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Oct 28, 01
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JUST a girlfriend
ok USUALLY u hear people saying stuff like "i JUST want a casual relationship..." "i JUST want sex..." "i JUST want ra ra ra..."
well i JUST want a girlfriend... no sex, no fighting, no ra ra ra... last nite at spooky, i had 3 girls "offer" their "services(?)" to me... 3!!! this is the first party i've been to in a while, and the first bit of contact i've had in a couple months... one of the girls wouldn't stop talking to me, and she kept on kissing me on the cheek everytime she ran off to dance or whatever... i told her to stop because my wife might get mad. she said, "well, i kissed you, you didn't kiss me"... fuck whatever... i later find out that she's the local girl in snyx's area, if u know what i mean... something like that ... good thing i didn't do anything with that girl... not like i wanted to anyways........... she was ok to talk to cuz we had shit in common, but i dun care, i'm sitting in this corner for a reason [leave me to die please]... the 2 other girls just came outta nowhere and asked if i wanted to "hook up for a bit"... wtf is that? how do i reply to that? "sorry i don't have any money...(?)" ... i told them to leave me alone so i could sleep... ...and then winnie seemed mad at me throughout the whole nite :( maybe it was just me... maybe i shouldn't have thrown so many french fries at her butt in BK... i JUST want a girlfriend... i THOUGHT that used to be the easy part!! the hard part USED TO BE getting your girlfriend to sleep with you... does this change as u get older? i guess so......... everyone my age has come to some sort of realization that relationships are a waste of time, so let's just fuck and improve our daily schedules!?! wahaaa!?! i mean, i may have come to that conclusion, that "relationships are a waste of time" but fuck... i've got at least 1 more day ahead of me, so i've got PLENTY of time to waste... BRING THE GOD DAMN RELATIONSHIP ON, I NEED SOMETHING TO DO FOR FUCK'S SAKE!!! ok i've said my piece. *sketch sketch sketch* 
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Oct 28, 01
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*SIGH*
I know exactly how you feel...
I've done the casual relationship thing... the just sex thing... all that fucking crap and I can honestly say it really fucking sucks. I'm sick and tired of being one of "x" amount of girls... I wanna be just that one ya know? Sure sex is fun and I love it just as much as the next person but I want to just be with someone... hang out with them... watch movies... talk... you know actually get to really know someone and hey who knows maybe fall desperatly in love with them and live happily ever after. Now I'm not saying that right now I wanna run off and get married but I'm seriously looking to be with just one guy... exclusively... for a serious amount of time. I you like to go out and fuck whoever that's totally your choice and if that makes you happy be my guest but we all know that somewhere along the lines emotions always get involved and with emotions comes a great deal of pain... or so I've felt/seen time and time again. Granted being with just one person can sometimes be just as painful in the end but it's so much more complex when there's more than just the two of you... things ALWAYS get fucked up and people ALWAYS get hurt. *grumbles* Sorry I guess I just have a few things on my mind as of late... that and seeing my first love last night for the first time in over a month *sigh* ya.... can we say a few mental issues right now?? But ya hun I agree... hand the relationships over because dammit... I really want one again... I miss them *pout*
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Oct 28, 01
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Re: *SIGH*
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ugh..would right more but I'm running on a lack of sleep...and can't think...
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Oct 28, 01
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I couldn't agree more.
What really sucks though is when you THINK you have that, and the other person fucks with your head and yahhh...no fun no fun. Before getting into a relationship, I think one needs to know just what they want and so does the other person. This needs to be discussed. I mean, changing your mind halfway through the relationship isn't fucking cool.....it hurts.
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Oct 28, 01
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raaaaa
u know what else sucks!?! i have the PERECT RELATIONSHIP with my ex-gf... we go out all the time, sit around and drink coffee, we can call each other and meet up without thinking twice, we're always there for each other, and yea... it's such a reliable relationship, and i REALLY ADMIRE reliability in a person... so why does that suck!?! other than the fact that i can't sleep with her? well, probably just the fact that whenever i do need a hug, or someone to cuddle up with late at nite, i can't depend on her for that... i'm sure i "could", cuz we had a couple encounters back in february, but i had a gf at the time, so i .... wait no i didn't have a gf at that particular moment... anyways... it just sucks that i can have such a perfect relationship, but it's lacking so much at the same time.... comfort is a big thing for me, i feel a need to cling onto a teddy bear just as much as every 11 year old girl ... that's what i get for being raised in a house with me being the only guy among 2 females....?
i just wish i could find a girl that i could have both the "going out" and the "staying in" relationships down perfectly... no hassles... am i really asking for too much? "JUST a girlfriend"...?
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Oct 28, 01
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i think you're asking too much, now how about reading my reasoning for saying so before you run to snyx crying to wipe your ass for you about me posting in "YOUR" section.
first off, you are at spooky 6, HAHAH. you didnt expect the girls to be "decent"? im guessing a huge sum of the girls there heard it on the radio, saw the flyer at school or bought their tickets from tickemaster. *stereotype much today stabby? a lil* so they dont really have standards now lets just say.. :) wanting to have a gf is a simple idea, its a simple desire.. obtaining it is the big thing, nowadays most girls dont want to be tied down, there are too many other "potential mates" or they are "too busy" or "too screwed over by their previous relationships to want to be in one" or they are just lesbians or "bisexual". not much girls want to settle down with someone thats dull and just wants to sit around and rot to death. girls wanna go where the action is y0! oh and why you and jessica cant go out again, as you said it, "ewwwww.. have you seen her?" personally i think you are feeling lonely as you are coming down from your night at spooky. you always post a "look at me im so lonely - hug me you ravers" post on here after your night of drugs. so meh.
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Oct 28, 01
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uhhh i don't need drugs to post about my desperation...
and yes, eww to jessica... not everyone thinks like you stabhead... i'm sure there's some girl out there that sees things the way i do, and when i find her... well i'm gonna poke her eyes out and spare her... or i'll ask her out... and yea, the girls at spooky were pretty trashy... especially those "F&K girls"... heh...
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Oct 28, 01
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hey cleve, i never said that every girl thought like that now did i? nor did i say that ALL the girls at spooky were like that, just a huge sum ;] learn to read properly cleve.
hell i would be perfectly content with a mellowed out relationship, actually since im broke as shit i dont have much of a choice ;] but ever think you are a lil TOO dull..? that maybe if you showed a lil enthusiasm and whatnot.. some girls might actually want to be with you? ha. good luck either way friendly stabby advice.
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Oct 28, 01
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and yes i like my new purple stang! drummer:188:
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Oct 29, 01
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stabby can you stop trying to find a loophole in my words to start an argument with me. friendly advice my ass.
yes, i am too dull. i wonder why. maybe i have no reason to dance around at a party like a fool. it's not like i had anyone to impress at spooky, so why can't i walk around like a bitter mofo? it seemed to work, i had 3 girls on me just cuz i was sitting in the corner doing nothing. akeel, it's easy for you to have a good time and ra ra ra because you've got shit laid out for you. you have a reason to be happy and have a good time. i don't. i'm sure if i had a gf, i'd be running around at a party doing stupid stuff (I CAN BACK THAT UP). if i had a gf that partied, i'd be stapling underwear to my hoody and jumping through windows, singing celine dion songs at the top of my lungs in mcdonald's... but when ur single, you don't have that kind of confidence to look like a fool. i mean, i always look like a fool, but sometimes i have to limit myself, especially when the kind of girl i mite be looking for isn't the kind of girl who enjoys watching a guy do stupid shit just to get a laugh, even though i do a lot of things just for a laugh, it's just different when i'm single. how do i know what kinda guy a girl wants? not every girl just wants a guy who can make her laugh... sometimes i get dirty looks from cute girls cuz i try to impress them by saying i can chew peanut butter with my nostrils... it's all in the mind, and yes, i am too dull. thank you get off my back. i have fun when i'm in a good mood. just cuz neither of you have seen me in a good mood ever, doesn't mean u can accuse me of being too dull.... lately i've been TRYING to be a little more dull, because i feel that the weird, wild and crazy bob doesn't generate the right kind of response from people i know... i don't like getting that "yea he's a goofball, but that's all" impression from people... maybe i'd like some people to think i'm a little more than that... i think i've already proved to a lot of people that i AM kinda "strange"... whatever... if i'm dull around a girl, then i don't want to be around her either... so it works out... if it turns out that i get in a good mood around a certain girl, and i'm kinda energetic when i see her, then i think maybe she could do some good to me and i mite get a little crush on her... but i'm not so naive that i'm gonna try to ask out a girl that i just stand around and do nothing with... ughh i'm going back to sleep...
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Oct 29, 01
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Don't fret Bob, I know how you feel.
I'm dull sometimes, I can admit it! So what if I like to stay home with my boy and cuddle and watch movies and make kraft dinner? There's nothing wrong with that! It's not WHAT you're doing....it's the company you share it with!
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Oct 29, 01
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meh...im all sketchy and i know this is a thread that would make me want to go all fuckin weird and mushy about my gf and shit so because ive realized that while reading these posts im gonna shut the fuck up right now....
i remember last year sometime i was sick of being out of a relationship since my relationship with my first gf had ceased and i was sick of jus fooling around with the odd girl...becuz for one the sex was never good becuz i never really cared for the girl....and two...the sex wasn't as frequent as i would have preferred.... so yeah...that was when i was on my relationship hunt...and u know something...becuz i was on the hunt...i always jumped the gun....like 3 times something almost happened....and once i had a girl lead me on cuz she's got problems....the second one changed her mind and decided to eventually hooking back up with her old crush or something like that....we weren't well matched anyway but becuz i wanted a relationship i ignored....and the third one i stole this guys gf then he cried and got her back and he wasn't too impressed with me lets jus say that.....hehe.. but my present gf found me and had liked me for months before i ever had a clue....she told me that she had feelings for me..haha..in the funniest way possible...and yeah its all good from there.... jus don't think about it... girls can tell if ur that preoccupied with it...u might come across as desperate...i don't think thats the most "becoming" quality in a guy.... corrie
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Oct 29, 01
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dont know if you know this, but there is more of a chance a girl will approach you when you are sitting down instead of going nuts cuz they think you're high and you've settled down in a spot.. if you are flailing and whatnot.. chances are they dont wanna get hit ;]
way to get all defensive and twist my words around.. you will blow this out of proportion just so you have a reason to bitch at me, it was some advice to you, and i dont seem to of been the only that that suggested it, so maybe you should stop being sucha dick about it. "So what if I like to stay home with my boy and cuddle and watch movies and make kraft dinner? There's nothing wrong with that! " i do that all the time natalie, its the best ;] except when you put all these weird ingredients and spices in the KD and your partner makes you eat it.. EWWWW... *cries* "jus don't think about it... girls can tell if ur that preoccupied with it...u might come across as desperate...i don't think thats the most "becoming" quality in a guy.... " thats so true corrie, you seem to know women even better than i do.. damn.
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Oct 29, 01
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two words bob: SINGLES NIGHT
nuff said
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Oct 29, 01
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baaaaaahahahahaha...
i think i'll reconsider being single after u said that... i don't need a girlfriend anyways... ...but i really wish i hadn't jumped the gun on *someone* recently... :043: Last edited by bob; Oct 29, 01 at 12:01 PM.
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Oct 29, 01
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ur goin nuts man lol....
stop trying to analyze everything... sometimes u just gotta let things happen..... like sometimes things happen 4 the strangest reasons..... what i do is that i never look 4 a bf.... u just gotta let em come to u... sometimes i really believe in fate.... so stop worrying dear.... just be urself.... and ur do fine.... dont change urself just to impress a girl... ~elmar
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Oct 29, 01
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it was only a thought
thats all man go down to a mall or some where with lots of peepo with ya friends and hunt there u wont find ne one at home man trust me
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