wondering should I be flattered? Or afraid of this? They are nice things but it's a little bit scary to say the least... CONSIDERING WE HAVE NEVER MET, and only talked on ICQ 2 times!!

Help!

~lazee_grrl~ · #2 (**permalink**) Oct 24, 01

i'm just wondering if u know for sure that all that he's writing is directed at u...don't ask me..cuz i have no clue...but yeah..don't assume its all to u..cuz it could possibly not be...but if it is..then go ahead and be scared...be wutever u feel...and if u dunno wut u feel..then ur confused rite?..yupz...and to solve a few more things..why don't u msg him or sumthign and ask him about it?

bebe · #3 (**permalink**) Oct 24, 01

dude grow up...

its just a message board..... why do u care so much??
as jen said, it may very well not be towards u so stop being so paranoid......
also, why r u so gullable?!!?
all i gotta say is stop tripping and stop thinking abt it so much.... ur over reacting...

~elmar

bob · #4 (**permalink**) Oct 24, 01

just tell him to get lost... i'm sure he'll understand... afterall, it's just a message board... if it's bothering you, then u shouldn't put up with it...

but i dunno... maybe talk to him about it first if u think it's worth talking about... i'm sure there's a reason why he's doing this.........

T U F F Y · #5 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 01

Deal it outside this forum, perhaps you will have a more clear view on rather you are just being too sensitive or there ARE other reasons behind it.

Goodluck.

rawb · #6 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 01

post a vauge message about it, not adressed to him, on a message board he frequents.

r.

bob · #7 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 01

i think you should be flattered.

"this guy" (whoever he is) probably has a little crush on you. and i mean, even if he is a derranged stalker, psychopathic internet serial rapist transvestite, he still thinks ur cute, and you mite be worthy (in his mind) of being stalked by him.

i would be quite flattered if someone was stalking me.

maybe you led him on somehow. and maybe he thought he had a chance with you. maybe some of his friends saw it too, and built up his confidence by telling him that it does seem like he has a chance...

i think you should ask yourself what you want. asking other people for advice is one thing, taking their advice is another thing. live by your own decisions, live your own life. if you're freaked out by this guy, and u think he approached u wrong. then use that in your decision. tell him you're not interested and u want him to go away. if you're flattered, then u should still think about the situation, and u should probably talk to him about it. maybe you'll find that you like him, fix things up and live happily ever after... or maybe not...

maybe ... i donno...

tell him how u feel... i *think* that's all he really wants. i'm sure he'll understand, and accept what you want.

#8 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 01

this thread is lame.
i'm going to vomit.
where's my bucket?

drummer:188:

Sir_K · #9 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 01

Thats pretty lame.

A guy cant approach a girl repeatedly over the messageboard.

That is the kind of thing that needs to be done in person. Some people have no balls at all.

bob · #10 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 01

i have balls.
they're just on the other side of my avatar.

Sean · #11 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 01

Who needs TV soaps when you have F&K!

bob · #12 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 01

keep the flaming to a minimum guys... i know you're all just fun and games right now, but i think this is a serious issue...

i can really see this thread getting out of hand, and the minute it does, i'll opt to have it deleted...

sorry for being a narc. but i'm kinda edgy with this section right now.

even though i do agree with the soap opera thing. but if u don't have anything helpful to say, then don't bother......

especially you akeel. if u flip me off 1 more time, i'm gonna paint your mustang purple, slap on some gold rims, and drive it around my neighbourhood... aiming for old men in their pj's... i got your bucket right here.

#13 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 01

Quote:

Originally posted by bob

especially you akeel. if u flip me off 1 more time, i'm gonna paint your mustang purple, slap on some gold rims, and drive it around my neighbourhood... aiming for old men in their pj's... i got your bucket right here.

OUCH!!!

Damn that stung, bob! You really hurt my immigrant feelings...I'm now going to get back on the boat I came in on and move back home - to New West where I was born :)

You lay a hand on my stang and I'm going to come over to your house with so much curry your landlords will think your bathing in that shit!

drummer:188:

(seriously though, no harm intended)

Serotonin · #14 (**permalink**) Oct 25, 01

the worst thing when you give a girl a compliment is when they doubt your honesty?The reason we say nice things it to make people feel good about themselves is this wrong?i think bob is trying to make you feel more comfortable about being you because he thinks highly of you so just accept it gracefully. :)this thread should have stayed between the 2 who are involved bringing this out to the public seems a little hurtful...