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Jul 04, 04
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A break.
as of lately.. I've been wanting to take the raving thing slow.. cause.. well all you fucking ravers are always around.. and I'm personally NOT a fan of this.. but some people just dont seem to understand...
I guess I'd be fine with it if it was just a rave then go home.. not have all you treck to down the hall from my place n come knocking on my fucking door asking if so n son is here.. cause no one is welcome over.. ugh.. n just drugs are every where...wut are you doin? Maybe I dont understand cause I never go into E.. just not my bag of chips.. but fuck... I need a break from it all... So.. I did get away for the night.. which was unfortunate.. I had to leave my own fucking place to get a break.. why can't I stay home n get a break instead of having to come out to my parents... *shivers* Granted I got to see my best friend and have a much needed chat with my parents.. but the thought of having to get away from my house sucks my left tit. Like does anyone else feel they just need to take a weekend easy? I saw Aaron aka Palook yesterday.. on my way to my parents and he was wondering where I was goin... told him.. how shit was.. and he understood.. N told me to get lost and take my break... Like not goin to see raver for the past while has been good.. like on Canada day.. I chilled with old friends... Sure they rave.. but I have know then longer.. and wow did it feel good NOT to be raving... *sigh* I'm gonna try the rave thing again tonight cause some old friends are coming out.. n well tis a diffrent crowd, thanx gawd. but if I don't enjoy myself tonight.. fuck the raving I'm gone. 
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Jul 04, 04
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MmMmMmmm sucking the left tit *drools*
Err... I mean... ummm ya. I understand babe. Sometiems the ravey raving n the drugs get to be too much. In those cases you know you can always chillax with me n crash at my place or Ry's. I'll be happy to see you tonight though as I hardly ever go out anymore. We should have fun n if not we can always chill outside of "the scene" because you know I'm more then a ravey rave friend. *kisses* I lubs j00 Jovi_is_me.
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Jul 04, 04
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omg jnetter..i understand...it would drive me crazy to have everyone coming over ever two minutes and then even the ones that call up to your place because maybe no ones answering at the other one.
it drove me crazy just that one night...i seriously dont know how you deal with it every nite everyone...have some respect and let people have their time and their privacy k?! you know what was nice? the night that it was just you and me and moosehead
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Jul 04, 04
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if you wanna get away from raves youre gonna have to do some harsh shit..cuz youve made alot decisions which have only further immersed you into the rave scene.
we all need our breaks form this shit...i know exactly how you feel whcih is why im there for you babe.......i think youve been do for a long long break..there just seems to be too mucyh actuion going on in your life. you know that "they" say is that social life is ultimately more stressful then work life because of all the interpersonal shit going on...i think you may just need to take a vacation from your social life and turn into a fuckin hermit
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Jul 04, 04
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Think about it this way:
The only other things that people usually say they need a break from are unpleasant things like work, school or an annoying family. When you say these things about something that you are supposed to be doing for fun (raving) then that thing has obviously become not a fun thing for you to do. Stop raving for awhile. You are making a good decision. You may have outgrown it, or maybe just this particular scene.
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Jul 05, 04
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i hear ya.
i can relate in a big way but i dont think its mainly the deviant nature of raves that is making the experience not so fun anymore.... it's mainly ourselves. balance is key and i struggled with it all the time, all my life... the saying work hard play hard is something everyone should definetly make a huge effort to live by. If you're not working hard but playing hard all the time, playing starts to become stressful because you're escaping reality and leaving really important things unattended. if you're all work, no play, then jeez how much more miserable is that? once you get all your shit done, working hard to get those good grades, exercising hard as much as you can to stay in shape, working hard at work, getting that well deserved bonus or promotion... in general not being lazy, then when it comes to raving, you'll always feel much more deserving to go out and have a serious blast. i struggle with this all the time but always manage to get back on track.. then down again... its been an up and down cycle for me and i'm trying to fix that.. my biggest life goal right now is definetly stability through consistancy. lifes tough but it goes on....
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Jul 05, 04
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Seriously Jovi, if it's that hard (and I know it can be...I was in that position too), get a new NON-rav0r roommate and get a new place.
Living in a rav0r crash pad was fun for a while, but it loses its charm pretty quickly when the only place you can go to "get some space" is your room or out of the house. It's stressful and it doesn't make home feel very home-like. Getting out of that kind of a situation and into something more stable will make you feel a MILLION times better. It worked for me anyways... I know moving sucks royal ass, but it's something to think about anyways...
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Jul 05, 04
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Raver drop in centers suck serious anus. RUN AWAY!!!!!
It can be tough in that type of living situation. You should keep your home your home, and raves where they belong. I don't know your whole situation, but I know the frustration of having random people always poping up in your personal space. If it's the people you live with letting this get out of hand you need to have a serious talk with them. Or if it's just people you know that just don't seem to understand the boundry between home and party central, then you need to lay down the law with them. If it doesn't stick that really sucks and at that point I would consider moving away and not giving the new address out. (although I hope it doesn't come to that.) I would hate dealing with that feeling of invasion all the time. Hope that it can turn around for you soon. Time to kick some raver ass out of your home base. Last edited by Kandyapple; Jul 05, 04 at 02:41 PM.
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Jul 05, 04
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And regardless of the fact I met you through raving, I'm not into raving at all really as of quite a while now so I'm more than down for non-rave hanging out especially with my jovi and my cerah. Not to mention I don't see either of you nearly enough!!
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Jul 09, 04
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k, first off!
My house is NOT the rave apparment.. it's the ppl down the hall! I made it quite clear to my room mates that it's not gonna be aparty hosue this time.. and if it does.. I WILL leave.. and I'll break our lease! but all is well.. its just some ppl don't understand that I need a break.. which is fucking giegh! like... if anyone has known me.. they would know how it is.. for my raving part of my life... I dont go hard ever.. like once in a blue moon.. but as of the past long while.. I'm supose to go hard.. and fuck.. I dont want.. so fucking sue me if I wanna stay home and have a beer and watch o movie.. or just do anything but rave or party! But all is well.. I've been getting away.. hangin out with ol'skool friends! But thanx for all your in put ppl.. made moi think! Glad to see there's still some ppl with brains on this board ;)
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Jul 14, 04
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I figured what was wrong... cause last weekend I rather enjoyed myself..
its the fucking ravers that drive me insane... theres a very select few I can hang out with.. just cause I hate seeing the drug intake and ew! I miss last sumer.. it was awsome... no fucktardes!
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Jul 14, 04
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Werd, this summer sucks
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Jul 14, 04
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^^^ that was a fun party the beginning of it before it really started and got packed was anyways
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