fading feelings

[Kazuma]

- Im feeling not so funky

[MC Hammered]

It's called puberty.

[Kazuma]

That's what im thinking. Young and the old "don't realize what you have until it's gone", saying.

[Sariel]

Usually it means they have been feeling that way for a while, but have not admitted it, even to themselves.

[Kazuma]

Apperantly they took one day to think and bam! Bye Bye. At the same they continue to tell you that you 'did nothing wrong' and to 'move on'.

[stringbeans]

yeah that's harsh.. best thing to do is to just try and hang out with friends as much as possible until it doesnt hurt any more.. thats what i did when it happened to me

[Prissypants]

We don't always want what is good for us.

[Kazuma]

Stringbeans - Yeah that's what im thinking. For sure.

Prissypants - So you saying it was good for them to stay, but they don't see it? Or just don't want it?

[cityqueen]

Originally Posted by Sariel

Usually it means they have been feeling that way for a while, but have not admitted it, even to themselves.

It sucks to say it....but it's true. Obviously this person has had mixed feelings for awhile, but either didn't want to admit it, or tried to ignore it.
If they are able to say "bye bye" and "move on" pretty much overnight, then you are probably better off without them.
Try to think of it as their loss, not yours.

[Prissypants]

Originally Posted by optics

Prissypants - So you saying it was good for them to stay, but they don't see it? Or just don't want it?

Not to offend but I will tell you a little story to clarify. I was once dating this girl. I dated her for two years. She was totally sweet, all my friends loved her, she was super cute, she treated me like a king, she was totally good for me. There was nothing wrong with her at all. For some strange reason though (which I still to this day can't put my finger on) I just never truly felt it in my heart. I always really liked her and almost convinced myself that I was in love with her but I eventually decided to be true to myself and break it off. It was the right thing to do. Perhaps this is what your friend is feeling toward you. I agree with the statement that it was probably building for awhile. Sometimes there are no warning signals. I know I never gave any. Then again I may be totally off base.

I hope everything works out for you though.

[Jingles]

Originally Posted by Prissypants

Not to offend but I will tell you a little story to clarify. I was once dating this girl. I dated her for two years. She was totally sweet, all my friends loved her, she was super cute, she treated me like a king, she was totally good for me. There was nothing wrong with her at all. For some strange reason though (which I still to this day can't put my finger on) I just never truly felt it in my heart. I always really liked her and almost convinced myself that I was in love with her but I eventually decided to be true to myself and break it off. It was the right thing to do. Perhaps this is what your friend is feeling toward you. I agree with the statement that it was probably building for awhile. Sometimes there are no warning signals. I know I never gave any. Then again I may be totally off base.

I hope everything works out for you though.

I dated this same person but in male form
and I did the same thing
although i gave some warning signals....like no more sex.....that's a good one...

but youknow what - cause i couldn't put myself 100% into it -i wasn't the best choice for him either -- It's the whole 'if you love something let it go' stuff
we were a lovely couple - but not right for one another ...so it was best to go our seperate ways..even though he didnt' think so at the time
but now he's with someone and they totally MESH and he's happy and I'm happy for him
so in my situation it worked out...down the road
just remember this isn't he end of your road my dear :)

[hardstylin]

Originally Posted by Jingles

I dated this same person but in male form
and I did the same thing
although i gave some warning signals....like no more sex.....that's a good one...

but youknow what - cause i couldn't put myself 100% into it -i wasn't the best choice for him either -- It's the whole 'if you love something let it go' stuff
we were a lovely couple - but not right for one another ...so it was best to go our seperate ways..even though he didnt' think so at the time
but now he's with someone and they totally MESH and he's happy and I'm happy for him
so in my situation it worked out...down the road
just remember this isn't he end of your road my dear :)

Fuck i hate when girls pull that no more sex bullshit, rather then just come out and tell you they want it to be over they just start acting like retards, and even when u ask them if things are bad they just lie and say no no everything is fine stringing you on longer.

[Kazuma]

Thanks everyone... friends have made me realize a lot of good things. If she realizes she fucked up then we will talk. Other than that there are plently more Japanese fish in the sea.

[Josie]

jap fish WEEHHHH there will be tons to catch once ur in japan!!! dun wry cody san

[Kazuma]

Originally Posted by babi-xtc

jap fish WEEHHHH there will be tons to catch once ur in japan!!! dun wry cody san

Im not going for a while now. Going to hit up some schooling first then head out. Not until early 2005.

[Lunch Box]

Good Plan.. Hey apparently they have vending machines for everything out there.. get a gurl outa vending machine.. and if you don't want her recycle her... at least thats how i think things work.